terrible parenting

[OnTheSauce]

About to punch this fat blob. Gave his kid a gameboy to play during the graduation ceremony. Sound on full blast. Politely asked to put it on silent and he said he doesn't know how. Well don't play it then. And the kid has been kicking my seat for an hour. Again asked to stop politely and fat blob father says to leave it alone. Said if he quits kicking my chair their isn't a problem. Smh. Terrible

[Knockout_Power]

this goes back to the 80s when they told parents not to spank their kids... escalated into the shitshow you see everyday now

[OnTheSauce]

And everyone runs their mouth because of no consequences. Punch someone and get charges. Nothing I can do without getting in trouble. Its acceptable to be a ****face and disrupt everyone being as rude and annoying as possible

[Knockout_Power]

And everyone runs their mouth because of no consequences. Punch someone and get charges. Nothing I can do without getting in trouble. Its acceptable to be a ****face and disrupt everyone being as rude and annoying as possible

this is my biggest beef with society today... the moment a 2 year old realizes there is no repercussion for having a tantrum when it doesnt get what it wants, swearing, hitting their parents and other such BS, the door opens for a population that no longer fears being inconsiderate assholes

[Knockout_Power]

About a year ago I was driving to work and I could see this jerk weaving in and out of traffic (speeding in a school zone and using the bus only lane to pass) and he is coming up behind me. When my right turn comes, I move into that lane as the light goes red so I have to stop. This mid 20s kid nearly slams into me and gets on the horn, throwing his hands out the window, flipping the bird and mouthing some shit that I can only imagine would not be appropriate in church. SO I figure, what the hell, I will go ask him what the issue is.

I open my door and no sooner did my foot hit the ground, I could his his auto locks shut and his window was on the way up... this didnt stop him from yelling at me behind closed doors so I figured I would just stand by his side window and stare... to which he replies... "go ahead, try and do something, Im calling the police" and holds up his cell phone. To this point I wasnt actually mad, just intrigued by this idiot... but after that comment, all I could think was, You dumb shit, you risk peoples lives, speed in a school zone, curse at me and when you're called on your shit, you hide behind your door and threaten to call the cops?

So I bent over, looked into his window and nicely said, while you're on the phone, might as well have the police call you an ambulance... as I tapped on his window with my knuckles

I know that by not actually doing anything to this guy, he probably wont change his ways... but maybe he wasnt so much of a prick for the rest of the day

[OnTheSauce]

Point proven exactly. Cuss and flip the bird honk etc and then call the cops. Smdh. Act like that, back it up.

[tigerspawn]

Just because some jackass beat his kid to death now we have laws saying you can’t spank your kids. Without consequences children began running wild. Allowing children to misbehave continues to increase. Kids need and crave discipline. Once children learn that you can’t force them to stay in time out it loses effectiveness. Corporal punishment is a necessity because it is effective. I am against spanking children with anything other than the palm of your bare hand but spankings have their uses.

Its BS that law protects people that mouth off and threaten others. The law should allow someone who mouths off to get their ass kicked. I’m not talking about hospitalizing them. I guarantee that if someone received an ass kicking they would learn to be respectful of others.

[Lunk1]

Use your brain..not your fists guys! Turn your seat around and start kicking the dads seat. Or use your cell phone to video tape dad..right up in his face. Beat dipshits with your mind.

I had this kid tell me one night how much he disliked me. Goes off screaming in a public place how much he hates me. I turn to him and profess my love for him in front of his friends and the store clerk. Dude just shuts his lip and leaves lol.

[Zodiac82]

Use your brain..not your fists guys! Turn your seat around and start kicking the dads seat. Or use your cell phone to video tape dad..right up in his face. Beat dipshits with your mind.

I had this kid tell me one night how much he disliked me. Goes off screaming in a public place how much he hates me. I turn to him and profess my love for him in front of his friends and the store clerk. Dude just shuts his lip and leaves lol.

lol@last part

-Release the Kracken!!!-

[Zodiac82]

About to punch this fat blob. Gave his kid a gameboy to play during the graduation ceremony. Sound on full blast. Politely asked to put it on silent and he said he doesn't know how. Well don't play it then. And the kid has been kicking my seat for an hour. Again asked to stop politely and fat blob father says to leave it alone. Said if he quits kicking my chair their isn't a problem. Smh. Terrible

gameboy???? is this 1989 ; )

-Release the Kracken!!!-

[slfmade]

"Spare the rod and spoil the child" was often quoted in my home growing up.

[OnTheSauce]

I got spanked with a paddle. Well until it broke across my backside. And although I get in trouble still, is because I disagree with restrictive and stupid laws. Im a very considerate and respectful person to others. My kid will be spanked and disciplined properly. I can't stand the watered down generation of pussies that walk among us. The general population is completely selfish and inconsiderate.

Simple example is today on the way to the graduation these 2 girls were walking across the road and didn't care we had a green light and were waiting on them. No rush or sense of urgency. Just didn't care in the slightest if people had to wait on them. They walked slow and just took there time.

