What is considered obsessing over a girl?

[Razor]

And when is to much too much?

[JohnnyVegas]

When you change your behavior. When you find yourself feeling anxious or worried because of her. When you find out she interacted with another guy during the day and your stomach drops. When you check in on her Facebook or call her with the main purpose of checking in on her. When you put off things you want to do because you don't want to miss any opportunity to race to her side to do whatever inane thing she wants to do (doesn't count if she wants to do something you are also interested in). When you ask questions that suggest you are obsessed - if you think you might have a problem, you probably have a problem.

[xelnaga]

When you find yourself in handcuffs at 2am next to her bedroom window, for the second time that month.

[Razor]

When you change your behavior. When you find yourself feeling anxious or worried because of her. When you find out she interacted with another guy during the day and your stomach drops. When you check in on her Facebook or call her with the main purpose of checking in on her. When you put off things you want to do because you don't want to miss any opportunity to race to her side to do whatever inane thing she wants to do (doesn't count if she wants to do something you are also interested in). When you ask questions that suggest you are obsessed - if you think you might have a problem, you probably have a problem.

Ok I check her facebook daily, just cause I like to see pics of her and what she is up too, she is my gf. I dont care if she interacts with other guys, nothing I can do. I do get worried about her sometimes. But not anxious, and I am happy on a daily basis without her..am I obsessed?

When you find yourself in handcuffs at 2am next to her bedroom window, for the second time that month.

lol!

[MACKATTACK]

Let me know her facebook name and I will let you know if its an obsession or control issue......

[Razor]

Let me know her facebook name and I will let you know if its an obsession or control issue......

Haha

[Bryan2]

When you make a thread about "What is considered obsessing over a girl?" on a steroid website.......lol

[Razor]

When you make a thread about "What is considered obsessing over a girl?" on a steroid website.......lol

yaya hahahaha

[DeadlyD]

When you make a thread about "What is considered obsessing over a girl?" on a steroid website.......lol

Lol!!!

[cherrydrpepper]

Razr wanna go halfsies on a hooker.. i'll take the dirt road?

[Razor]

Razr wanna go halfsies on a hooker.. i'll take the dirt road?

lol...never been with a hooker, why not

[xelnaga]

lol...never been with a hooker, why not

I'm in too. Okay guys that will be $5 each cough it up.

[lovbyts]

I disagree with most of the above. There is healthy obsessive and then un healthy. It's to much when it becomes unhealthy. When you start to get angry, jealous, possessive and not trusting. That is when it becomes a problem.

[xelnaga]

I disagree with most of the above. There is healthy obsessive and then un healthy. It's to much when it becomes unhealthy. When you start to get angry, jealous, possessive and not trusting. That is when it becomes a problem.

I agree. It also important to know the difference between reality and what you've built up in your head. I fell "in love" with a girl when I was in middle school after seeing her one time in the hall way. I asked her out dozens of times with no success. Years later I finally scored a date with her... I only needed about 30 minutes alone with her to realize she was a bore. The whole thing was in my head.

[lovbyts]

I agree. It also important to know the difference between reality and what you've built up in your head. I fell "in love" with a girl when I was in middle school after seeing her one time in the hall way. I asked her out dozens of times with no success. Years later I finally scored a date with her... I only needed about 30 minutes alone with her to realize she was a bore. The whole thing was in my head.

I hope you were in middle school also and it wasnt something more recent. LOL Yes it cant be in your head but there is nothing wrong with having that new love excitement heart throbbing love as long as it's goes both ways or you keep it under control and not make an ass out of yourself.

[xelnaga]

I hope you were in middle school also and it wasnt something more recent. LOL Yes it cant be in your head but there is nothing wrong with having that new love excitement heart throbbing love as long as it's goes both ways or you keep it under control and not make an ass out of yourself.

Haha... should have seen that coming.

[Honkey_Kong]

And when is to much too much?

When the judge orders you to stay 100 yards away.

Razr wanna go halfsies on a hooker.. i'll take the dirt road?

lol...never been with a hooker, why not

If you make a trip to Las Vegas, drive to Pahrump and bring money. The Chicken Ranch is where you want to go.

[rockinred]

And when is to much too much?

lol...If your asking.... you've gone too far.

[Razor]

I'm in too. Okay guys that will be $5 each cough it up.

