Marriage and AAS!!!!

[Dking13]

Hello everyone!!!! I'm just gonna ask this (not so) simple question and then if u want my back story you can read on....... I don't wanna lie to my wife bout doin a cycle so what are some positives I can tell her bout pinning?





I'm 28 years old, 224 lbs and have done a couple cycles prior to me and my Ol lady getting together and she knows that I have done them. We dated a while back in college but at the beginning of our relationship I had recently went thru a death in my family (my brother 24yo) and jus got out of hospital after being diagnosed with type 1 diabetes at 27 years old. I got into some bad ways (pills etc) and went to rehab (I honestly don't think I'm an addict it was just a phase and easy way out from everythin) (btw I've been out of rehab for 9 months and havnt used anythin since) at first she said she was cool with me doin AAS but things changed obviously after all that. We have recently bought a house together and I'm the only father figure her 3 yo daughter has ever had and they mean the world to me so I'm trying to come up with some of the best arguments I can come up with cuz she likes to hold things over my head (she is a woman I guess) but anyway any valid points/arguments are greatly appreciated!!!!!

[kronik420]

welcome

i don't see any point in 'arguing'. i have NEVER won an argument with a girl before. once you get to the point where your arguing it's a loose loose situation..

discussions on the other hand may be useful, id write down a list of all the pros and cons and things like that and then let her read it and then see what she has to say..

if it comes down to it.. what would you choose, your wife? or AAS?

[Dking13]

I hear ya all way thru man. I'm tryin to convince myself too I think

[kronik420]

I hear ya all way thru man. I'm tryin to convince myself too I think

looks like you got some thinking to do, don't rush, take as much time as you need to think this over..

this may help/give you ideas:

http://forums.steroid.com/showthread...t#.UNGZWuTqlas

[Dking13]

Thanks bro

[kronik420]

Thanks bro

your welcome

[krugerr]

Make sure to include "Increased Libido" and "I'll be big and sexy" on the 'pro' list!

In all seriousness, as Kronik said, discuss it with her, its not something that you've taken lightly and you have researched, put her at ease. In my opinion, people dont understand what steriods are... my Mrs thought that it was some magic liquid that would turn me into a wife beating hulk. Explain what it really does, and answer her questions.
You have mentioned previous substance abuse before though, so you can appreciate her concerns, for her, and your daughter.

[Dking13]

Ya I totally understand where she's coming from on that end of it but honestly she knows I'm doin good and I think the main thing is she's concerned for my health but if we can come to an agreement and I let her in on my blood test etc and she sees the heathy lifestyle.... It would prolly b all good it's jus that initial moment where she has to say ok bcuz she has control issues (i think she does.... but honestly I've thought that bout every woman I've been with) (the common denominator is me haha). I feel a big part of it too is that she works with this lady who told her before that she dated someone who used AAS. Idk what her experience was with the guy but she's going to go straight to her I'm sure so hopefully she has good things to say

[stpete]

Welcome....My ex girlfriends, and now my wife all know i use. I've never made a big deal out of it and when asked "how do you stay so big?" or "have you ever used?" i just say that a small dose of testosterone to help w/my recovery and workouts is the extent. I told my wife on our first date cause she was drilling me as she likes the gym as well. Just told her that i find a cycle or 2 a year helps me lift a little more for a little longer. It also helps w/libido and generally sense of well being and added energy. It's just a boost of what a man normally produces in their body. no biggie. Doesn't impair me in any way. And if you want to look at stats, there's thousands of men that get prescribed some form of test everyday. Well, i don't know about thousands, but the numbers up there.

Good Luck

[boz]

My ex used to always use my AAS use aganist me since she did kind of have a drinking problem, so everytime i used to ask to ease up on the drinking or cut down, she would always use my aas use. Saying that i abuse my body with the shit, what right do i have to judge her she would say.

At the end of the day, it is something you are going to have to sit down and tell her how you feel about it, but i must warn you. If you have a addictive personality trait i would really re consider jumping back on it. Me personally i believe im on it for the long haul, and for every girl i meet i realise i am going to have to be blunt with her, if she accepts great! She might be the one for me. If she doesnt than unfortunately aas wins, its sad to hear i know this but thats the path i have chosen for myself.

Also the biggy in this whole scenario is also the kid, if she really does look up to you, it would break my heart if im hurting her in anyway.

[diesel101]

I always say that if youre ashamed of what youre doing or you have to hide it from everyone you shouldnt be doing it.
It always easier to ask for forgiveness than permission!

[Alinjr]

Welcome. I never had any problems myself. if she doesn't like it then oh well.

[brazey]

Tell her all about the advantages of TRT. Then tell her you want to give it a try. If she doesn't buy it, your marriage is more important.

[Dking13]

She's on board bro's! Ill keep u updated

[kronik420]

She's on board bro's! Ill keep u updated

congrats

even better if she can help you pin lol that might be a stretch tho..

[songdog]

Welcome

[Henryhill470]

Hello

[itpromatt]

Well i can tell you i am married myself and i didn't want to lie to my wife about taking them cause at first i was kinda scared to pin myself so i just showed her the pros and cons and what adjustments had to be made (eating/sleeping habits). at the end of it she is the one that pins me now lol but my brother in-law also has done them and we also talked about his experience and his wife is a nurse so she showed her how to pin properly (although shes slacking lately). Glad it worked out

[BIGGUNSWANTED]

Tell her u have low test levels and you would like her help in administering the shots in your glutes. Also explain the benefits from a raised libido. She will be happy take it from a married guy you can only hide it for so long

[Henryhill470]

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[austinite]

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[A.T.T.G.]

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