Psycho Stalkers....

**heavyrotation92** · 02-10-2006, 02:26 PM

alright, so i started dating this chick for about a month now and we have run into a problem. there is this loser that keeps bothering her all the freakin time trying to get back with. they were only talking for less than a month !! (so she says). this guy is pathetic. just last night out drinkin he saw us together and her friends were saying he looked like he was about to cry and he "can't watch".

wtf? now, i got a call today, she said he came in to her work (dental office) and gave her a card and flowers!!! dude, is this guy asking for an ass beating or what. he is starting to creep her out. the whole card was filled with his sob story!

worse yet, he is friends with some of her friends so i cant go shake him around cuz that will make me look bad.... or should i care? how do we tell this loser off?

**Carlos_E** · 02-10-2006, 02:37 PM

That is something she needs to do. If she has no interest in him why is she accepting gifts from him? There is more to the story than what she is telling.

**USfighterFC** · 02-10-2006, 02:41 PM

She's doing him behind your back bro....throw those leather gloves on and hop in your bruno magli shoes and rev up the bronco baby....time to get busy. All joking aside I wouldnt sweat it. Dont ever sweat a girl, they all suck.

And swallow

**heavyrotation92** · 02-10-2006, 02:41 PM

no, she gave the flowers to a co-worker...... i'm not too suspicious..... but then again, she is a girl

never trust anything that bleeds for more than 3 days and doesnt die, right?

**Carlos_E** · 02-10-2006, 02:45 PM

I would give her a chance to handle it. Tell her if she wants the guy to leave her alone she needs to tell him. If she tells him and he doesn't back off then get involved. If she doesn't say anything, you can't blame the guy. She's leading him on.

**Massacre** · 02-10-2006, 02:57 PM

I laugh if off. That's just me. You are the better man. Enjoy the victory and tap it tonight.

**RuhlFreak55** · 02-10-2006, 03:09 PM

Originally Posted by USfighterFC

She's doing him behind your back bro....throw those leather gloves on and hop in your bruno magli shoes and rev up the bronco baby....time to get busy. All joking aside I wouldnt sweat it. Dont ever sweat a girl, they all suck.

And swallow

Bronco's are the shit!!!!!

**SwoleCat** · 02-10-2006, 03:09 PM

She may have given the flowers to a co-worker, but the fact she accepted them when he brought them is the issue. I don't think she gave the flowers away IN FRONT of him, so to him he still thinks that she accepted them!!

That's the issue. He'll keep doing things like that if she doesn't put her foot down.

~SC~

**hotstuff** · 02-10-2006, 03:21 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

I would give her a chance to handle it. Tell her if she wants the guy to leave her alone she needs to tell him. If she tells him and he doesn't back off then get involved. If she doesn't say anything, you can't blame the guy. She's leading him on.

my thougts exactly! some girls like the attention, but then again some guys out there are just plain crazy. Give it a little time and see how this all plays out.

**Tren Bull** · 02-10-2006, 03:25 PM

Originally Posted by heavyrotation92

alright, so i started dating this chick for about a month now and we have run into a problem. there is this loser that keeps bothering her all the freakin time trying to get back with. they were only talking for less than a month !! (so she says). this guy is pathetic. just last night out drinkin he saw us together and her friends were saying he looked like he was about to cry and he "can't watch".

wtf? now, i got a call today, she said he came in to her work (dental office) and gave her a card and flowers!!! dude, is this guy asking for an ass beating or what. he is starting to creep her out. the whole card was filled with his sob story!

worse yet, he is friends with some of her friends so i cant go shake him around cuz that will make me look bad.... or should i care? how do we tell this loser off?

the bottom line is that it only really matters how this girl feels about you beating on this fool. if hes really creeping her out then put some fear in him... girls like to feel protected.

**BARLOW** · 02-10-2006, 03:44 PM

i dated a girl like this not to long ago..... cept she had 2 guys!! ex boyfriend and a co-worker.... well i put my foot down and said me or them....she fixed it for a bit then went back to old ways and i say buh bye thanks for da sex ><

**SnaX** · 02-10-2006, 04:03 PM

Carlos is right here. She needs to take are of this.
and YOU need to tell her that this bothers you.. and let her know that it worries you that this guy bothers her so much...
if she keeps accepting gifts from him though, then you need to tell her that she needs to tell him to scram, or you scram.
Do it for everyone's sake, not to let her lead him on.

