
Originally Posted by
Nate_Dog
It is just human nature.. (not mine).. but the majority.
I don't eat shit food, don't do dairy (except in the form of whey in a Post Training shake), I don't eat gluten .. as my body doesn't like them (digestion doesn't like it) For carbs I love my rice. For protein I mix it up.. you name it everything elk, kangaroo, duck, whatever but pork (bacon is cool). This type of eating works well with my genetics..
I am a believer in a lot of Poliquins principles, as out of the 8 years I have been professionally involved in the industry he seems to have touched on everything, natural therapies, alternative med, conventional med, drug induced performance enhancement, chiro, applied kinesiology, you name it.. the guy is well thought out. I was reading a book that I was told to before one of his courses - "The Paleo diet". This book says basically that human being for have only had agriculture and grains in our diets for a very short span of time (when looking out the total time we have been humans). Most people are not carb adapted and get fat from them etc (as an example - Asians etc are an exception to the rule, but are adjusted to rice as opposed to wheat catbs etc). Anyways.. one of the things he says for fat people is "Eats like a caveman". That is the best advice you can give someone...
And I used to say something simular - "Eat what your great-grandmar would have eaten 100 years ago, good natural food".
That is the easy thing to say to someone when dieting. Could a caveman eat burgers? Pasta? Sauses? Iceceam? Peanut butter? Rice? no no no no no.
Could they eat fresh fish, other sources of protein, fresh vegies and fruits yes! This is pretty easy protocol to follow.
But after years - I don't say anything anymore to fat people.
But you cannot always tell. I had a client that was female, 5 foot and was 90 kgs. I have trained fat people and they are always lame and full of excuses. You train them hard once you never see them again. BUT this chic, first session... she went hard.. not 20% not 50% not 80% she went 110%. I thought she was going to die.. but she trucked on. She was a cool chic and actually is now one of my best friends, a real quality human being, she lost 30 kgs when i trained her. BUT WHY - SHE WAS ACCOUNTABLE and she looked at her behaviour, choices and emotional responses and made changes. THIS IS VERY RARE. You shouldn't judge a book by its cover but pretty quickly you will know what someone is about. And she is the ONLY example of this that I have personally come across.
For example -
There is this old dude 60 or so... living in the house with my parents in law here in Spain... he asks all the time about diet.. and my wife in the beginning loved giving advice.. saying this that this that. I clearly said DON'T BOTHER... but my wife didn't listen..
Today she said "I am not telling that guy anything anymore.. he eats shit... i tell him what to do.. he continues to eat shit, he just tells me why he can't eat clean. But then still wants to have regular conversations about dieting." "When we told him to eat only things that HIS BODY responds well to" he stated - "But my body likes it." My wife said "No your tounge likes it.. your body doesn't like it, if your body liked it you wouldn't be fat!"
That is why the gym info sits there on his desk in spite of the fact that the gym is ACROSS THE ROAD (about 50m, no shit) (and has everything, you name it).
The funny thing is I said to my wife - try 8 years of that shit.. and see if you start to hate people. I love training, I love committed people. I live for the shit. But I hate lazy people. I have trouble when peoples mouth is our of balance with their commitment.
Like my mate.. he has one of the best physiques i know of.. and his mum is fat.. she does these ****ed crash diets all the time and lasts about a week. She doesn't listen to her son. One day I said "What is the deal with your Mum bro"? He said "Dude she has been doing it all my life, I just don't ****ing bother anymore".
And that is how I feel, I don't bother. If the person has some commitment in spite of knowing **** all and having shit training principles and diet. You will see them bashing away at it.. trying to learn and improve.. etc.
I try to be a balanced human being... Eg I look good, I am in good shape.. but I am studying IT at Uni. No need to be a massive dumb ass or a skinny geek.
BUT no matter what - I hate mediocrity and excuses.
Nate.