I am the exact same way on a LOW carb diet. However on the keto diet, which is basically NO carbs/few indirect carbs, the result is very different. it takes about 4 days for your body to fully reach ketosis. In those 4 days, I am miserable, irritable, have no energy, can't think or focus well, don't want to lift, or talk to anyone, lol. But once my brain reaches ketosis, it is quite an amazing feeling. I wake up with all the energy in the world. And it doesn't change. My mood is pleasant, I have zero mood swings. My energy levels are steady, thoughts are clear, focus is amazing, I have very few food cravings. And it stays that way as long as you don't mess up your diet. However, a lot of people who have had bad experiences with it fail because they don't monitor their diet strictly. Even having a piece of breaded chicken or a tblspoon of bbq sauce will temporarily kick you out of ketosis and thats when you will experience a short term period of irritability and low energy. Because your body goes back to thinking is is running on glucose again instead of ketones.
As I told Nova before, I was very skeptical before I ever ran that diet because it basically went against everything I had ever learned before. And I had tried the low carb diets before and experienced the unpleasant feelings that you described. But I gave it a shot and absolutely love it. I am in no way preaching that it is the only way. It is merely a different way. And the way that I myself have personally experienced the most success while cutting fat and maintaining muscle without the help of outside dietary aids.
I absolutely 100% agree that each one of us is different. And what works best for one person, may not for the next. But I feel its important for each of us to give everything a fair try to see how we respond to everything.
i am still going to give your diet a shot when i feel the need to cut, so don't go changing your game up on me
i'm going to need your help when i plan out the adventure.