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  1. 06-10-2007, 07:59 AM #1
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    i suck at being a bf

    any tips on how to improve??

    my gf is the highlight of my day, she brightens my world, but i cant seem to show her that really....sumtimes i do, but most times i can see n feel her feel alone n shit..like i dont comfort her or make her happy. ****in xbox haha. we go out alot, n c movies n we basically live witheachother.

    how can i include her or talk to her to make her happy? when we fight we just kinda make up cuz we miss eachother and dont really work it out....n we dont talk our problems w/; eachother, n just assume we both doin good. i wanna talk to her on a real note n let her know shit bothering me lateley n i know she bottles shit up to...we sick individuals hahahha.....anyways, lookin to improve our conversations n progress.... any idears????
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    sounds to me that you guys are missing a major connection in a relationship. she might not be right for you bro...
    but just try to think of her more and show that your willing to put the effort in the relationship
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    wow, ^^^^12 has it.. doesn't sound right to me either.. U should not change who you are to make a woman happy... if its' something about you that you dont' like, you will make changes..

    fighting?? why do couples fight?? i never get this one.. but you are right, communication is important..
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    Quote Originally Posted by boxingbean
    any tips on how to improve??

    my gf is the highlight of my day, she brightens my world, but i cant seem to show her that really....sumtimes i do, but most times i can see n feel her feel alone n shit..like i dont comfort her or make her happy. ****in xbox haha. we go out alot, n c movies n we basically live witheachother.

    how can i include her or talk to her to make her happy? when we fight we just kinda make up cuz we miss eachother and dont really work it out....n we dont talk our problems w/; eachother, n just assume we both doin good. i wanna talk to her on a real note n let her know shit bothering me lateley n i know she bottles shit up to...we sick individuals hahahha.....anyways, lookin to improve our conversations n progress.... any idears????
    You're asking the wrong people. Everything you said above say to her. She'll appreciate it and know you care.
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    Quote Originally Posted by spywizard
    communication is important..
    Yeah, what he said.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    You're asking the wrong people. Everything you said above say to her. She'll appreciate it and know you care.

    Hey just because are advice has lead to 3 divorces count less break ups and 1 suicide dont mean we dont give good advice.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gsxxr
    Hey just because are advice has lead to 3 divorces count less break ups and 1 suicide dont mean we dont give good advice.
    THATS RIGHT! i thought saying "You dont have the balls to shoot youer self in the head!" would make him think twice before comming suicide. but wuttaya know.. that mofo had some big balls! ><
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    haha taiboxa and gsxxxr you guys are a trip
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    I agrea with carlos, girls love hearing that stuff. Also, I would try just listening to her when she talks about her day and stuff
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    If you suck at being a boyfriend, why not try being a girlfriend? I'm sure there are lots of guys out there that would treat you well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by taiboxa
    THATS RIGHT! i thought saying "You dont have the balls to shoot youer self in the head!" would make him think twice before comming suicide. but wuttaya know.. that mofo had some big balls! ><
    had... some big balls.. he showed you...
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    If you dont have communication, you dont have much of a relationship.
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    wow u guys just need to talk about ur problems. its not complictated. if u just found out she was a man thats another story
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    maybe yall are right for each other.You might be staying with her for the wrong reasons
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    Quote Originally Posted by number twelve
    sounds to me that you guys are missing a major connection in a relationship. she might not be right for you bro...
    but just try to think of her more and show that your willing to put the effort in the relationship
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    Quote Originally Posted by boxingbean
    any tips on how to improve??

    my gf is the highlight of my day, she brightens my world, but i cant seem to show her that really....sumtimes i do, but most times i can see n feel her feel alone n shit..like i dont comfort her or make her happy. ****in xbox haha. we go out alot, n c movies n we basically live witheachother.

    how can i include her or talk to her to make her happy? when we fight we just kinda make up cuz we miss eachother and dont really work it out....n we dont talk our problems w/; eachother, n just assume we both doin good. i wanna talk to her on a real note n let her know shit bothering me lateley n i know she bottles shit up to...we sick individuals hahahha.....anyways, lookin to improve our conversations n progress.... any idears????
    well... it looks like you know what to do...
    TALK TO HER ABOUT IT. COMMUNICATION AND TRUST ARE EVERYTHING
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    ya, me too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by boxingbean
    any tips on how to improve??

    my gf is the highlight of my day, she brightens my world, but i cant seem to show her that really....sumtimes i do, but most times i can see n feel her feel alone n shit..like i dont comfort her or make her happy. ****in xbox haha. we go out alot, n c movies n we basically live witheachother.

    how can i include her or talk to her to make her happy? when we fight we just kinda make up cuz we miss eachother and dont really work it out....n we dont talk our problems w/; eachother, n just assume we both doin good. i wanna talk to her on a real note n let her know shit bothering me lateley n i know she bottles shit up to...we sick individuals hahahha.....anyways, lookin to improve our conversations n progress.... any idears????
    thats how u fix it
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    My shrink told me that in the USA, only about 25% of the population is suited for marriage/relationships. Sounds about right to me -- half of everybody gets divorces, and half of the folks who don't, want to.

    The best way to learn how to have a good relationship with your girl is to hang around with people who have good relationships, and watch and learn from them. And if you can't hang with them, well, then pretty much you ain't the marrying kind. Resign yourself to that, and save yourself from trying to do what's impossible for you.
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