
Originally Posted by
The road
I didn't know Rita very well but my gf did.
It also came at a time when her grandmother is slowing down and worsening in health.
Rita was her grandmothers sister.
After she passed, Gramdma said to my gf, "I am tired and I am gonna be leaving soon. I am not afraid, but I don't want to leave you behind."
She is THE grandmother of the family and that thpught has gf very concerned now. She does not deal with death well. Her grandmother is the most important and influential person in her life outside our household.
I wish I could give some people some of my time here sometimes, but that wouldn't work out in the long run.