Being with the perfect woman and keep loving slu.ts

[belva]

What if...I am with the woman who can help me to become the best I can be, she help me to see what I can can't see and help me to succeed in every step in life but still I can’t overcome my love for slu.ts…

I am with a woman that whenever I talk I feel understood and still I feel my love for whor.es is driving me away. This is the first relationship I didn’t cheat. But honestly it’s hard…I’m walking on the street and I can see a girl checking me out. Sometimes I can’t forget the girl I was with before because she behaved as a whor.e and she squirted.

This is my dilemma…Am I with the right woman then? Or I need to be with a slu.t that drive me crazy?

Anyone of you experience the same?

[Times Roman]

Your love for whores?

well, your attitude towards women and relationships is not very developed. Sounds to me like you have some issues that need working on.

Here's something you cann read if you choose
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexaholics_Anonymous

so you either figure out whether you want to be with this woman and only her,

or lead a very self indulgent life only being with sluts.

up to you.......

[belva]

You got a point...been working on myseld alot butthe love for sluts is still there...and obviusly I don't want to live a self indulgent life...

[Times Roman]

You got a point...been working on myseld alot butthe love for sluts is still there...and obviusly I don't want to live a self indulgent life...

Mate,

Let me tell you. I love to drink. Alot. But I don't. Because I know if I let this thing get out of hand, it can get real ugly, real quick (for me).

So the same with you and your love for sluts (not sure what else to call them).

Just because you have an urge to do a thing, does not mean you shouuld act on those urges.

If you cannot control your urges, then you have a problem.

We all have urges, all the time. Hell, every time i see an attractive lady, I can't help it, but my mind does the once over, and I imagine all sorts of shit. But no way in hell do I approach her or make a move on my urges.

So if you cannot control your urges, then yyou need help.

I'm pretty sure your woman has no idea who she is with, as I imagine this is the sort of thing you don't discuss with her?

[JAB1]

Mate,

Let me tell you. I love to drink. Alot. But I don't. Because I know if I let this thing get out of hand, it can get real ugly, real quick (for me).

So the same with you and your love for sluts (not sure what else to call them).

Just because you have an urge to do a thing, does not mean you shouuld act on those urges.

If you cannot control your urges, then you have a problem.

We all have urges, all the time. Hell, every time i see an attractive lady, I can't help it, but my mind does the once over, and I imagine all sorts of shit. But no way in hell do I approach her or make a move on my urges.

So if you cannot control your urges, then yyou need help.

I'm pretty sure your woman has no idea who she is with, as I imagine this is the sort of thing you don't discuss with her?

^^TimesRoman spelled it out pretty well for you. I agree 100% Everyone needs to excperiment, live, be young, figure themselves out, etc. However at some point you need to choose some life goals/priorities and make sacrifices to be the man you want to be. Its not easy, as Roman said we ALL have urges. Thats being human, self control is what keeps the balance. Dont worry pal I love sluts too, just not as much as I love my wife, and my disease free penis!!

[belva]

Mate,

Let me tell you. I love to drink. Alot. But I don't. Because I know if I let this thing get out of hand, it can get real ugly, real quick (for me).

So the same with you and your love for sluts (not sure what else to call them).

Just because you have an urge to do a thing, does not mean you shouuld act on those urges.

If you cannot control your urges, then you have a problem.

We all have urges, all the time. Hell, every time i see an attractive lady, I can't help it, but my mind does the once over, and I imagine all sorts of shit. But no way in hell do I approach her or make a move on my urges.

So if you cannot control your urges, then yyou need help.

I'm pretty sure your woman has no idea who she is with, as I imagine this is the sort of thing you don't discuss with her?

Well, she does know me well and this cause some problems...but as I said she understand me, but honestly, I've been really searching what I wanted in a woman for the past 2 years and when I realised what I wanted she came in to my life. Now the thing I don't understand is why I can't get rid of my love forsluts in my mind.

[GirlyGymRat]

Well, she does know me well and this cause some problems...but as I said she understand me, but honestly, I've been really searching what I wanted in a woman for the past 2 years and when I realised what I wanted she came in to my life. Now the thing I don't understand is why I can't get rid of my love forsluts in my mind.

