Fathers - Good relationship or not?

[shifty_git]

As the title says,

who here has a good relationship with there fathers?

and who has personality clash's?

im 27, and when i visit my parents my father still goes through my belongings when im not there! he's an ex police officer (retired for 15 years) but still thinks he's one! lol

[LawMan018]

I've always had a great relationship with my entire family. We're very close... I'm still at home and we get along just fine...

[Amorphic]

i don't get along with either of my parents. different sets of ideals and different frames of minds between our generations. ive come to accept it though

[Big]

I get along fine with my parents, we are very different but I don't let that bother me, they are getting up there in age and I don't want regrets after they are gone.

[scaramouche]

better hope he dont find ur steroid stash lol

[goodcents]

My father has been dead since 91' died when I was 17, he was a puss pos!!!!! Mom is everything

[Hoggage_54]

better hope he dont find ur steroid stash lol

^ I'm done if my dad finds my stash. Luck I don't live at home anymore!


I'm tight with both my parents. I go to my dad for more professional things, like work, school, money, etc. advice because he's been a top tier business guy his whole life. My mom I go to for gossip, relationship stuff, ranting about life, the more social things in life. I have mostly the same ideologies as my parents, but they have a traditional mindset but this never causes any issues. They respect my views on life, and I respect theirs.

[goodcents]

ps I hate my pos brother too like to hurl him off a fuking cliff

[Atomini]

Don't get along with my parents. At all.

[ottomaddox]

Father: relationship not so great, died about 15 years ago
Step-Father: great relationship, was better than real dad, died 4 years ago.
Peace,
CR

[Renesis]

My dad and I both are pervs we always check out the chicks and my mom slaps both of us.

[Lexed]

horrible relationship swore on my mother grave that I would be complete oppoiste to my kids

[kaberle_15]

The only problem with my dad is he doesn't like to share a lot of things if not asked about it so having conversations about private matters with him can be a little hard and akward but other than that everything is perfect, he is a laid back and open minded guy and there are no problems between us.

[Tbone1975]

As the title says,

who here has a good relationship with there fathers?

and who has personality clash's?

im 27, and when i visit my parents my father still goes through my belongings when im not there! he's an ex police officer (retired for 15 years) but still thinks he's one! lol

I had a real BAD relationship with my dad for most of my life. We still talk now, but it's limited. We are 100 percent opposites. I did everything I could to not be like him. That's why I told Bojangles, in his suicide thread, to get more "1st team" people around him, and that sometimes you don't even know how bad the people are around you until you make it the f*ck out!!!!!!!! Yeah!!!!! LOL. Yeah, but we talk but he's so "in his own little world" that I can never get close to him. My mom on the other hand is the sh*t.

[Amorphic]

horrible relationship swore on my mother grave that I would be complete oppoiste to my kids

almost the exact same thing with me

[RANA]

I have not spoken to my father in 24 years, that is my choice he wants to talk to me but he can kiss my ass.

[Atomini]

horrible relationship swore on my mother grave that I would be complete oppoiste to my kids

Same, except with father instead of mother.

[RANA]

Same, except with father instead of mother.

Ditto

[l2elapse]

Not a very good relationship

[football2007]

Great relationship with both parents..

They are totally against AAS tho...and I'm sure if I tried to come out about it we would grow apart. The dont ask dont tell policy is kinna in effect....

[J*U*icEd]

i don't get along wit my father at all.... ive gotten into plenty of fist fights wit him before.... he treats me like a complete fvck up when something i do isn't exactly what he wanted.... he doesn't share feelings or talk about anything... hes either in his id like to be left alone phase or yelling about the littlest things asking me if i wana be a fvck up my whole life... hense the fish fights.... but i love my mother, she would do anything for me, and does... ive resently had some personal problems and problems in general and my mother is the only one i can go to... she loves me unconditionally... during one of my ruff times i told my mother i was moving out and never wanted to see or talk to her again and she cried hysterically for days... i love my mother and appreciate everything and anything see does for me no matter what.... my father can fvck off... ive had, on more then one occation, very very violent dreams of killing my father....i can never do anything to make him happy....

