Not so horny

[Psaletta]

Just a shot in the dark. I have been married with kid for 8 yrs now and am really never in the mood... I know this sounds bad and I hope I'm not going to get slammed for it but.. I'm always looking at hot chicks (would never cheat.. Just looking) and when it comes to my wife I just am blah.. It's ****ed up I know.. She is hot so I'm not sure what the deal is.. I'm wondering when the test only cycle takes full effect will my hornyness (not sure if thats a word) increase???? I know we all get stagnate when married or with the same chick for sooooooo long but what the hell... I'm in week 3 of cycle btw.. 5th pin is wed am.. Thx guys.. Pls don't say I need a mariedge councler... Hahaha.. We get along great.. Just the sex thing..

[BlueWaffle21]

Hence why I'm not married or in a relationship!! I think by week 3 I was a walking erection and would've had sex with anything that walked by, every chick was gorgeous!!

[Psaletta]

Hahaha blue.. I have been noticing the chicks at work are starting to look better.. Thought is was the drought I'm currently in... I'm a horny **** as it is.. I just hopes this helps

[Times Roman]

first of all, the word you were looking for is called Libido... means the desire for sex.

second of all, i'm sure your interest in your woman will pick up here real quick....!

[MickeyKnox]

Just a shot in the dark. I have been married with kid for 8 yrs now and am really never in the mood... I know this sounds bad and I hope I'm not going to get slammed for it but.. I'm always looking at hot chicks (would never cheat.. Just looking) and when it comes to my wife I just am blah.. It's ****ed up I know.. She is hot so I'm not sure what the deal is.. I'm wondering when the test only cycle takes full effect will my hornyness (not sure if thats a word) increase???? I know we all get stagnate when married or with the same chick for sooooooo long but what the hell... I'm in week 3 of cycle btw.. 5th pin is wed am.. Thx guys.. Pls don't say I need a mariedge councler... Hahaha.. We get along great.. Just the sex thing..

week 5 you'll be cheating on your wife..

[Psaletta]

Thanks guys...

[BlueWaffle21]

week 5 you'll be cheating on your wife..:wg:

This is hilarious but unfortunately probably true!! I have posted this before but for me it got to the point I had to ask my buddy if the chick I was looking at was actually attractive or not. I just saw every chick as being hot and I wanted to have sex with them. It is an awesome feeling to have that feeling back but next time I'll hopefully be better able to judge before I act.

[Psaletta]

Hahahahaha. That's ****ing funny.. I can't wait for that feeling... Come test do yo stuff!!!!

[BBJT200]

Hahaha, i've definitely noticed a difference when taking test boosters....I can only imagine what a cycle would do for you O.O

(never done an AAS cycle before. Too young at 21)

[ANIMAL]

I have a desk job, right now I'm ending week 3 of my Test cyp/anavar cycle and I could be sitting here not thinking about anything... all of a sudden I feel like I need to hump the wall. Girl loves it.

LOL @ the cheating on the wife on week 5.

[Silverbimma]

This is a real problem I share with you. I'm not married but been with my girl for 2 years. I just sort of stopped desiring her after a while. It ****ing sucks cause we were best friends and today I broke her heart cause I broke up with her. It was a bad day. I just don't think I am ready for this type of commitment, I can't imagine being married. I start looking at not even that attractive girls and thinking boy what I'd do to her. I wish I could just be happy with my girl. But I can't lead her on with the way I think. She's the sweetest girl too.. I feel horrible but know that as much as I want and she wants, I'm just not ready. I'm always horny for other women.

[Psaletta]

@silver.. That sucks to hear bro.. Marriage is

[Psaletta]

Sorry.. Stupid iPhone! Marriage is not an easy task my friend. You are a guy.. Guys will always look at hot girls... Starts when we are 10.. Probly never goes away.. The key is not acting on it. As far as an update to my OG post.. My libido is through the roof and I'm knocking the dust off my wife's ass!! Lol.. In week 6 of test c and it's pretty ****ing great. As to your post silver it does get hard to Stay faithful and keep the spark. It takes work. I too am best friends with my wife and can't imagine going through life with out her BUT, if I was going to sleep with someone else I would end it with her first. It is not fair to them that we can't keep our junk in our pants... Sounds like you made the right choice. Good luck!

[ironbeck]

First of all I would like to say this is completely normal man. Unfortunate when your cycle kicks in and you are feeling good and you will become more horny, problem is you will and will not translate it to your wife. As you feel better(confidence) look better(confidence) you be getting more attention from women , which will in turn make it harder to not indulge in even more fantasy, which of course can turn your never cheat to I have to have that piece of *****...MY omly advise to you is if you do indulge(its the novelty of excitement that would come with a new female to explore)...if...get a pro (escourt) so you don't jeopardize your family life then find out if you can bear with the guilt...or just realize its just the juice(hormone)
But yea I feel you man...i think when it comes to the wife its just a matter of her desire as well......
Try this when(if) you get time just give her a full body(sensual massage) feet every ting but private parts...tell her you really thought she needed one? just curious to see how it goes.
Anyways good luck and remember........be smart think with the big head first bro, dont wanna **** up your family life.

[ironbeck]

Sorry.. Stupid iPhone! Marriage is not an easy task my friend. You are a guy.. Guys will always look at hot girls... Starts when we are 10.. Probly never goes away.. The key is not acting on it. As far as an update to my OG post.. My libido is through the roof and I'm knocking the dust off my wife's ass!! Lol.. In week 6 of test c and it's pretty ****ing great. As to your post silver it does get hard to Stay faithful and keep the spark. It takes work. I too am best friends with my wife and can't imagine going through life with out her BUT, if I was going to sleep with someone else I would end it with her first. It is not fair to them that we can't keep our junk in our pants... Sounds like you made the right choice. Good luck!

