Oh man i F*cked up!

[big daddy k de]

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[king6]

Tell her how you feel about her. Explain that you didn't kiss her, and you told her not to do it anymore. She will probably need some cool off time, but I think things will work out in your favor.

[king6]

You could try buying her something to say your sorry.

[l2elapse]

did yall make out or was it a kiss

[big daddy k de]

did yall make out or was it a kiss

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[king6]

Kiss one was a kiss with her toung in my mouth ...kis 2 was a mutual kiss but ended with me pushing her off and telling her this wasnt going to happen

I'm assuming her friend saw the first kiss.

[BajanBastard]

I hate to say this bro but................ that chick you like sounds like one of those selfish women who don't want you until someone else does.

I personally don't think you ****ed up at all, she should have made things clear.

[DSM4Life]

If you told her what you told us and she doesn't want to hear it then its over. I don't understand what more you can do

[l2elapse]

I hate to say this bro but................ that chick you like sounds like one of those selfish women who don't want you until someone else does.

I personally don't think you ****ed up at all, she should have made things clear.

i agree, i would explain to her how it was all her and she doesnt accept that then her loss

[neardark]

OK... first of all, that wasn't clever but you have to deal with it...

Now how...

Did youguys made each other promises? Like exclusivity?

If so, saying she just want to be a friend is still ok, it means that you still have the chance to work on her indirectly. Invite her to have cofee or a lunch has friends...

If not, well you just tell her the story, if she doesn't buy it, tell her that you though she was doing the same thing because youguys didn't make it clear about exclusivity. You still stick to your side of the story saying that knowing that she would be there theres no way that you would have done something like that...

you can tell her that her friend didnt told her the whole story and if she would have good intentions, she would have said that you didnt stay with her the whole time in the club ... Saying that would put some questions in her mind ...

If your not bullshiting us.

[Mizfit]

if i was her i would've done the same

[Mizfit]

I think she mite've though they were together

[Polska]

you did not do anything wrong in my opinion, and if she can't see that then you don't want to date a girl like that.

[big daddy k de]

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[STYLE74]

Maybe she is just making an excuse and just trying to make you feel bad. Women can be very manipulative.

[Tru2]

time, and ass kissing. and don't mention the actual situation again... unless she asks. if she likes you.. she will give you another chance.

[Hunter]

Well not to be hard on you but if you really liked her and where only "seeing one another" you should have wanted to woo her over not stick your tongue down a ex's mouth.

[BG]

Your fuc'd, she'll never forget it. You dont have much vested, so I say just move on.

[BG]

Sounds like she sent her friend to watch you and didnt go herself to find out what your about....... you failed.........F-.

[Mizfit]

I know ur using rationalization about what she said on her my space - but if u had reservations about it.. you should've been up front and asked.

U obviously think u did something wrong because the title says, i ****ed up.

Question, how would u feel if you saw her in a similar predicmanet with a dude..?

[big daddy k de]

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[Schmidty]

Tell her what happened and give her some time to chill

[Foskamink]

well alot of people say u didnt do anything wrong, but if u want somone even if ur not together u got to reserve urself in all aspects or u dont really want them and if u end up with them then its fake and ur being very rude to the other person

[cfiler]

I'd just move on. You were only dating for 2 months, and she will always remeber this. Not worth the headaches, of having her worry about it happening again.

Sorry man, but I really think it's over.

[bor]

Deny, deny, deny!!!! (sp? )

I always say, if you don't show me a polaroid or a video of me doing something, it didn't happen! Her friends are liars! Just stick to it long enough

[big daddy k de]

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[Carlos_E]

ok this is what im going to do ..im going to let her breath for a week not instent message her , not call her, text her, and not go to our norm weekly hang out spots.... then after the week in=m going to call her tell her i miss her (will be true) and see how she feels...should flowers and a card be sent ...idk

A week may be to long. She may take that as you don't care or you're seeing the other chick. Give her a couple of days then tell her you miss her.

I do think you fucked up. There is no way I would allow one of my exs to kiss me let alone an open mouth kiss. You could have gotten away with the kiss. But dancing with her afterwards was a big mistake. Makes it look like you're enjoying your time with her. If I walked in and a friend told me they saw the guy I'm dating kissing some guy and then I see them dancing together... Adding insult to injury is leaving with her??? Oh fuck that! You should have given her cab fare to get home. But I'm also a hot headed Latin. Id choke the hoe!