so i went to the club last night

[Vinlander]

If you THINK your good looking your probally not !!! But you def. know your bald !!!!

Slow down, cowboy. I know I'm good looking!!

[Schmidty]

This is chick crack for them.

Rofl^

[Schmidty]

Bojangles how many girs have you had sex with?jesus christ, I feel like I have some real pimp skills after reading that.

[Lexed]

Bojangles I wish you where my father when I was growing up

[Lexed]

my dads adivce 'dont have sex have it only when you want kids"

[goodcents]

club tramps- yeah What's next? crusing the strip clubs for a wife?

[gixxerboy1]

Thanks man, and anyone else who finds my advice usefull.

As for the book, I'm aiming for some time before the end of summer, but I will most def keep you all posted as I get closer to actually finishing it

lol. I like you bo but sometimes you make me laugh. You tell them to make and entrance and people might think you are the owner or promoter. You dont think girls see through this posturing. Your a little younger then me so we hang in different crowds. But a lot of your tactics would get laughed at in my crowd.
Its hard for me to believe that someone in there mid 20's who needs advice on how to dress properly supposedly gets all these fine woman. If you do great for you. We just have complete opposite points of view when it comes to girls and how to get them.

[NotSmall]

lol. I like you bo but sometimes you make me laugh. You tell them to make and entrance and people might think you are the owner or promoter. You dont think girls see through this posturing. Your a little younger then me so we hang in different crowds. But a lot of your tactics would get laughed at in my crowd.
Its hard for me to believe that someone in there mid 20's who needs advice on how to dress properly supposedly gets all these fine woman. If you do great for you. We just have complete opposite points of view when it comes to girls and how to get them.

BO has passed his theory test...

[UpstateTank]

holy SHIT bo

you got my vote for "Anabolic Review 2007 Post of the Year"

[Foskamink]

yeh i think talking is the key, i got a friend who dosnt dance, has a pretty face dresses well. but is out of shape. has small titys and a big stomach but looks sorta big and not as fat in cloths. and he just talks. banged more girls then all of my other friends combined, and tehy are all in the hottest league in the best clubs... but dancing is also a huge thing, u gotta have the right stlye and moves.. i dont wanna be superficial but cloths do help... well atleast around here everyone dresses in designer cloths, italian frence brands ect..
and the other way to pickup a chick is just be in the right place and time, and be her type.. ive picked up a few girls by being there type, just doing he right thing at right time, thats the most fun way, but its rare, i was always on the prowl before i met my girlfriend, in the club 2 times a week or more, but my gf i started to go once a week then soon after once every two weeks.

[chest6]

Try again fosk. This time try typing in complete sentences so others can understand

[MFT81]

yeh i think talking is the key, i got a friend who dosnt dance, has a pretty face dresses well. but is out of shape. has small titys and a big stomach but looks sorta big and not as fat in cloths. and he just talks. banged more girls then all of my other friends combined, and tehy are all in the hottest league in the best clubs... but dancing is also a huge thing, u gotta have the right stlye and moves.. i dont wanna be superficial but cloths do help... well atleast around here everyone dresses in designer cloths, italian frence brands ect..
and the other way to pickup a chick is just be in the right place and time, and be her type.. ive picked up a few girls by being there type, just doing he right thing at right time, thats the most fun way, but its rare, i was always on the prowl before i met my girlfriend, in the club 2 times a week or more, but my gf i started to go once a week then soon after once every two weeks.

how else would you hook up with someone, the wrong place at the wrong time would mean your at home beating off.......WTF are you drunk?

[Bojangles69]

lol. I like you bo but sometimes you make me laugh. You tell them to make and entrance and people might think you are the owner or promoter. You dont think girls see through this posturing. Your a little younger then me so we hang in different crowds. But a lot of your tactics would get laughed at in my crowd.
Its hard for me to believe that someone in there mid 20's who needs advice on how to dress properly supposedly gets all these fine woman. If you do great for you. We just have complete opposite points of view when it comes to girls and how to get them.

Ok I'll tell you first 100% yes we DO hang out with 2 completely different crowds, that should have went with out saying lol.

First things first, you can view this as a "tactic" for attention, or as someone who is thoroughly just being an outgoing and fun person, which is how I suggested people to use it.
As for the whole "owner" comment. I have actually been asked this by girls (as young as we all know I am) in a flirtatious semi-joking manner. "So do you like own this place or something?"

That is not the point. The point is when you do this in a club/bar/party or ANY venue, you create something called "social proof".
Your women notice it, my women notice it, ANY woman notices it. The second they see a guy going around when he comes in shaking people hands and just being friendly they see you as someone who is FUN has FRIENDS is PRE-SELECTED has CONNECTIONS and your perceived social value skyrockets.
If you doubt it just try it bro. Like I dont get it, do you just go into a bar buy a drink and go lean against a wall? or do you go there to meet people and have fun? I'm not even sure why I'm trying to validate this to you in this first place as logic alone should eradicate the need. Go into a bar and just say hi to people and ask them how thier doing, shake thier hands. But the whole secret is to not be WEIRD when you do it. Just be genuinely energetic and outgoing and people will respond positively.

Now about the dressing thing. You may have missed the undercurrence of the real facts because I only gave you selective information about my whole dressing situation.
I KNOW how to dress better than 85-90% of guys out there. A good deal of gay men out there are up in the top 95+%. I *usually wear dark colors because Im a dark featured italian and it suits me well.
I noticed a gay guy/friend whos style intrigued me. So I asked him for some tips, tried them out, and got some compliments.
But you know what else I noticed? The only reason I got compliments is because I CHANGED up my style and people noticed and complimented the CHANGE. NOT that my style was neccassarily better.
I also noticed something even weirder, that when I started talking to girls with my bright shirts or w/e I was having a harder time getting them to respond sexually, maybe it was pure randomness, maybe I was acting a bit off key cause I wasnt 100% comfortable or congruent with my new style.
W/e the case, Im back to the dark colors and so is my game. And no dressing nice will not get a man laid, but being comfortable in what he wears will.