Kudos to you for landing what sounds like a soul mate...but remember its not a perfect world neither are we(I) I try.....every relationship is different with many complications some times...happy that you have been able to reconnect with your wife in a positive way.

[Psaletta]

Thanks ironbeck. Things as of late are on point in our relationship... I am going to try the massage just to see the reaction.

[TOkidd]

It's called the 7-year itch, I believe. Or the 8-year itch in your case. Hell, I get to scratching after a few months.

As for talk of soul mates, you tend not to believe in that crap after your "soulmate" of 11 years leaves you for some jerk she just met. These days I only believe in mates.

[BuzzardMarinePumper]

I am no expert like Times Roman but I am 53 and in my 20 probably did over a GAL. of Juice and had ship Test level 4 mths ago I had same issues and I had Low T my life is getting better every day and I am on a daily proticall of Cialis 5 mg 2 x's daily and this will cure any and all libido issiues from my experience ! in 3 days you will be looking for a hole in a pine Knot !

+ Insane pumps at the GYM and vascularity out of this world ! I am a Newbie and I have been all over this forum and I must say IMO all of you pure cycle guys may want to view the TRT section from time to time I have seen tons of answers to almost every question in this section in the TRT forum !

Why ever have sex down time with Cialis and PT-141 ?

No little guys trying to get big cycles just good healthy life with a testosterone proticall 365 days out of the year ! So never a wood issue there either because you are between aar time and PCT time good steady productive life no trying to balance a roller coaster ? + fertility no issue if you want to have kids !

[dtob]

OP is it out of the question to talk to her about it?
kind of had same situation almost identical actually i ende up talking to her about spicing it up and it really did make all the diference once things got spicier
i mean maybe approach her with the spice it up angle ( outfits, toys, roleplaying, sex swing , anal?, whatever it may be) seems to help with the attraction thing when my wife and i reinvented our sex life together

[snatchmasta]

Here's hoping things are going OK with you and your wife. I've been with my wife for over 18 years... got 2 kids and the only thing that's boring around here is her cooking! LOL I have to agree with dtob and spice it up a bit. Don't think of her as your wife or the mother of your kids, for a couple of hours a week... she needs to be your sex goddess and you need to be her Zeus. She has wants and needs as well and if you never talk about it, how do you know that she's not wanting to get freaky as well. Don't be one of those guys who stays up late wanking at the pics of naked chicks on the internet while your wife is in bed sexting her co-worker. Next thing you know you're divorced wondering where you went wrong while she's having 3somes with your best friends. My wife and I have always had an open line of communication when it came to sex, she never felt ashamed of telling me anything and we have had some amazing experiences during our time(so stuff you might end up reading in "Penthouse forums" LOL).

Good Luck

[kll123]

for sure slept with unattractive women during cycle had to bust a nut in something

[Psaletta]

Haha.. I just noticed that this thread was still getting responses. I'm currently going through a divorce. After my wife spoke to my strange on the phone when I was sleeping... my marriage went in the toilet. But in regards to the original post: you have to want to make it work in order for it to work.. 9 years and a family gone. Was it worth it. No.... What's done is done.. And if I had to do it over I'd would have found a way to re-spark the relationship with my wife. We all make mistakes. Some worse then others. ***** is king my friends but... Not worth loosing everything.

[BG]

You need to change things up. Try getting you wife horny through good foreplay and maybe she will do "more things" then normal. Dirty, nasty sex keeps me interested in my wife. just my 2 cents lol.

[largerthannormal]

I go thru slums like that. Keep in mind testosterone isn't always the key to labido. E2 n prog levels play a big role.

Also some said cialis will help, but it won't just helps maintain erections.

Are you on an AI or caber? I'd say get blood work but your in that odd spot of a cycle

Also I know some may say your e2 n pro are good due to u getting aroused from other women. But that could just be a mental thing, so many things can cause labido changes.. Lots in your head

How long has this been a problem? Maybe you never fully recovered from prior cycles?

Do you get blood work?

[Psaletta]

Mates... Thank you for your responses but if you read my last addition to this thread my wife and I are no longer married. It turned out that our sexual relationship was burned out. It had nothing to do with my dick or use there of. We just never did it and I ended up getting it elsewhere. Thanks for the help and concerns.

[largerthannormal]

Buzzecmarinepumper . stop bumn old posts lol

[BG]

Mates... Thank you for your responses but if you read my last addition to this thread my wife and I are no longer married. It turned out that our sexual relationship was burned out. It had nothing to do with my dick or use there of. We just never did it and I ended up getting it elsewhere. Thanks for the help and concerns.

Shit happens....good luck.

[ArmWrestler Dude]

Dude I totally feel bad for bumping this thread, but I think it's a compelling read. I really sympathize for the op. When I read that you all ended up cheating on eachother and got divorced, I felt terrible dude. Seriously. Makes my really appreciate my 11year, awesome sex non-stop, sharing and caring relationship. My lady, AKA the mother of my children(not married) is very special. Our relationship has grown so much over the years. Sex has intensified and gotten dirtier and dirtier (in a good way). I'm telling you bro, when things get dull in the sack, you can get filthy and bring things back to life. Most ladys dig a freak.

Sorry for your loss. Keep your chin up dude! I've got tons of bros who have successfully moved on and are thriving. You will too!