
Originally Posted by
Times Roman
Listen mate,
My son is 21 and came to me about two years ago asking about steroids. some of his buddies are on em. so i sat him down and we talked about it. when through, he understood my position. I go to the gym and there are a couple of kids there i suspect are on em too. but you look at their routines and clearly they don't know too much, which is why i suspect. My point is, not all kids have a father that knows about these things, and what to warn them about, and some fathers don't even care. Most boys until they are about 25 don't even have their heads screwed on very tight.
When young men are at this age, they feel immortal, and even then, they feel if they do run into some trouble, there will be a pill or a shot or something that will bail them out. But that is not always the case. Sometimes when something is broke, you can't fix it. All the kings men CANNOT put Humptey Dumptey back together again.
We get hundreds of young men every month come here with the intent of doing steroids at too young of an age. I am willing to bet a large sum of money that if they were 35, looking back, they would choose NOT to start steroids at such a young age. But at this age, these kids have what i call a blind spot. They don't see the damage or the harm they can do themselves. So it is up to people like me that do care, to try and get them to wait until they are ready. True, a majority of these youths will go ahead and do steroids regardless of what i say. But it is that small minority that i do connect with makes it all the worth while for me. I probably get one or two thank you messages a month from these guys that say they appreciated me taking the time to show them the hazards of what they were prepared to do.
So the short answer to your question "Why do we ""argue"" with people under 25....."?
.....because i care about people. Because it is good when someone is looking out for you.
---Roman