[Amorphic]

seems like a lot of us have the same issues with father or parents in general. i wonder if juicing changes the way we feel about our fathers too, since in a sense we gain more power than them, and whatever they had over us before is meaningless now with the strength we have now.

[Chuck_R]

I have a great dad, but we have had some really bad "conflicts" in the past..but we've grown closer together as a result of working together thru' family emergencies, I'm closer to him now than I ever was as a kid.

[peteroy01]

Bio dad-is a crack head and disowned me about 2mon ago cause i wouldnt give him $20 for his next fix. hes dead to me.
Step dad-was always violent. the reason i started lifting was because i wanted to be bigger and stronger than him so i could beat his ass like he did mine. now hes gettin older and calm and we get along fine.
Mom=Angel

[2bshredded]

I had an alchy for a dad, he was a good provider but not a great Father.
I now have a 3 children, my son is 16 and he respects the shit out of me. I talk to him on his level, I see great things from this young man, physically and mentally. It's all about the relationship.

[number twelve]

good relationship with my father, we have similar personalities so we clash esp when im working for him over the summers

[K.Biz]

good relationship with my dad, hes the man and has helped me numerous times when i get in binds, wouldnt have it any other way.

me and my mom are at eachother throats if we are around eachother for more then a couple days so... i keep the visits to a minimum and we get a long real well.

[goodcents]

I think we have issues

[G-1000]

I have not spoke to my father in 11 years. If i was to see him i'm going to split his lip.

Mother and i get along ok.

Im not a huge family person. I'm happy with my wife and my puppy.

[Expat]

My father raised me as a single parent (not heard of much in my generation)...he did not participate in my life...I demanded it as an adult...he tried...I loved my father...He was ill prepared to be a parent....My mom (that word feels strange to say) I met at 26 yrs old...I was a stripper at that age and she looked at me as competition and pulled her claws out..we did not comunicate after the first meeting...Due to my experience at the tender age of 10 I swore to never get married or have children...and only recently married and it is for business...not love

[DSM4Life]

Nope. He decided to play with alcohol more then his kids.

I blame him for me being gay. I needed a manly figure in my life and since it wasn't him i figured the next best thing was to sleep with the first guy i saw !

[Lexed]

My father raised me as a single parent (not heard of much in my generation)...he did not participate in my life...I demanded it as an adult...he tried...I loved my father...He was ill prepared to be a parent....My mom (that word feels strange to say) I met at 26 yrs old...I was a stripper at that age and she looked at me as competition and pulled her claws out..we did not comunicate after the first meeting...Due to my experience at the tender age of 10 I swore to never get married or have children...and only recently married and it is for business...not love

for business?

[J*U*icEd]

Nope. He decided to play with alcohol more then his kids.

I blame him for me being gay. I needed a manly figure in my life and since it wasn't him i figured the next best thing was to sleep with the first guy i saw !

come on you can't honestly believe that... you had to have been born gay... i am a believer that your born gay and that its not your environment... you can't blame your father for that or else id be gay as well.... which i am the furthest thing from.....

[Amorphic]

come on you can't honestly believe that... you had to have been born gay... i am a believer that your born gay and that its not your environment... you can't blame your father for that or else id be gay as well.... which i am the furthest thing from.....

i think that was more of a joke actually. and whats wrong with being gay anyways? not like it hurts anyone, sometimes the anti-gay feelings on this board even suprise me

[DSM4Life]

That was 100% a joke.

[J*U*icEd]

That was 100% a joke.

ohh... haha... im not anti-gay i just took a whole class on homosexualism and society.... just tryin to spin off some of that wisdom learned in class....

[RuhlFreak55]

very close with all my family

[DSM4Life]

ohh... haha... im not anti-gay i just took a whole class on homosexualism and society.... just tryin to spin off some of that wisdom learned in class....

No harm done.

Never knew they had classes based on my lifestyle...cool

[Amorphic]

ohh... haha... im not anti-gay i just took a whole class on homosexualism and society.... just tryin to spin off some of that wisdom learned in class....

10-4

[RANA]

Nope. He decided to play with alcohol more then his kids.

I blame him for me being gay. I needed a manly figure in my life and since it wasn't him i figured the next best thing was to sleep with the first guy i saw !

Shit you are lucky I was not the first guy you saw, you would so be in love with me! LOL