I was hesitant to join because I didn't know if my personality would fit. I'm usually just a lurker until recently, but man oh man some forusm are absolutely brutal on new members if they happen to be extremely ignorant. I know that most people probably don't read the "Read before you post!" Stickies, but I've seen some pretty bad badgering before.
o some member having an avatar with a back the width of a barn doesn't accentuate a nice warm welcome.

It would be like watching newcomers at the gym during busy hours and how thy squeamishly wonder from machine to machine, with vigilance of other members possibility watching them. It's like your first time in jail..