
Originally Posted by
SexyKitty
Personally it sounds like you have already made up YOUR mind as to what you want to do but you did not mention once in any of your posts what SHE wants to do. Have you even asked her? Or is this just a quick fix remedy your looking for so you you can continue to get some? Maybe she's stressed, maybe her hormones are out of whack, maybe sex has become painful or maybe to reiterate what TTU said, SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.
If she wants to fix this problem then SHE needs to get to a doctor ASAP, it's not your decision to force her to go, nor is it your decision to inject her with test when most likely she has no idea what the consequences would be (I doubt you told her anything about test and I really doubt that she has researched it herself). Yes the testosterone patch works and it is widely prescribed by physicians HOWEVER it is prescribed to POST MENAUPAUSAL WOMEN! Not young women, which I assume that is what your girlfriend is. Postmenaupausal women have NO testorsterone whatsoever, so adding that little bit extra along with estrogen replacement increases their libido and decreases vaginal dryness that has dissapeared as a result from going through menaupause and the loss of hormones. If your girls test levels are fine, then the patch would simply be a quick fix, would increase her test levels to higher than normal levels putting her at risk for side effects and the core of the problem is not being addressed. Dont you realize that with women the most minute amount of extra test can cause sides. Just like in men, extra estrogen causes gyno!
So, what should you do? Ask her if she wants to go to the doctor and if she wants to fix the problem, that is the only reasonable, logical answer.