My Stepdad is aa DICKHEAD!!!!

[biggnik56]

ok, so my stepdad has an issue with drinkin. When he does he thinks he's God's Gift. I've almost beaten his ass once, and thawt he'd realize his bull$hit. WRONG! He just finished being a dick, not hitting or shit like that, last time he pushed my mom just a little is when i ALMOST whooped the shit outta hime. Luckily for him my buddy mark was over and pulled me off of him. But I'm SOOOO FU*KING pissed right now i wanna go beat his ass so bad. I tried meditation to calm down and im listening to enya, but it aint helpin. WTF DO I DO????????

[SwoleCat]

Have a heart to heart w/your Mom and explain to her what your concerns are.
If she doesn't want to get rid of him, well, that's a tough one bro.

~SC~

[biggnik56]

i guess let the day breathe out and talk to her this week?

[SwoleCat]

Yup!

Whatever you do don't get yourself into trouble (legal issues) by beating him senseless, because then you'll be gone leaving your Mom with that jerk.

Play smart, outmaneuver him, and win.

~SC~

[ascendant]

Yup!

Whatever you do don't get yourself into trouble (legal issues) by beating him senseless, because then you'll be gone leaving your Mom with that jerk.

Play smart, outmaneuver him, and win.

~SC~

good call. you need to find out why your mother would be with someone like that. usually caused by low self-esteem issues and thinking the person can't find anyone better. if that's the case, it'll be tough, but show her that there are opportunities, and with far better men. show her websites where she can meet other men. an online personals, myspace, or something like that. if she needs the push, even set her up with an account and help her put it all together if she's not too computer savvy. get her pic(s) up on it, make a profile, and show her there are plenty of other opportunities.

if he does end up doing anything to your mother physically, i would certainly send him to the e.r. don't kill his ass, but do some serious damage. i know some may disagree and say call the cops, but the cops won't arrest him unless your mother presses charges, which if she won't leave him, she most likely wouldn't press charges either. however, if he attacks your mother first, then you were defending her and are well within your legal limits to do so. i hope it doesn't come to that, but if it does, you need to set an example for him the first time that it's something he can't get away with.

also, another way to get him out of his bad habit is have him get caught. if he drives when he's drunk, call in an anonymous phone call to the local police next time he's out driving drunk, provide his license plate #, and inform them he's intoxicated and driving at that time. they'll have the local police keep an eye out for his car and when they find him, pull him over and give him the roadside test. when he ends up with a DWI, might help him cut down his drinking.

[J-Dogg]

I hate dick heads, just pay me a few bucks and I'll beat his ass and take pictures.

It's probably not the right way, but it is gratifying and will keep you out of jail!

[taiboxa]

i guess let the day breathe out and talk to her this week?

i love the avatar!

and SC is right

[cfiler]

Talk to your mom, and let her know that you are worried. Have a good heart to heart with her, maybe even take her to a family concilor. Let her know how you feel, and hopefully she'll get the picture.

[juiceboxxx]

what did he do to piss you off?

[J-Dogg]

He step dad pushed his mother

[juiceboxxx]

He step dad pushed his mother

same thing happened to me.........couple years ago I pushed him broke the plates, threw a chair at him, kicked open and broke the wall, glass table etc.....

my advice is tell him to grow up and learn the basic foundations of a relationship and say if you cant respect my mother or handle it...if it may be too much work for you then get lost or I'll whoop you....

sometimes you just have to be stright up be think 1st still....

[SwoleCat]

Or simply put something in his drink.

Bye bye wanna be dada!!

~SC~

[squatdaddy]

once again, sage advise from SC... life is a chess game, the one who wins is the one who out thinks his opponent

[zimmy]

Talk with your mom. No matter what you do... no matter what you say to him...it all comes down to helping your mom get enough strength to deal with the issue.

[Tren Bull]

you should do what fat albert says...

hey hey hey!!!

snatch his ass up in a bear trap

[ascendant]

once again, sage advise from SC... life is a chess game, the one who wins is the one who out thinks his opponent

life is far from a chess game. all thought and no action in life accomplishes nothing. thought alone is oftentimes not enough in the physical world.

i experienced a similar issue when i was younger with my father with the alcohol issues, only my problems were far worse with abuse and all. talking accomplished nothing, and trust me, i tried. some people just won't open up, especially the kind looking to drown their problems in alcohol. however, when someone is an alcoholic and causing problems in the process, you have many options of how to go about correcting that situation on your end.

though a situation like this is very complex, i still think my original suggestions to you would be your most effective route at this point.

[biggnik56]

thnx for all the advice guys, im gona talk to my mom sometime this week and see how she feels about it. btw SC just in case where would one find a good supplement to put in his drink? Maybe creatine?LOL

[INM]

you could put a couple of exstacy´s in his drink..
then call the cops and tell them he´s on drugs, but this could also get out of control and he could die, and then ur in big trouble (co it´s maybe not a good choice)

[boxingbean]

move out

[J-Dogg]

If you turn him into the victim, your mom will be pissed at you. Like stated above, just be there for your mom, assure her you are always there when she needs and express your concern.

[ascendant]

If you turn him into the victim, your mom will be pissed at you. Like stated above, just be there for your mom, assure her you are always there when she needs and express your concern.

this is true, she most likely would. even if he hits her first and you go after him, she'll still get pissed at you. i know it's ridiculous, but my mom did the same thing when i brought my fathers abusive behavior to a screeching halt once i got old enough to step up. regretfully i had no other choice, but just figured if it does come down to that with you, it's better you be prepared beforehand for your mother to get upset.

[Just t]

Threaten his ass when he is sober!

[perfectbeast2001]

I heard insulin works well. Then hide all the carbs in the house!!

[RA]

Yup!

Whatever you do don't get yourself into trouble (legal issues) by beating him senseless, because then you'll be gone leaving your Mom with that jerk.

Play smart, outmaneuver him, and win.

~SC~

Good advice for life

[stayinstacked]

If it were myself I would wait until he got really drunk again and drop the mother****er. If the cops get called guess what? Your sober and he's drunk, they're going to side with you. And your mother should know that when he treats her bad, it hurts you as well. Dont worry, a good ass beating will keep him from wanting to come around again, and your mom will thank you down the road.

[squatdaddy]

life is far from a chess game. all thought and no action in life accomplishes nothing. thought alone is oftentimes not enough in the physical world.

i experienced a similar issue when i was younger with my father with the alcohol issues, only my problems were far worse with abuse and all. talking accomplished nothing, and trust me, i tried. some people just won't open up, especially the kind looking to drown their problems in alcohol. however, when someone is an alcoholic and causing problems in the process, you have many options of how to go about correcting that situation on your end.

though a situation like this is very complex, i still think my original suggestions to you would be your most effective route at this point.

and all action with little thought gets you in lots of trouble... tis a balancing act... but thinking ahead before action often times makes you the stronger opponent

[IBdmfkr]

I heard insulin works well. Then hide all the carbs in the house!!

Now THAT would suck.