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    i met a girl a month ago at work and i liked her but she had a bf....a week ago i found out they broke up so i started flirting more and being more friendly/funny and shes been responding very good...we talked online for a few hours for a few nights and she was saying things like u look so much better that this guy....and this girl is ok but i think u could do much better so i assumed she was trying to let me know she likes me.....shes always laughing around me touching me on the arm etc......but her parents are strict and dont want her gon out with guys so ive been making jokes like when are u gonna sneek out ur house for us to do some sober activities (she doesnt like to drink so i joke about that)......today i said when are u gonna sneak out ur house and come pick me up (she doesnt have a car i would pick her up but i was just jokin) and she was like im not sure if thats ever gonna happen .....should i just be more straightfoward with her and ask her out or should i just forget about it and stay friends with her ...thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by bomb9932
    i met a girl a month ago at work and i liked her but she had a bf....a week ago i found out they broke up so i started flirting more and being more friendly/funny and shes been responding very good...we talked online for a few hours for a few nights and she was saying things like u look so much better that this guy....and this girl is ok but i think u could do much better so i assumed she was trying to let me know she likes me.....shes always laughing around me touching me on the arm etc......but her parents are strict and dont want her gon out with guys so ive been making jokes like when are u gonna sneek out ur house for us to do some sober activities (she doesnt like to drink so i joke about that)......today i said when are u gonna sneak out ur house and come pick me up (she doesnt have a car i would pick her up but i was just jokin) and she was like im not sure if thats ever gonna happen .....should i just be more straightfoward with her and ask her out or should i just forget about it and stay friends with her ...thanks
    say "so when are you gonna seak out your house and give me a F#$#@ bl0wjob ?"

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    MMMM HOT COOKING !!!!! no car lives at home ???? how old is this chick ??

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    shes 19 and im 20

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    never shit where you eat..

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    Quote Originally Posted by DSM4Life
    say "so when are you gonna seak out your house and give me a F#$#@ bl0wjob ?"


    hahahh fuggin DSM yeah say this it will work good.....I mean really dude what are you asking what to do , you already know what your gonna do !! so do it.

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    even though she flirts with me constantly i dont want to be on some stalker shit and keep harassin her to go out cuz i already did it jokingly twice and didnt get much of a response.........

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    Quote Originally Posted by bomb9932
    even though she flirts with me constantly i dont want to be on some stalker shit and keep harassin her to go out cuz i already did it jokingly twice and didnt get much of a response.........
    well, in that case, ask her and mean it! screw the jokes, be straightforward. the worst that can happen is that she will say no. to be honest though, usually if you ask a girl just jokingly, and she is interested, she will respond positively, still with a joke tone, and thats when you would usually follow it up with a serious proposal lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bojangles69
    never shit where you eat..
    lol i usually say "dont shit on your own doorstep", but yours is so much better

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    dating someone at work is not cool.

    She just broke up and has strict parents.. those two combined r enough to run for the hills.

    She could like the attention ur giving her, but not really want any more

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    i will say keep being friendly and dont rush just let it flow and it will happen, let her say it,try a change for a while. good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bojangles69
    never shit where you eat..
    very good advice

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    Dude if you want to date her ask if she would like for you to meet her parents and see if they will give you permission to take her out on a date....

    If you just want to F#CK her ask her if she would like to sneek out of the house and F#CK......

    Either way dont beat around the bush decide what you want and see if thats what she wants too.....

    If she shoots you down go home and try to find a new one the next day....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bojangles69
    never shit where you eat..
    Excellent advice. I have done it twice and I ate shit both times !!!!

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    nah man shes just likes the attention.

    she already gave you clear signals that it aint gonna happen with the whole 'im not sure if thats EVER gonna happen' remark.

    plus more than likely she would respond back jokingly with a positive response when you mess around with her.

    so she aint havin it or its not the right time.

    back off a little with the playfull manner but stick around.... every now and then you can let her know you think shes a cutey.

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    i dont get it girls are fu#$Ein wierd,.........even online shes asking me questions like what are u hiding?....and im like what are u talkin bout and shes like u must have an ex gf that stalks u or something........im like why the **** would u say shit like that if ur not interested but i think im just gonna take it slower and just be friendly cuz i really dont understand any girls......thanks for the repsonses

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    Quote Originally Posted by bomb9932
    i dont get it girls are fu#$Ein wierd,.........even online shes asking me questions like what are u hiding?....and im like what are u talkin bout and shes like u must have an ex gf that stalks u or something........im like why the **** would u say shit like that if ur not interested but i think im just gonna take it slower and just be friendly cuz i really dont understand any girls......thanks for the repsonses
    Well welcome to the rest of the Male population. We dont fvcking understand them either !!!

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    dont ever waste your time trying to figure out how a womans mind works. the answer is simple: they DONT work

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    Quote Originally Posted by bomb9932
    even though she flirts with me constantly i dont want to be on some stalker shit and keep harassin her to go out cuz i already did it jokingly twice and didnt get much of a response.........
    if she hasnt said NO yet.. THEN GO FOR IT TILL SHE DOES!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bojangles69
    never shit where you eat..
    Agreed100%Sound like a textbook smash and dash but young chiks are to clingy and expect to much so "smash and dash " if you got the balls

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    dont fvck with girls at work

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    Quote Originally Posted by bomb9932
    i dont get it girls are fu#$Ein wierd,.........even online shes asking me questions like what are u hiding?....and im like what are u talkin bout and shes like u must have an ex gf that stalks u or something........im like why the **** would u say shit like that if ur not interested but i think im just gonna take it slower and just be friendly cuz i really dont understand any girls......thanks for the repsonses
    No your just young man soon you'll realize that trying to understand somethingthat bleeds for a week and doesn't die is completly useless so just let her talk about herself chiks love to hear themselves talk and just say yeah yeah yeah and that's it.

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    If you want her be straight up about it. But good luck with the strict parents. That's enough to ruin a lot of legit potential in a potentially good girl.

    Does that sound right? Potential twice hmm anyways

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    Just be straight forward. You could always try and win over her parents. Meet them and ask for permission to date their daughter. I've had to do that once, when the daughter wasn't allowed to date, and was too scared to sneak out. Works like a charm.

    You could start small. Ask if it's ok if she comes over to dinner with your family. That one worked for me.

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