[slfmade]

I got spanked with a paddle. Well until it broke across my backside. And although I get in trouble still, is because I disagree with restrictive and stupid laws. Im a very considerate and respectful person to others. My kid will be spanked and disciplined properly. I can't stand the watered down generation of pussies that walk among us. The general population is completely selfish and inconsiderate.

Simple example is today on the way to the graduation these 2 girls were walking across the road and didn't care we had a green light and were waiting on them. No rush or sense of urgency. Just didn't care in the slightest if people had to wait on them. They walked slow and just took there time.

I'm gonna start carrying a paintball gun for times such as this.

[TbolzNdbols]

I would of pulled the little buggers cartridge out when he least expected it. And turned around like I never did anything, and act like I didn't know what happened.

[tigerspawn]

I had this kid tell me one night how much he disliked me. Goes off screaming in a public place how much he hates me. I turn to him and profess my love for him in front of his friends and the store clerk. Dude just shuts his lip and leaves lol.

You should have recorded his tantrum and posted it on YouTube. I agree with you beating the crap out of someone should be your last resort. However, people that repeatedly do things to intentionally provoke others continue to do so because they know that they can get away with it.

[tigerspawn]

"Spare the rod and spoil the child" was often quoted in my home growing up.

It was in mine also. My father loved using anything that would spare my ass from hurting his hand. He had a belt that he called, "the word of God". How they punished me was a bit excessive. With that being said I still believe that spankings have their place.

[tigerspawn]

I'm gonna start carrying a paintball gun for times such as this.

Make sure to freeze the pellets first

[Java Man]

I love this thread

[austinite]

In my days everyone got spanked. Most of the time in the face.

[RipOwens]

this goes back to the 80s when they told parents not to spank their kids... escalated into the shitshow you see everyday now

Here's the thing, it was like this in our day... But it's not the 70s anymore, science and psychology have progressed like everything else and we better understand the effects of different parenting techniques, i.e. physical punishment, etc. Shitheads will always have a shithead kids.

[songdog]

There is a difference between a spanking and a beating.Parents who beat their kids need it done to them.And a kid who dont listen needs to learn wat pain is.A good swat on the butt never killed anyone.I can say that it made me get home on time!

[lovbyts]

I'm gonna start carrying a paintball gun for times such as this.

Make sure to freeze the pellets first

I figured someone was going to say that. Careful because a frozen paintball can do serious damage and even kill someone.

A friend and I went to an outdoor paintball park once and the guys who parked next to us were getting their equipment from their trunk and laughing it up so we looked to see what was up. They had a cooler with frozen paintballs. We asked what they planed on doing with those. They just laughed and said use them of course. My buddy and I looked at each other and reached back into the trunk putting our shoulder holsters back on and handguns. Of course the two guys noticed since we made it obvious and said, what are you guys doing???? I said if I get hit buy one of your frozen paintballs you are getting hit by one of these.

They decided to buy new fresh paint balls.

I think I spanked my daughter 3x when she was little and she NEVER threw a temper tantrum because she knew the consequences.

[Zodiac82]

There is a difference between a spanking and a beating.Parents who beat their kids need it done to them.And a kid who dont listen needs to learn wat pain is.A good swat on the butt never killed anyone.I can say that it made me get home on time!

damn straight

-Release the Kracken!!!-

[tigerspawn]

I figured someone was going to say that. Careful because a frozen paintball can do serious damage and even kill someone.

I wasn’t serious about freezing paint balls. I would hope that no one would do this when shooting someone else with a paint ball. Also, I would hope that no one would shoot someone else with a paint ball unless it was while playing paint ball.

[Knockout_Power]

In my days everyone got spanked. Most of the time in the face, with a chair... twice.

corrected

[stpete]

I know for a fact from experience that if you know you're going to get a ass beating you are less likely to screw up as opposed to just a verbal abuse. No one likes to get their ass kicked, and it's very effective!

[Tron3219]

Pain is the best teacher. Like Jeff foxworthy said, let him pull that 52" tv off the tv stand, hell only do it once.

With that being said, I'm surprises the liberal bleeding hearts hadn't chimed in and said spanking is bad.

[Girly Stacked]

Some parents even let their kids scream and yell and cuss at them. All the parent does is sit there and allow the kid do it!!!! If I ever have a kid and my kid wants to be a rude disrespectful heathen then he/she will get beaten. And the day they threaten dyfs I will dial the number for them and beat them again. Sounds bad huh hahaha

[RipOwens]

Pain is the best teacher. Like Jeff foxworthy said, let him pull that 52" tv off the tv stand, hell only do it once.

With that being said, I'm surprises the liberal bleeding hearts hadn't chimed in and said spanking is bad.

I did but I got drowned out... Ha! Seriously, I'm not saying spanking is bad, I'm just saying non-physical consequences can be just as effective.

[slfmade]

I did but I got drowned out... Ha! Seriously, I'm not saying spanking is bad, I'm just saying non-physical consequences can be just as effective.