Apparently you haven't grown up enuff yet. So you need to decide what's more important to you. She deserves to have a good man so don't hold onto her while you try to figure it out bc her prince charming is searching for her!

[belva]

Well, everything in life comes for a reason and challenges are made to make us stronger. I don't believe I need to broke up with my partner because I need to keep searching in what I want. I believe I need to uderstand and being able to control my urges.

[Times Roman]

Apparently you haven't grown up enuff yet. So you need to decide what's more important to you. She deserves to have a good man so don't hold onto her while you try to figure it out bc her prince charming is searching for her!

GGR
You said what I was thinking.

Part of being a man, or an adult for that matter, is doing the right thing. Being self indulgent as you describe, means you haven't figured it out yet, and are still struggling with adulthood. Sure, we all slip, well, except for GGR, but it should be a rare thing, not the general rule.

The part that bothers me is that you have cheated on EVERY woman you have ever been with, except your current. That's a horrible track record, and if your woman knew that, unless she's a masochist (enjoys misery), then I'm clueless why she would gamble significant time with you?

on the positive side, you haven't cheated on her YET. So maybe, you are starting to grow up some? Time will tell.

I hope you figure this thing out soon. Behavior like yours is very self destructive.

Good luck!
---Roman

[belva]

GGR
You said what I was thinking.

Part of being a man, or an adult for that matter, is doing the right thing. Being self indulgent as you describe, means you haven't figured it out yet, and are still struggling with adulthood. Sure, we all slip, well, except for GGR, but it should be a rare thing, not the general rule.

The part that bothers me is that you have cheated on EVERY woman you have ever been with, except your current. That's a horrible track record, and if your woman knew that, unless she's a masochist (enjoys misery), then I'm clueless why she would gamble significant time with you?

on the positive side, you haven't cheated on her YET. So maybe, you are starting to grow up some? Time will tell.

I hope you figure this thing out soon. Behavior like yours is very self destructive.

Good luck!
---Roman

Well, she knows all my past, she knows even that I cheat in almost every relationship I was before but she sees the person I am now, I changed alot during the past year. I am not going to cheat on her that's for sure. but yes, the get-laid destructive behaviur is always in my mind...went away for a little while, just the time to make me see what I can create with a wonderful relationship....then it came up again, as a shadow in the corner.

[tigerspawn]

People in general want to see the good in others. Some people enjoy “projects” they see someone who has issues and believe that they can fix them. They will go out of their way to help that person. Your girlfriend sounds like that type.
Chances are if you’re thinking about cheating than you’re going to cheat. Based on your track record and the fact you are thinking about sex with other women it’s going to happen. If you care about the woman you’re with, than you need to get past the way you’re feeling. If you can’t than you should be single.

[Times Roman]

Well, she knows all my past, she knows even that I cheat in almost every relationship I was before but she sees the person I am now, I changed alot during the past year. I am not going to cheat on her that's for sure. but yes, the get-laid destructive behaviur is always in my mind...went away for a little while, just the time to make me see what I can create with a wonderful relationship....then it came up again, as a shadow in the corner.

well, either way, it's an addiction like meth/heroin or any other drug.

learn to treat your addiction with respect, and avoid situations that will provide temptation, such as hitting up bars, etc.

[tigerspawn]

How did you meet the woman your with? Were you cheating on another woman when you met her?

[belva]

well, either way, it's an addiction like meth/heroin or any other drug.

learn to treat your addiction with respect, and avoid situations that will provide temptation, such as hitting up bars, etc.

I don't drink alcohol anymore...well, I can avoid walking on the street but I understand what you mean when you said avoid situation that provide tempterion

[belva]

How did you meet the woman your with? Were you cheating on another woman when you met her?

A friend of mine told her a year ago she should have met me but time never came..(and honestly better like that because I was not ready at all for a story)...then I stay single for 6 months and suddently my friend showed up with her. I took it from there.

[ElectraMaddox]

I think it's just the dirty girl crazy girl in bed and she's your sweet companion and your separating the two... Get freaky with her in the bed and now you have your princess and your dirty girl all in one package...

[ppwc1985]

You say this is the one but still love the others, from my ex if you find that special one you will not want the other. Trust me, she may not be the one at this time or you would have no problem giving up other.