You dirty slut lol

I disagree with most of the above. There is healthy obsessive and then un healthy. It's to much when it becomes unhealthy. When you start to get angry, jealous, possessive and not trusting. That is when it becomes a problem.

I guess I am in the healthy obsessive. I dont get angry or possessive

I agree. It also important to know the difference between reality and what you've built up in your head. I fell "in love" with a girl when I was in middle school after seeing her one time in the hall way. I asked her out dozens of times with no success. Years later I finally scored a date with her... I only needed about 30 minutes alone with her to realize she was a bore. The whole thing was in my head.

Wow all that time and if you had just known that in middle school.

lol...If your asking.... you've gone too far.

lol you bastard

[Jessgirl]

Obsessing can get confusing with just being in love..... Nothing wrong with wanting to be with person or thinking about them all the time ! Stop thinking so much and just enjoy it=) Hopefully in the future when this girl becomes your wife, your going to laugh at this post !

[calgarian]

Obsessing can get confusing with just being in love..... Nothing wrong with wanting to be with person or thinking about them all the time ! Stop thinking so much and just enjoy it=) Hopefully in the future when this girl becomes your wife, your going to laugh at this post !

and Razr has butterflies going in his stomach already.......i wanna be ur best man and then u have to ignore the carpet burn on all the bridesmaids......

[MACKATTACK]

Post a photo already.......FAIL.......lol

[Razor]

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[MACKATTACK]

She's cute and she has the good girl look......approved.....obsess, lol......

[Razor]

She's cute and she has the good girl look......approved.....obsess, lol......

Now you see why I am obsessed........

[calgarian]

No you see why I am obsessed........

follow ur head not heart.....not just yet......

[Standby]

Now you see why I am obsessed........

how old is she 20?

[Razor]

how old is she 20?

Yeah

[Honkey_Kong]

She's not bad. But dude, she's nothing to get obsessed over. Now if you were obsessing over a chick like Gixxer's wife, I'd understand.

[Standby]

have you even banged her yet?

[Razor]

She's not bad. But dude, she's nothing to get obsessed over. Now if you were obsessing over a chick like Gixxer's wife, I'd understand.

If you only knew what she could do 2..gixx wife not worth obsessing over, I dont obsesses over things I cant have.

have you even banged her yet?

Yes of coarse

[Standby]

good boy

[lovbyts]

Well she is a woman and that means she has issues. Some are better at hiding them than others but at some point they will boil to the surface and you will say WTF who is this girl, is she possessed or??? It boils down to just how crazy she is. Make no mistake, they are all crazy just some worse than others and it all depends on how much you can put up with. lol

Remember no matter how good looking a girl is someone at some point decided enough was enough and kicked her to the curb.

[stack_it]

Haven't read the other responses yet but if you have to ask then it means you are obsessed or atleast close to it. I'd bet you have some insecurities and/or trust issues with women. That or you've been dumped in the past for obsessing over a girl and now you have a complex from it. I'm only basing this from this thread and from in dukkits where you keep trying to get Dan to go back to his gf, but you seem to have the need to be in a relationship put up on a pedestal. You probably get so worried about not being in a relationship that it causes problems in whatever relationship you are in. Just my .02

[stack_it]

Btw your girls cute. She looks like Casey Anthony with longer hair.

[Razor]

Haven't read the other responses yet but if you have to ask then it means you are obsessed or atleast close to it. I'd bet you have some insecurities and/or trust issues with women. That or you've been dumped in the past for obsessing over a girl and now you have a complex from it. I'm only basing this from this thread and from in dukkits where you keep trying to get Dan to go back to his gf, but you seem to have the need to be in a relationship put up on a pedestal. You probably get so worried about not being in a relationship that it causes problems in whatever relationship you are in. Just my .02

I'm learning to be better

[supersize me]

No matter how hot she is, someone somewhere is tired of her shit.

[Razor]

No matter how hot she is, someone somewhere is tired of her shit.

On any other girl I would agree with you 100% but this is a girl that everyone wants and no one can her but me.

[FONZY007]

She is a looker razr!!! She looks like she is making you go mad... Must be all the nasty things she can do...

[Razor]

She is a looker razr!!! She looks like she is making you go mad... Must be all the nasty things she can do...

Man fonz your right...Shes young too so it drives me crazy...can't wait to go back on in a month and Hammer it out with her on 1200mg of test in my blood.