^^yes that makes sense. sometimes humor is not easily picked up on here!
i suppose having to be taught how to be a confident male with women is something that doesnt really occur to me. i suppose there are men out there that could use some direction in this regard. its something that would need to be done with careful thought considering u would be affecting many peoples' lives.
it was not until i joined this site that ive ever really heard the term "beta" guys.
dont get me wrong either man, i not perfect by a long shot! not even close! i do try though. it seems a bit strange to have to focus effort in the other direction (being more of a dominant a-hole type).
one thing im learning is a lot of times leadership requires one to be able to lead by example. and i dont mean being an a-hole by example but just the opposite. this is something i am not good at but at least im starting to realize its an approach i need to implement more often!