Wrong

[frank13]

i waterboard my kids when there bad little bastards never act up anymore

[RipOwens]

Wrong

This is just my experience with my own child, you find my experience wrong? Ok

[evander87]

I was spanked. Never in the heat of the moment. It was always after dinner or some other predetermined time. The spanking wasn't as bad as the thoughts leading up to it. Lol. My sister on the other hand was never spanked. IMHO she's grown up to bed a princess and walks all over her husband. Is it because the lack of spanking? I don't know for sure but my kids are going to get the spanning just like I did.

[austinite]

I laugh at the idea that "spanking" is bad. I guess we've evolved and things change, of course. Spanking was basically getting the crap beaten out of you. Literally. Banged up, bruised and bleeding. Torture really. Belts, hoses, wrenches, you name it. And back then... the hospital never questioned anything. I recall staying out a half hour later than I should have, and ended up tied to a bedpost and kicked for about 10 minutes by my father. Then it was my mothers turn to swing at me. Several times my father would put a cigarette out on my arm or hand. Still have the scars. I keep telling myself that they didn't really know any better, but dang, you had to know that some of the methods just weren't right!

I honestly don't think I could do that to a child, but I don't know if my frustrations with a child would bring out what my parents did to me. One of many reasons I'll never have kids. I admire those who care for their kids properly. I don't mind kids, so long as I can give them back.

[stpete]

I laugh at the idea that "spanking" is bad. I guess we've evolved and things change, of course. Spanking was basically getting the crap beaten out of you. Literally. Banged up, bruised and bleeding. Torture really. Belts, hoses, wrenches, you name it. And back then... the hospital never questioned anything. I recall staying out a half hour later than I should have, and ended up tied to a bedpost and kicked for about 10 minutes by my father. Then it was my mothers turn to swing at me. Several times my father would put a cigarette out on my arm or hand. Still have the scars. I keep telling myself that they didn't really know any better, but dang, you had to know that some of the methods just weren't right!

I honestly don't think I could do that to a child, but I don't know if my frustrations with a child would bring out what my parents did to me. One of many reasons I'll never have kids. I admire those who care for their kids properly. I don't mind kids, so long as I can give them back.

Holy shit! I agree but being tied down and having a cig put out on you? WTF is that? Damn buddy. Have you beaten their asses yet? My Dad beat me w/a mop and tried to choke me w/it till i finally started fighting back and whipped his ass. My mom beat the hell out of me w/ a belt cause i wouldn't eat homony one night at dinner and chaced me w/a wooden spoon. When she caught up w/me she layed into me. They dont mess w/me anymore. Haven't in years.

But i would never do my kids like that cause i know the hatred that builds inside and i don't ever want them to be afraid of me.

[austinite]

Holy shit! I agree but being tied down and having a cig put out on you? WTF is that? Damn buddy. Have you beaten their asses yet? My Dad beat me w/a mop and tried to choke me w/it till i finally started fighting back and whipped his ass. My mom beat the hell out of me w/ a belt cause i wouldn't eat homony one night at dinner and chaced me w/a wooden spoon. When she caught up w/me she layed into me. They dont mess w/me anymore. Haven't in years.

But i would never do my kids like that cause i know the hatred that builds inside and i don't ever want them to be afraid of me.

lol. Too late. They're both gone now.

Yeah it's never fun. Good to hear it hasn't affected your relationship with your kids. Good man.

[stpete]

lol. Too late. They're both gone now.

Yeah it's never fun. Good to hear it hasn't affected your relationship with your kids. Good man.

Oh, sorry to hear that.

I refuse to let my upbringings affect how i parent. I'm stern, yes. And my wife jumps my shit all the time for the way i talk. But i have yet to lay a hand on anyone. I won't do it. I feel taking things from them(computer, tv, ipod) is far more effective. Besides, i'm not out to hurt my girls physically. I would be a complete loser if i did and possibly make them hate me. I'm not down w/that. But a little spank sometimes, like one on the ass, when warranted is ok to me. I have yet to do it though.

[Tron3219]

Do you only have girls stpete?

[Lunk1]

I laugh at the idea that "spanking" is bad. I guess we've evolved and things change, of course. Spanking was basically getting the crap beaten out of you. Literally. Banged up, bruised and bleeding. Torture really. Belts, hoses, wrenches, you name it. And back then... the hospital never questioned anything. I recall staying out a half hour later than I should have, and ended up tied to a bedpost and kicked for about 10 minutes by my father. Then it was my mothers turn to swing at me. Several times my father would put a cigarette out on my arm or hand. Still have the scars. I keep telling myself that they didn't really know any better, but dang, you had to know that some of the methods just weren't right!

I honestly don't think I could do that to a child, but I don't know if my frustrations with a child would bring out what my parents did to me. One of many reasons I'll never have kids. I admire those who care for their kids properly. I don't mind kids, so long as I can give them back.

Is this for real? Have you seen or considered seeing psychologist about this?

[austinite]

Is this for real? Have you seen or considered seeing psychologist about this?

Yes, I've had counseling. I'm doing just fine now.