Bro confident is and arbitrary WORD that means different things to different people, so its not really confidence. Women do not have some super freaky sense that men dont, but they relly on it much more than men do. When you are with someone else (or even if you are not and just know better) you are not hanging on the outcome. Meaning you dont have this energy of trying to be validated or emotional charge that this approach or this colongue has to do it for me. Or the thought if I get this girl I can get any girl or I am pimp or playa if this girl likes me. Instead you havent any energy tied up into this exchange with another woman and your not trying to validate your manhood or worthyness through an interaction with another human being, so your actions (even know your not aware of it) allow them to feel your approachable and not wreaking of needyness and lust.
Most of you will think I am talking some psych crap or w/e its not the case. I just have found ways of doing things differently in my world than other men and it proves to me daily, that I can be with any woman I want without needyness or lust. I can do this because I am offering her a chance to be with me not the other way around. I am not offering this to her in a cocky way or arrogant way, but if I can offer her an opportunity to have things outside of what shes used to, and teach her that what shes always done isnt what might be good for her or what can make her feel better than shes felt before. I can only offere this opportunity if I understand I have what is of worth not her. I have noticed in most guys they dont except that you cany validate yourself by whether or not people except you.
Anyway people only see what you offer, even if they (and you) dont relise its unconcious thought.
If you would like a further explanation just ask. I am not great at typing my thoughts and often the translation gets lost. Just let me know
