If you are in a relationship and one person is uncomfortable with the other's behavior, there has to be some compromise. I would never choose party buddies over my man, esp if I felt that there was a future with him. I had to make that choice a few times when I was married and I always chose my relationship over the friends. (OF course I ended up without both but that was my choice) In the long run.....the friends will probably end up going away after a while, party buddies are a dime a dozen....a good relationship is precious.
Sit down and talk to her and make sure she understands how you feel. You might need to try and keep your impulses under control and go out with her sometime to see how it goes. If you still aren't comfortable with it....tell her she has a choice. Just be prepared to not get the answer you want. If you don't deal with it now.....it really won't ever get better. You have to trust her.....but she needs to get her priorities in order.
Just my two cents.
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Originally Posted by mass junkie
), and I know how they work. Especially if it's all about attention. Do you think she is smoking with these guys??? I just can't understand if she isn't partying with them but is hanging out with them...that just isn't right...there is nothing fun in this world being the designated driver/ or whatever. But to hang out on a regular basis seems quite strange if everyone is not all on the same page.. Let alone not wanting her boyfriend around. To me a relationship is all about have similar interests and enjoying one anothers company... and if she prefers to be with them without you.......HELLO!
I was only joking 