[sixfootseven]

I feel the same way man, but my current gf is too sweet just to throw away in the name of hot one night stands.
Thing is, when I'm out having one night stands I wish I had a hot, nice gf.

The grass is always greener brotha

[Honkey_Kong]

Belva, I'm going to take a different stance on things. Relationships aren't for everyone. If your desire for other broads is that great that you can't control it, you shouldn't be with your current broad. You should just go out and play the field. There is no sense in holding yourself back because you feel you need to be in a relationship. All you're going to do is get yourself in a lot of unnecessary drama.

Let me tell you, when you mature enough and find the right woman, you're not going to want to go banging other broads. You'll still see hot chicks and think about banging them, but it'll just end there.

[calgarian]

What if...I am with the woman who can help me to become the best I can be, she help me to see what I can can't see and help me to succeed in every step in life but still I can’t overcome my love for slu.ts…

I am with a woman that whenever I talk I feel understood and still I feel my love for whor.es is driving me away. This is the first relationship I didn’t cheat. But honestly it’s hard…I’m walking on the street and I can see a girl checking me out. Sometimes I can’t forget the girl I was with before because she behaved as a whor.e and she squirted.

This is my dilemma…Am I with the right woman then? Or I need to be with a slu.t that drive me crazy?

Anyone of you experience the same?

so let me get it straight...so you are in love with a woman that can help you become a better man and you dont want to keep your dick in your pants? think about it is it me or you are just one ungrateful SOB?

[DB1982]

I think it's just the dirty girl crazy girl in bed and she's your sweet companion and your separating the two... Get freaky with her in the bed and now you have your princess and your dirty girl all in one package...

She nailed it.

I hear my friends say all the time how their wives or girlfriends aren't freaky enough.

I simply laugh and tell them if she's not freaky enough your probably not doing something right.
If your make her HAPPY more then likely she'll go out of her way to make you
HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY.

Sometimes guys just want to take the easy fast route and find a dirty girl.
But trust me its so much more fun taking a sweet wholesome girl and turning her.

Good luck buddy don't throw away a good thing for something so cheap.

[Papa Smurf]

I think it's just the dirty girl crazy girl in bed and she's your sweet companion and your separating the two... Get freaky with her in the bed and now you have your princess and your dirty girl all in one package...

This You not love sluts You love Lust

Me and my wife sometimes make passionate love with each other, and then other times we just screw our brains out..... Love is in the bedroom, Lust is in your neighbors pool late at night

[Times Roman]

This You not love sluts You love Lust

Me and my wife sometimes make passionate love with each other, and then other times we just screw our brains out..... Love is in the bedroom, Lust is in your neighbors pool late at night

I wish you two would stay the hell out my pool. It's keeping me awake at night pretending not to be watching! =)

[Rwy]

Its called sport ****ing and its hard to come back to a normal relationship after chasing women for one reason only.

The type of sex that you have with these women goes to places that not many people experience. They think they do but they dont. So everyone can sit here and tell you one thing but you know why you look.

My current relationship (first girl I didnt cheat on) for the first two years I had the itch all the time but I never scratched. Its like a drug. Its ****ed up man. Eventually I started looking at it differently. First and foremost I loved this girl. I would crush her and she would never recover normally ( and essentially thats why I had my issues from being destroyed by a girl cheating on me) and secondly HIV/STDS are ****ing every where. Everyone has herpes, hpv nowadays. Its not fun out there anymore.

[Rwy]

I wish you two would stay the hell out my pool. It's keeping me awake at night pretending not to be watching! =)

hahaha lol

[belva]

Nice to see several femele members actively involved in this thread...keep going

[DSM4Life]

[Aziz]

Lmfao good one DSM

Aziz

[troubleman]

sweet avatar man.

[lovbyts]

Grass is always greener on the other side (although sometimes it really is) and you typically want what you dont have. That's just normal and you need to learn to either control the urges (self gratification) or just work it out logically that it's not the right choice and then continue with the self gratification when needed. lol

Never fall for one of the sluts types. Crazy/slut women are typically that way for a reason and they will mess you up down the road. They are always the best, most fun in bed but with the good comes the bad and it doesnt take much to set one off and all hell breaks loose.