
Originally Posted by
AnabolicBoy1981
Nope, not really. I believe dana, because i know ppl like tito. They are weird ppl. They have this thing with loyalty that is good when its good, and bad when its bad. It stems from 2 things. A.) South american culture B.) broken home abandonment issues.
I have always noted that latinos and brazilans have this double edged swored with loyalty and comradery that is a phony bunch of crap they use to create a false sense of brotherhood. When the smallest thing comes between them(even if the issue could be reasonably handeled) they take it as an offence towards loyalty, AND WITHOUT DISCUSSION, they cut you off. This happens in their friendships, businesses, and GANGS especially. Case in point: I had a partner who trained in renzo gracies school in new york. Renzo, him and serra where real tight and this and that. Renzo KNEW he crosstrained at other places. So my training partner goes and trains his striking in new jersy and mentioned it in conversation to somebody one day. Renzo comes over to him, asked him about it, he explaines ,but he said after he said the intital "yes" ,renzo just kinda looked off to the side as if not paying attention. then without a word walks back into the office. Serra comes out and tells him to leave. He tries explainin to serra but he was so brainwashed by renzo with his dick in his mouth ,that he didnt listen to my friend. He tried calling renzo. Even wrote a letter. Nothin. No response. THATS THE WAY THEY ARE. Between mexicans, puerto ricans cubans, and brazilians there is this common sense of brotherhood that i observed. As easy as they take you in, they will just as easily cut you off. Its a load of crap, and i see it all the time. Hot and cold.
Tito, fits the bill completely for this. A) number one,Hes puerto rican. 2.)He trains MMA which includes BJJ and through BJJ circles pervades that whole sense of"loyalty, brotherhood, etc" And 3.)He also has a very strong and outspoken, and unnecessary sense of brother hood for the fans.
The whole fan thing is a great example. Fans are nice. Fans are great. But doing everything for your fans instead of yourself is dumb. Your fans dont help you train tito! They pay for tickets and PPV but thats cuz they like fights. I cant stand the way he says stuff like "youd be nothin without your fans". Yes you damn well would! Youd still be a bad ass cuz you train like a mofo! Fans support the sport financially, but you dont have to gush over them like they actually mean anything to you. You dont even know these ppl!
But this is what his type do. They try to create mini "brotherhoods". This is why they create gangs. This is why gangs split, then fight each other. over stupid crap. When you try to take ppl in, and make family out of them too fast, its so easy to get offended. Its kinda like being with a chick who after 2 weeks is making you meet her parents and all that crap...its weird! "brotherhoods" and loyalties take time. You cant just do that with everybody. And you can't feel "cheated on" if one of your "brothers"goes and does something that takes time with them away from you. GET OVER IT tito!
Mario Yamasakies half brazilain btw) once said to me and my partner..."The most important thing in martial arts... is loyalty"
we were both thinkin " No its not!WTF is up with this? the most important thing is winning!" and if that means not trainin at just ONE place...GUESS WHAT? Im gonna train wherever!
Peace.