
Originally Posted by
Cheylayna1978
Precisely.
Work + effort + time invested in oneself = Great fitness approach that matches your goals.
However, there are a lot of people (my boyfriend calls them "kids" no matter how old they are) that want a "quick fix" or for someone else to do all the work for them, and they don't want to take the time to figure out their own approach/construct their own plan of attack. I am sure you've seen threads similar to this where a person gets great advice/counsel, only to then ask for a "sample" of what "you would do in my situation", which translates into them seeing what was advised and thinking, "sh*t, that's too much work for me to do", and then after their request for a "sample approach" goes un-addressed, they disappear forever and leave their thread to take a dirt nap.
Those others = they are lazy. Happy that this is not you, so make sure you take the advice given above as there is no way you can be "lost" after all of that advice as eatrainrest said above.
The more you put into your approach = the more you get out.
I know if it were my body and desires, I'd spend whatever amount of time/effort it took. Good luck to you.
'Layna