
Originally Posted by
Old Duffer
Those 3 things are KIND OF related... but not so much
1) Libido: kind of a catch all word for when we have issues. If you want to feel more motivated for sex (which IS libido) then there’s a lot to that. Getting enough rest? Not depressed? Worried about performance issues? Chemical imbalance? Bored with your S.O.? There’s a lot of mental to it
Then there’s the ‘other libido’, which actually isn’t. E.D. This is where your PED-5 comes in. Once you get hard, your body produces an enzyme (or hormone. I can’t remember) to make you soften. As you get older this effect is more pronounced. Drugs like viagra quell that. (Cialis, Levitra) in the words they help you stay hard.
Now, being able to stay hard will boost libido!
2) Orgasm: inorgasmia is a whole nother kettle o fish. The ability to cum also dies as we do. Some meds make it worse. ED makes it worse. Low libido makes it worse. Personally, I’ve just resigned myself to the fact that even if I have sex every day, I will only unload once every couple weeks.... unless I get so achy as to use extreme measures (details to not follow)
3) Load size: also dies as we do. I’ve heard HMG will help but have no experience there
Melanotan does get my up. Some times. But the dose needed also upsets my stomach for a while unless I’m doing it regularly