WHY do women always have to change things when they move in?

[Bojangles69]

Yeh, but she makes more then both of us as of now, so its a weird situation.

[Kratos]

Yeh, but she makes more then both of us as of now, so its a weird situation.

I don't think it matters how much she makes as long as you are kicking in your share. She's gonna want her own place with your brother soon enough if things are working out...I mean that's a year away, most girls are expecting a rock on their finger after two years. Why is the move in date so far away?

[Bojangles69]

I don't think it matters how much she makes as long as you are kicking in your share. She's gonna want her own place with your brother soon enough if things are working out...I mean that's a year away, most girls are expecting a rock on their finger after two years. Why is the move in date so far away?

You sniffed out a detail that has a lot to do with this problem.
The fact that these 2 (my brother and his gf) mix like oil & vinegar.


Plus next Aug is when she has to find a new place. I think shes tired of finding new roommates (because shes not easy to live with) and the somehow brainwashed him into thinking this is finally the right decision.

They both have real aggressive "i am the leader" type personalities. And even though I think they won't last when they move in together, I think there's a better chance they'll stay married for the next 50 years hating each other.