I think forums like this are cool because everyone talks openly & has a good time. I am not trying to be the devil's advocate here, but maybe this might help:

I am probably one of the olderst dudes at the forum, like 49. I remember back when I was around 12 there were actually families, good families, that were so old fashion, nothing about sex was ever mentioned. Mother & dad never touched each other in public let alone an innocent hug or kiss even. When it was time to learn the facts of life, you were handed a book to read and told if you had any questions to ask after you read the whole thing, end of discussion.

Just wondering if the dude was so helpful all this time, why would he act differantly now, but if he came from a warped background like that, I could see him acting bizzare and out of charactor in this one instance if that were the case. I must admit, these days folks like that are few and far between.

Bet I have at least a 60% chance of being right on this one too.

And no, my parents weren't like that, lol.