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    Unhappy No sex drive! NEED HELP PLEASE!

    Please help me! When I met my fiance in June of 2011 he had been on some heavy steroids for a couple of months and stopped them abruptly in August of 2011, which caused him to break out severely on his back and loss ALL DESIRE to have sex. Since then we have been on a roller coaster to say the least and have spent a few thousand on therapy that hasn't worked! He went to the endo almost a year ago and his testosterone level was 36, yes 36! The dr put him on test injections and clomide for blocking the estrogen (which he is now off). They were able to get his test level to 225 but has NOT helped with libido....They seem totally clueless about what to do.

    He still has ZERO sex drive and cries at movies that would make a girl cry! I've bought EVERYTHING under the moon for him to try and nothing seems to work. He's now taking 2 scoops of L-Arginine and a testosterone booster, but still no improvement. He refuses to get on more testosterone because of the back acne. Will this ever get better? and if so, how long??

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    Welcome to the Board. He needs to get blood work and post it in our HRT Forum. Sounds like his E2 is too high from your post but bloods will tell us what else is going on. Why not get him to join our forum? It will be easier to help by speaking directly with him. There's a sticky in our HRT forum to show what bloods are needed. Good luck.

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    He has had complete blood work and I can get those results. I would love for him to join, but he refuses to talk about it..... I will post the results as soon as I get them. Can his E2 be fixed??

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    Quote Originally Posted by khardy View Post
    Please help me! When I met my fiance in June of 2011 he had been on some heavy steroids for a couple of months and stopped them abruptly in August of 2011, which caused him to break out severely on his back and loss ALL DESIRE to have sex. Since then we have been on a roller coaster to say the least and have spent a few thousand on therapy that hasn't worked! He went to the endo almost a year ago and his testosterone level was 36, yes 36! The dr put him on test injections and clomide for blocking the estrogen (which he is now off). They were able to get his test level to 225 but has NOT helped with libido....They seem totally clueless about what to do.

    He still has ZERO sex drive and cries at movies that would make a girl cry! I've bought EVERYTHING under the moon for him to try and nothing seems to work. He's now taking 2 scoops of L-Arginine and a testosterone booster, but still no improvement. He refuses to get on more testosterone because of the back acne. Will this ever get better? and if so, how long??
    Quote Originally Posted by khardy View Post
    He has had complete blood work and I can get those results. I would love for him to join, but he refuses to talk about it..... I will post the results as soon as I get them. Can his E2 be fixed??
    Its IMPERATIVE that you find an intelligent doctor who is on board with HRT, or at the least, have him join THIS site for responsible and proper advice!

    His problems CAN be corrected - and they dont appear to be that complicated! But your fiance needs to open up his mind and swallow a bit of pride, then he will receive the help he's needs and is entitled to.

    Clomid does NOT reduce E2! And yes it can be manipulated.

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    Please re post this question in the HRT forums for some professional advice!


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    MickeyKnox- thank you for your reply! I hope and pray there is a solution because it is destroying us! The doctors are complete idiots and say that NOTHING can help the libido, wtf?? Is that true? shouldn't the libido get better once his levels are normal? they keep trying to give us something for ED, which isn't going to fix his issues. ED medications are for someone that can't get an erection. His problem is he has NO libido or desire!

    I am new to the forums and have no clue how to re post in another area. I will see if I can figure it out.

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    I posted it on the link that you recommended. Thank you!

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    Youre very welcome.

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    I would agree with MickeyKnox, not to mention 225 depending on what doctor you go to is still under normal im guessing they are giving him a severly low dose sub 250 mg ew. If I were him or you before administering synthetic test i would give an attempt to fix the problem rather than cover it up with test. Maybe before HRT is considered talk to a few guys on here. I know "Swifto" is very knowledgable on kick starting the boys back into gear. A few others guys as well. If it cant be done then consider HRT. Just my two cents.

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    Welcome and good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by brazey View Post
    Welcome to the Board. He needs to get blood work and post it in our HRT Forum. Sounds like his E2 is too high from your post but bloods will tell us what else is going on. Why not get him to join our forum? It will be easier to help by speaking directly with him. There's a sticky in our HRT forum to show what bloods are needed. Good luck.
    yes clomid will only block estrogen in the nipples, but it will now lower it, he need an AI (possibly) and to find a better endo/doc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by largerthannormal View Post
    I would agree with MickeyKnox, not to mention 225 depending on what doctor you go to is still under normal im guessing they are giving him a severly low dose sub 250 mg ew. If I were him or you before administering synthetic test i would give an attempt to fix the problem rather than cover it up with test. Maybe before HRT is considered talk to a few guys on here. I know "Swifto" is very knowledgable on kick starting the boys back into gear. A few others guys as well. If it cant be done then consider HRT. Just my two cents.
    agreed. a run of clomid (with out test injections ) for a couple months then time off and re-test is something that I would rec

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    Quote Originally Posted by khardy View Post
    MickeyKnox- thank you for your reply! I hope and pray there is a solution because it is destroying us! The doctors are complete idiots and say that NOTHING can help the libido, wtf?? Is that true? shouldn't the libido get better once his levels are normal? they keep trying to give us something for ED, which isn't going to fix his issues. ED medications are for someone that can't get an erection. His problem is he has NO libido or desire!

    I am new to the forums and have no clue how to re post in another area. I will see if I can figure it out.


    they are wrong. yes adding test to make levels normal or high-normal will help most but high estrogen and other factors can also play a role, on top of estrogen levels i would also check thyroid function/levels.

    ED meds will help with boner but not libido for most with issues.

    Good luck!

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    This has been re-posted in the HRT Forums for further assistance.

    http://forums.steroid.com/showthread...!#.UMeJRazX_fs

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