I'm not looking for advice, just coming here to vent...
Anyways I've been living with this girl out here in colorado... Moved out here from va... Ever since I've been out here the girl has been too dam needy... Moved out here a couple of months ago...
Anyways since I've been out here...
Bitch has been so dam f'n needy.... every night having shit go wrong with her, of course I loved her n shit...
to give you a list of stuff...
-procrastination at it's worst, if work gets done around the house it's always of my doing
-she's ****ing horrible when it comes to saving/budgeting money, it burns a hole in her pocket
-she was raised that she gets everything her dam way
-She's always comparing me to her ex's, **** that
for example... Other than the army reserves I'm unemployed, went through about a 1 1/2 month process for the local sheriff's department only to find out I couldn't get hired cuz I'm 20 not 21... I get my taxes back so I decide to take a little extra time off as money allows, now that I'm getting back down low I'm going to be working for the local gym till I can get this construction job working with my friend here in a couple of weeks...
She comes home tonight with her ex-convict felon muchie sister and she starts talking crap to me... Going off how I wouldn't lend her money a few weeks back (**** that, she's a mooch, she doesn't pay shit back). And how I wouldn't let her have my food (i need that shit for my diet). She has her own BF and she's pregnant and she comes over here often after they beat the shit out of each other... THen she dare says how that lame excuse for a life is better than me because "he has a job" nevermind the fact that he's an alcoholic and beats her and abuses and lies...
Anyways why I went off in that little subject about her sister is because shit is great without her around... And she's always starting shit just because she thinks she's a "thug". She tried to hang over my head how she's pregnant and how it's hard for her to work cuz she's a felon, pssh, don't try to hold that over my head that's her own dam fault... F'n dope fiend...
Well back to my gf... I've basically been doing everything since I've been here, from dishes to folding clothes, windows, trash, you name it... She lives on her grandparents property and they give her money... Untill I have a decent job going for me I'm currently budgeting my money, she keeps having me buy her cig's and other random shit, I tell her how that small stuff add's up which could lead to us being broke... She says I'm stingey, I just say it puts us better off and keeps us with a pan to piss in...
**** just because when she gets money she goes n runs out and spends it all doesn't mean I need to do the same... BTW her ex of 3years used to abuse the shit out of her but she tries to hold the fact that when he had a job they'd go out every friday when he got paid and go on shopping spree's and shit, pay bills and such... I can understand the bills but she goes off putting herself in debt that doesn't even need to exist at least not in her current level of poverty... Her car is all kinds of ****ed up due to the fact that her ex broke just about everything in it from the windshield to getting shit stolen to the sideview mirrors to scratches... F'n all the doors to the rooms were ****ing broken when I got here, and who fixed that??? ME...
Shit I'm just going off about the bad there was also a lot of good believe me if it were just all of this I woulda been gone a long ****ing time ago...
But my point is... How does she get off by saying I don't provide??? What just because I "ONLY" buy the groceries, fill her car up with gas, do just about every ****ing thing around the house while she sits around and watches movies and doesn't teach her kid jack shit who she's supposed to be homeschooling, I was the one who taught him how to count to 10 and such she doesn't even take the time just gets pissed...
I was telling my friend earlier today at the gym that she has another thing coming once I get a full time job going because I'm not doing all this shit after I come home from work... I get back from the gym and she comes back with her sister, she says hi to the f'n animals and shit and doesn't even say hi to me, I kindly ask her "were's my hi" and she says it all ****ing low like she doesnt mean it...
Then I'm sitting here on the comp... that's when her and her sister go off on me...
I'm definately gone for sure in the morning, even though I might love her and there has been PLENTY of good (which obviously I didn't list). But the better part of me know's what I have to do b4 I get involved with this disfunctional family any more...
So I'm not asking for advice, just going off on a rant...
Not to mention her mom... Who I've done nothing but nice things for...
Out here in colorado it snowed a LOT this winter, went over to be nice and shoveled off her roof (3+ft of snow might I add). Got in a little argument that night with the GF over some stupid shit she had started on the phone only for her mom to come on the phone right afterwords out of the blue and talk a bunch of shit to me and say how I should "go home" and that "I suck at shoveling" and that "i can't make it out here". Meanwhile wtf does she do??? Not shit, she ****ing lives in a trailer and mooches off her parents too, sound familiar??? Next day I see her in person, she's all nice to me again... Just recently I had heard that she had a bad ass sword that was in the pawn shop and she always talked about it... So when I had some extra money I wasn't budgeting I figured it would be a nice gesture to go get that out of the shop for her... and what do I get out of it??? Not that I was expecting anything but just more of her mouth... it just comes out at random times like the other night...
I was telling my gf that I'm not doing all these dishes and she can do them I'm tired of always doing the dishes, her mom happened to be over visiting and got all smart with me telling me "well what do you expect you have a family" **** they aint my family yet just a ****ing gf... I'd like to see my gf do something for a change, not just sit on her ****ing lazy ass and gripe at me about what I'm "not doing"...
I go pick her up fast food she throws a fit that I got her the wrong ****ing soda... Last night she asked me to make her some cream-o-wheat and told me to make it with "lumps" well I usually make mine all smooth and creamy and wasn't used to making "lumps, I make it for her like she asks and she bitches at me for the "lumps being too big". **** if she's going to treat me like that why doesn't she get off her ass and make her own dam food...
I'm leaving in the morning to move in to my friend/workout buddies house and starting work here soon... I could care less what they think about me and how I don't "provide" I just don't want them to slander my name... and I guarantee she's going to go run to her ex and complain about how I didn't do nothing and then slander my name to her grandparents (who, btw, are very nice and I get along with them very well, I'd hate for them to think of me negatively, but whatever).
Since I've been with her, I've never laid a hand on her (like every single other of her ex's) and I never would do such a thing to a girl... I've been nothing but nice however she would start arguments over stupid shit, I would keep cool and she would get all loud n shit and act like a child with this stupid "last word" bullshit... She know's I'm a thousand times better than any1 she's been with, so why would she lie to herself and say this stupid shit???
Oh and of all the nerve, at least she would always tell her sister off as obviously her sister has a loud mouth... But earlier this night she went off on me how I DON'T PROVIDE FOR HER SISTER, ****ing her sister has a man who is the dad of her child and they have a trailer because she gets in fights and runs over here does that mean I'm supposed to provide for her too now or what she's ****ing 24 she can provide for her own dam self, pregnant, felon, or not... I honestly don't care anymore...
Thankfully I've finally come to my senses, why after all this time have I stayed here??? NO ****ING CLUE!!! I guess my brain wasn't working... THen again it wasn't always so bad, lots of good times, but the scales here are extremely unballanced and my gut tells me staying is definately wrong, always got to trust your gut feeling...
well that's the end of the rant, sure there's plenty more shit I didn't think about but I aint got no1 to talk to right now and this shit is rediculous...
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