Hi- I hope im posting this in the right place?

Im brand new here- 39 years old, and always tired. For years I have pushed myself to work a crazy schedule,and lived a high stress active lifestyle, but I am exhausted at this point. I am just starting to train for an event -sort of like a crossfit type- to take place in 9 months, and I am far from where I need to be in strength and stamina. after a 12 hr work day, and never enough sleep- I have a very hard time dragging my butt to the gym, nevermind putting in the effort I need to in order to get results.

In addition I have very low iron levels( sitting at 16, but doc says should be around 90) very high cortisol levels also, as well as chronically high prolactin levels due to 2 microadenomas in my pituitary gland.
Thyroid levels are fine although I suspect that has not always been the case since about 11 years ago my entire left eyebrow disappeared for about a year( came back after being on vitamin supplements for a while and has remained since). Also because of chronic acne, I take oral spironolactone( androgen inhibitor) to keep chronic hormonal acne in check. I have also noticed my hair has been slowly thinning over the years and my skin and hair is very dry.

My eating habits need improvement- I don't consume enough protein or water, but do eat plenty of fruit and veggies, and keep other carbs to a minimum. ive been taking liquid whole food based floradix for the low iron issues, but in 3 months hasn't made a difference on my bloodwork, or in how I feel, and iron tablets make me vomit within 10 minutes of taking one, even with a meal.

my boyfriend takes a steroid/test stack and is considering adding hgh and thought maybe hgh would help give me the energy boost I need plus help me reach my training goals. Anyone here have any experience with females on hgh and the pros and cons of it?Any other suggestions or advice for me? coffee just doesnt cut it-I really need some serious energy here....any help is appreciated, thanks.