This guy dresses like a clown some might say.. but he also gets laid more than anyone I know (not including porn stars)

http://thundercat.typepad.com/lair/mystery2.jpg

[Bojangles69]

Bojangles how many girs have you had sex with?jesus christ, I feel like I have some real pimp skills after reading that.

Honestly thats a pet peave of mine. (talking about #'s or w/e) And anytime a friend of mine starts talking about a 3some he had lastnight I'll completely just ignore him. Because the whole point is he's telling me that story seeking approval or validation from me and other men. A real man NEVER tells, for various reasons.
Men (or the *average man) will attach so much false value to a guy who claims he gets laid a lot and start this heroworshipping BS or will make fun of him when he's secretly envious.
And it means so much more when you hear it "through the grapevine" than when someone tells you directly.
Like if a guys tell me "I ****ed 3 supermodels lastnight"
I'll be like "you want a trophy? we still all know your gay.." (im doing him a favor in the long run by saying this shit)
But if I hear from a friend 3 weeks later that my buddy ****ed 3 supermodels the night he said he was "going home early" or w/e. I will think he IS the fvcking MAN. I'll be a bit mad at him of course, but I'll still think he's the shit.

Another thing is women HATE it. A girl is sooo much more likely to **** you if she knows it will be DISCRETE and you won't go tell the world about it. Which is why women have sex more on vacation, because theres no threat of social consequences or word getting around town and them getting all kinds of labels from MEN making it even HARDER for men to fvck on the first night because the chick doesnt want to "act like a slut" even if she wants to fvck the shit out of you, a catch 22.
I try not to, but you'll also see me furtively insulting guys who do this shit on these boards, just look real closely. There was a certain thread recently about a member who bragged about fvcking someones fiance. I read it and just shook my head, not because she's engaged, I could give 2 shits about that.. the fact that hes one of those "kiss and tell" guys that chicks can see through like glass.

~Bo

[gixxerboy1]

Ok I'll tell you first 100% yes we DO hang out with 2 completely different crowds, that should have went with out saying lol.

First things first, you can view this as a "tactic" for attention, or as someone who is thoroughly just being an outgoing and fun person, which is how I suggested people to use it.
As for the whole "owner" comment. I have actually been asked this by girls (as young as we all know I am) in a flirtatious semi-joking manner. "So do you like own this place or something?"

That is not the point. The point is when you do this in a club/bar/party or ANY venue, you create something called "social proof".
Your women notice it, my women notice it, ANY woman notices it. The second they see a guy going around when he comes in shaking people hands and just being friendly they see you as someone who is FUN has FRIENDS is PRE-SELECTED has CONNECTIONS and your perceived social value skyrockets.
If you doubt it just try it bro. Like I dont get it, do you just go into a bar buy a drink and go lean against a wall? or do you go there to meet people and have fun? I'm not even sure why I'm trying to validate this to you in this first place as logic alone should eradicate the need. Go into a bar and just say hi to people and ask them how thier doing, shake thier hands. But the whole secret is to not be WEIRD when you do it. Just be genuinely energetic and outgoing and people will respond positively.

Now about the dressing thing. You may have missed the undercurrence of the real facts because I only gave you selective information about my whole dressing situation.
I KNOW how to dress better than 85-90% of guys out there. A good deal of gay men out there are up in the top 95+%. I *usually wear dark colors because Im a dark featured italian and it suits me well.
I noticed a gay guy/friend whos style intrigued me. So I asked him for some tips, tried them out, and got some compliments.
But you know what else I noticed? The only reason I got compliments is because I CHANGED up my style and people noticed and complimented the CHANGE. NOT that my style was neccassarily better.
I also noticed something even weirder, that when I started talking to girls with my bright shirts or w/e I was having a harder time getting them to respond sexually, maybe it was pure randomness, maybe I was acting a bit off key cause I wasnt 100% comfortable or congruent with my new style.
W/e the case, Im back to the dark colors and so is my game. And no dressing nice will not get a man laid, but being comfortable in what he wears will.

This guy dresses like a clown some might say.. but he also gets laid more than anyone I know (not including porn stars)

http://thundercat.typepad.com/lair/mystery2.jpg

I took you literally went you said people might think you are the owner. Yes some girl said it to you in a joking manner. I've heard that before or also another big one is "your like the mayor".
Of course girl notice if you have a lot of friends. I agree with about the whole social proof. But there is a couple things you are missing. You are under the assumption that the girls are watching you as soon as you walk in the door and then are following you around with there eyes to notice that you go say hi to people. The places i go. You cant see people once they walk 15 ft away. Also if you generally have a lot of friends or know a lot of people you dont need to make it all seen in the first 10mins with an entrance. you will constantly be talking to people all night and that will make more of an impression then the handshake walk. Also a better impression is you can stand by the bar or sit on your couch. When people come to you and say hi. Much more of an impact when people are making an effort to say hello to you.
As for as dressing. You have heard the saying the clothes make the man? I'm also a darker skin Italian guy. Bright colors is what goes best with our complexion. Black has been out for a while. But pink and bright blues was made for darker complexions. They look like shit on fair skinned people.

[MFT81]

I didnt know guys were still rocking pink,

ive got a pink t-shirt that I love but dont wear it anymore cause i thought it already came and gone.......

[IronReload04]

Bojangles man, I fvcken love all your posts on this shit...when does the book come out?

ya man....don't ever leave this sight....your input on shit is really appreciated and you might not hear it enough