Hope you see where im going with this... now if you dont mind i have to go to another thread and see if that guys mom i'm "driving" has more wiper fluid in her.

**Massacre** · 02-10-2006, 04:10 PM

I agree with SC. Also, I beleive she didn't want to be a bitch and that's the only reason she just took them. She could've gotten fired so maybe she was trying to get him the **** out of there.

**LAGMuXle** · 02-10-2006, 04:52 PM

I agree with SC and Carlos.

I couldn't have explained it any better.

It is, at first, her responsability to handle it. This situation shouldn't be discussed any further as of now (it should be ended by her).

If it continues, and she refuses to tell the guy otherwise, then you need to discuss things with her.

If she is ignorant to the fact that it is her responsability; she needs to grow up and you need to find yourself a new chick.

If she says something and the guy doesn't back off, then it's your turn.

I think I covered all angles. I don't put up with situations like this. If it isn't taken care of within a few days, then it's out of hand and she may just be too immature.

I had a situation a few weeks ago - one of my chick's "best guy friends" was at the same party as her. Me and her weren't doing too well, and I heard some rumors that they were all over eachother. The next day I called her, told her we needed to sit down and discuss some issues. She came over; I told her that if there was a reason for rumors to start such as that - then she better have a good reason it be so and have things taken care of immediately (that day). I told her I wouldn't tolerate any ignorance or aarogance in the situation. I told her to pass this on to the guy that was involved. And he hasn't talked or contacted me since (we used to be friends).

I don't tolerate immaturiy, disrespect, or any situations that are not of mutual gesture.

Best of Luck,

MuX

**LAGMuXle** · 02-10-2006, 04:54 PM

I agree with SC and Carlos.

I couldn't have explained it any better.

It is, at first, her responsability to handle it. This situation shouldn't be discussed any further as of now (it should be ended by her).

If it continues, and she refuses to tell the guy otherwise, then you need to discuss things with her.

If she is ignorant to the fact that it is her responsability; she needs to grow up and you need to find yourself a new chick.

If she says something and the guy doesn't back off, then it's your turn.

I think I covered all angles. I don't put up with situations like this. If it isn't taken care of within a few days, then it's out of hand and she may just be too immature.

I had a situation a few weeks ago - one of my chick's "best guy friends" was at the same party as her. Me and her weren't doing too well, and I heard some rumors that they were all over eachother. The next day I called her, told her we needed to sit down and discuss some issues. She came over; I told her that if there was a reason for rumors to start such as that - then she better have a good reason it be so and have things taken care of immediately (that day). I told her I wouldn't tolerate any ignorance or aarogance in the situation. I told her to pass this on to the guy that was involved. And he hasn't talked or contacted me since (we used to be friends).

I don't tolerate immaturiy, disrespect, or any situations that are not of mutual gesture.

Best of Luck,

MuX

**LAGMuXle** · 02-10-2006, 05:00 PM

Damn internet. Sorry for the double-post.

**chest6** · 02-10-2006, 05:02 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

That is something she needs to do. If she has no interest in him why is she accepting gifts from him? There is more to the story than what she is telling.

exactly. My ex did the same shit..do something about it (break up if she does it again) or it'll keep happening

**decadbal** · 02-10-2006, 05:30 PM

break em off sumpin

**timvds** · 02-10-2006, 07:39 PM

Originally Posted by heavyrotation92

alright, so i started dating this chick for about a month now and we have run into a problem. there is this loser that keeps bothering her all the freakin time trying to get back with. they were only talking for less than a month !! (so she says). this guy is pathetic. just last night out drinkin he saw us together and her friends were saying he looked like he was about to cry and he "can't watch".

wtf? now, i got a call today, she said he came in to her work (dental office) and gave her a card and flowers!!! dude, is this guy asking for an ass beating or what. he is starting to creep her out. the whole card was filled with his sob story!

worse yet, he is friends with some of her friends so i cant go shake him around cuz that will make me look bad.... or should i care? how do we tell this loser off?

So you think its funny that he is all wrapped up in her after a month, yet you are willing to twist his head off fo rher after only seeing this chick a month too...

MUST BE SOME GOOD ASS!!!

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