Since this is a bodybuilding forum, I guess I can say this
Do you have to tell someone that you are a bodybuilder? If you do, then you aren't one - sorry if that's blunt!
Are you a bodybuilder but all you're concerned about is "how big you get?" There are PLENTY of people that are BIG - natural or on juice. I feel that being a bodybuilder is to be lean and cut-up - in other words, they "look the part." That's what separates a bodybuilder from the "rest of the world." Now I'm not saying that one has to be in "contest shape" all the time as we know that would be difficult if not impossible.
I'm not trying to sound arrogant or conceited with this statement - I have people all the time comment on my condition. Now this occurs after I've been "cutting-up." In other words when I'm lean; at a low bodyweight - at times I even feel "small" from the diet. People say to me when I'm in that condition "WOW - have you been putting muscle on?" Little do they know that it's been just the opposite. When I was 30 pounds heavier (with actually "more muscle") NOBODY said squat to me!!!
IT IS POSSIBLE TO PUT ON LBM WHILE NOT GAINING FAT. I'm nearly 50 (in 8 days) and STILL doing it!!
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