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  1. 04-14-2008, 06:53 PM #1
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    Need Helpful Advice

    So i asked this girl to prom she said yes then 6 days before she calls me and says some bullshit like we don't know each other very well, i don't think we'll have fun, blah blah blah. So I'm like ok...this sucks 6 days before

    She called back an hour later and said I'm not that kind of person I don't want to hurt your feelings, will you still go with me.

    So I say yes, but now I talk to some people today and there like you should ask her out to lunch or something during the week because she said you guys didn't know each other that well.

    I ask her and she says she's to busy during the week to go (some major bullshit if you ask me because she said we didn't know each other well enough so it wouldn't be as awkward), so now I'm like wtf and theres another girl I could go with that seems like she'd be a lot more fun...

    I don't know what to do. The proms on Friday and I kind of want to call this girl back and tell her that I think she's right and we shouldn't go together. What would you do?
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  2. 04-14-2008, 06:56 PM #2
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    Drop her, it'll teach her to keep her mouth shut next time.
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    take the other girl, this ne has dumped you your are an idiot for taking her back. dont feel bad for dumping her she has already done it to you. your a kid always pick the fun girl. then when your 30 then pick the good one.
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  4. 04-14-2008, 06:57 PM #4
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    if she wont make the effort during the week to meet up and at least try and get to know you and you get to know her better to relieve the awkwardness, dump her on her ass man, and ask the girl that at least seems like she doesnt have a stick up her ass...just my $.02....

    dont ask Lexed though, he went to prom with his Mom, and i took his sister....she was hella easy, actually maybe you shoud ask her...hahaha
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  5. 04-14-2008, 07:07 PM #5
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    thats exactly what i was thinking but the girl i can take is from work and shes 21 and i'm 18 so ya lol : )
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  6. 04-14-2008, 07:14 PM #6
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    Quote Originally Posted by knb1989 View Post
    thats exactly what i was thinking but the girl i can take is from work and shes 21 and i'm 18 so ya lol : )
    THATS PERFECT!!!

    She can score you some beer afterwards, and you'll be the man bringing an older girl to the prom
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  7. 04-14-2008, 08:53 PM #7
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    No damn doubt about it... go out with the girl thats gonna be the most fun. Maybe try to get some ass while ur at too.
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    not even a week before prom? will the new girl even have time to be ready?.....and idk man, if someone asked me w/only 4 days notice, i'd probably have had to say no.....gotta get ur shit together ahead of time.....matching dress and tux, flowers to match, etc. etc. etc.....
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  9. 04-14-2008, 09:13 PM #9
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    Quote Originally Posted by WEBB View Post
    if she wont make the effort during the week to meet up and at least try and get to know you and you get to know her better to relieve the awkwardness, dump her on her ass man, and ask the girl that at least seems like she doesnt have a stick up her ass...just my $.02....

    dont ask Lexed though, he went to prom with his Mom, and i took his sister....she was hella easy, actually maybe you shoud ask her...hahaha
    No one was suppose to know but i stayed home with his brother
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  10. 04-14-2008, 10:02 PM #10
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    Ask the other girl and if she says yes, than drop the first girl. That way you got nothing loose, but honestly I wouldn't go with someone that's only going with you out of pity.
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  11. 04-14-2008, 10:40 PM #11
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    My little brother was in an IDENTICAL situation last year.... he went with the first girl (the one who wasn't sure she wanted to go) because she was a "hotter piece of ass to carry on his arm" and he had a miserable time.

    Take the second girl if she'll say yes.
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  13. 04-14-2008, 11:11 PM #13
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    Quote Originally Posted by DSM4Life View Post
    No one was suppose to know but i stayed home with his brother
    ya that worked out well for all of us didnt it....especially that 3 way with his sister.....shes wicked.....
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  14. 04-15-2008, 05:20 PM #14
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    Thanks for the advice guys, I'm going with the second girl. Telling the first girl at school was so awkward though lol. It all worked out though. I got bumped from my original table, but I ended up at an even better one with people I like more and it didn't seem like there were any hard feelings. I felt kinda bad dumping her 3 days before though, o well her fault for calling me on Saturday and making it ****ing awkward.
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  15. 04-21-2008, 10:55 AM #15
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    Dump her
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  16. 04-21-2008, 09:19 PM #16
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    now that proms over go f**k girl one.
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