*sigh* welcome to the frustrating world of Drs that dont seem to know or want to know anything about the female libido and/or hormones ... sorry to hear she is having a ruff start lovbyts

thanks for PMing me the link
I too am a tad frustrated lately, was off to a good start but than this month I kinda hit like a dip in my mood/ energy/ sex drive/ sleeping / even my period went back to being irregular again (these are all some signs that were pointed out to me as a cue to hormone imbalance) so I looked at my scripts and noticed they have not increased any of the does lately ... my bad for not being more observant of my scripts- silly me :/
BUT I have noticed serious short temper and agressiveness... like i actually almost pounced on some lady that stole the washer machine I was going to use lol i was enraged, came storming up stairs shouted at tiger about it and told me to relax/ have wine/ he did the laundry.... so I dont know if I have too much test or stress or my pro is too low ? also i started getting a weird tingeling / numbness/ itchiness on around my vag.. was worried at first but than found out it happens at times when taking meds/ antibiotics/ or hormones (my test cream is applied directly to labia) so i was told to get some anti itch medicated wipes from menapause section , i just got them yesterday and the itch comes/go's so have not tried them yet-
this week when they call and ask how i am doing and if Im ready to increase ( Im SAPPOSED to be building up to a dose) , I will tell them again whats going on and that if they are not going to build up- Im switching compounding pharms.
good news is vag dryness is def gone and sex is still better than before starting HRT
as far as her low iron- i have that too but from a malnutrion issue from previous surgery, I get prescribed pills when it gets too low/ over the counter other times. It makes me feel horrid for a bit too and i even nap after cuz it makes me feel so bad, but i found taking it rite before bed with lots water helps cuz i sleep threw the yuk feeling. that may help her too ..?
i have not had any hair or acne or voice changes and have not morph any male features such as a penis....yet lol but my test is low. sometimes i think these drs are more harmful than helpful shessshhh
best of luck with her upcoming dr appointment <3