So last night I finally talked to my wife about the feelings I have been having. Shockingly she was feeling similar how we just aren`t the same to each other any more and everyday it feels like we are further apart. I was pretty suprised she had the same feeling I do. We talked about why things are that way and sme other under liying issues that also have affected us like the fact she is spanish and I am not. She wants me to learn spanish( I know some but have never really picked it up).
So that I can communicate more with her family and friends. So then we got in to what she would start doing for me if I learn spanish, I told her there was a few things. Blow jobs, anal etc. more sex in general lol. She also said there was another thing that bugged her, she said most times when we have sex I just roll over and fall asleep. I laughed and said your right, I guess she wants more "cuddles" after. I told her the problem there is that the most common time for us to have sex is right before sleep and if we were to start doing it throughout the day that would happen more. I`m just too tired sometimes after sex and just pass out. Also she wants to do more things together other than just sitting around the house. We spoke on some other points but mostly those things.

The good thing about the whole situation was how she looked at me and made me feel like there is atleast hope so we will give it a go and see what is ahead.