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    I just got a random phone call, and was called shallow

    It was kind of weird.

    Not a complete random, call, but timing....a little random.

    An ex of about 6 months ago, who I have not talked to in about 3 months calls me out of the blue to tell me I'm shallow and think I'm better than everyone.

    I'm going to go eat a tray of brownies to solve my depression now

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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    It was kind of weird.

    Not a complete random, call, but timing....a little random.

    An ex of about 6 months ago, who I have not talked to in about 3 months calls me out of the blue to tell me I'm shallow and think I'm better than everyone.

    I'm going to go eat a tray of brownies to solve my depression now
    if she's saying that all you think about are looks should have just said, "i dated you, so i must not be that shallow or i wouldn't have given you a second look"

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    you are not seriously letting a chick from 6 months ago get to you?

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    What? Is this part of her therapy? Nutjob.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phate View Post
    if she's saying that all you think about are looks should have just said, "i dated you, so i must not be that shallow or i wouldn't have given you a second look"
    right on, lol.

    Defiantly not getting to me. Just random.

    I wear gym cloths and sweats all day pretty much, unless I'm working. I just care about my fitness and keep myself clean. If I go out, of course I'm going to dress different but not "metro" or anything. Jeans and a affliction T is about as fancy as I get. A button down if I'm going out to eat.

    I think I might be a little arrogant, but I can't accept that. It's not like I'm out comparing myself to anyone. But I set goals, and then I plan on archiving them.

    Could be part of therapy. I am not sure, knowing her, she'll call and apologize tomorrow.

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    The rest of us were scared to say anything about it. We put her up to it. Some one had to do it. We think you should try to be more ugly like us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    It was kind of weird.

    Not a complete random, call, but timing....a little random.

    An ex of about 6 months ago, who I have not talked to in about 3 months calls me out of the blue to tell me I'm shallow and think I'm better than everyone.

    I'm going to go eat a tray of brownies to solve my depression now
    i told her too do that.

    cuz i wanted to increase your bodyfat percentage

    it worked

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    Quote Originally Posted by ErnstHatAngst View Post
    What? Is this part of her therapy? Nutjob.
    its her 18th step?
    cuz the 4th is where you call and apologize to everyone

    she did the opposite

    lol

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    Well yah, I just ate a tray of brownies and plan on skipping the gym all week.

    Comfort food and self destructive habits are the only way to go these days.

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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    Well yah, I just ate a tray of brownies and plan on skipping the gym all week.

    Comfort food and self destructive habits are the only way to go these days.
    im with ya buddy

    when i get sad i lock myself in my room. sit in my bed eating a box of fig newtons, watching Buffy, and sipping on Yoohoo's.

    always cheers me up

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    I wouldnt worry about it lol, i get them all the time. The ones i get are telling me ive got another girls pregnant, i often wonder how many little Mad Matts there are running around...

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    I am kind of shallow and arrogant, that does not bother me so that also makes me narcissistic.

    I won't seek help until it causes my life to fall apart, then I'll call and apologize.

    I'm tuff on myself, in turn, that makes me tuff on everyone else.

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    I'd say based on your posts, yeah you're shallow and love yourself
    you didn't know?
    as long as you're happy
    she's still thinking of you, and angry enough to state the obvious, so it's working for you

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    She was begging for the bone, you couldn't pick that up?

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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    It was kind of weird.

    Not a complete random, call, but timing....a little random.

    An ex of about 6 months ago, who I have not talked to in about 3 months calls me out of the blue to tell me I'm shallow and think I'm better than everyone.

    I'm going to go eat a tray of brownies to solve my depression now
    Think you should change your nick to J-Dogg-emo

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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    It was kind of weird.

    Not a complete random, call, but timing....a little random.

    An ex of about 6 months ago, who I have not talked to in about 3 months calls me out of the blue to tell me I'm shallow and think I'm better than everyone.

    I'm going to go eat a tray of brownies to solve my depression now
    She's probably just on her period.

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    So what? You should've told her "yes, I'm an asshole"...thats what I do. Usually shuts them up pretty quick.

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    She use to get pretty bad on the first 5 days of her period, so that could be it. I guess it could be triggered by anything, probably something I don't know about.

    I'm not really an ass hole, I'm nice to everyone I meet. Just don't go out of my way to make friends with them.

    I just live a different life style. Most the guys that post here probably do.

    And I don't really love myself, I'm proud of a lot of things I've done, ashamed of some others. I'll never be satisfied with myself, I'll always push for more, or to be better. At the same time, I'll not be beating myself up or thinking low of myself because I try to continually improve on what "I" think I need to improve on.

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    Your so vain........You probably think this post is about you. Don't you? Don't you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    I am kind of shallow and arrogant, that does not bother me so that also makes me narcissistic.

    I won't seek help until it causes my life to fall apart, then I'll call and apologize.

    I'm tuff on myself, in turn, that makes me tuff on everyone else.
    did they clone me?????

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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    She use to get pretty bad on the first 5 days of her period, so that could be it. I guess it could be triggered by anything, probably something I don't know about.
    Good thing you're no longer with her!

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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    I am kind of shallow and arrogant, that does not bother me so that also makes me narcissistic.

    I won't seek help until it causes my life to fall apart, then I'll call and apologize.

    I'm tuff on myself, in turn, that makes me tuff on everyone else.
    I hope she doesn't read this forum . . . unless you want to seem soft, insecure and pliable to her and her friends. LOL.

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    i am pretty sure i dated her too...........

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    I would call her back and say well you are a bitch...!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    An ex of about 6 months ago, who I have not talked to in about 3 months calls me out of the blue to tell me I'm shallow and think I'm better than everyone.
    who isnt like that though? i think some people are better at hiding it than others. i also think that when she said 'you think you are better than everyone' that its implicit she thinks shes better than you because you think you are better than everyone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JiGGaMaN View Post
    who isnt like that though? i think some people are better at hiding it than others. i also think that when she said 'you think you are better than everyone' that its implicit she thinks shes better than you because you think you are better than everyone.
    good point ^^

    i didn't realize it was a bad thing to be overly confident / borderline arrogant.

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    gimme her phone number! ill make her need therapy! ill send her noodz of Big Truck. Thatll teach her!

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    dogg, do her again for old times sake and show her how shallow one can be

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    Quote Originally Posted by StritationOrBust View Post
    Your so vain........You probably think this post is about you. Don't you? Don't you?
    i knew it was about me when i discovered clouds in my coffee.

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    I always tell my g/f....If I dont love myself, who will?

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    Are you kidding me. If she called you after 6 months that means she'll still thinking of you !

    You win.

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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    It was kind of weird.

    Not a complete random, call, but timing....a little random.

    An ex of about 6 months ago, who I have not talked to in about 3 months calls me out of the blue to tell me I'm shallow and think I'm better than everyone.

    I'm going to go eat a tray of brownies to solve my depression now
    Thats woman speak for "i still want your nuts and I am depressed that you wont go out with me anymore"

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    Quote Originally Posted by JiGGaMaN View Post
    who isnt like that though? i think some people are better at hiding it than others. i also think that when she said 'you think you are better than everyone' that its implicit she thinks shes better than you because you think you are better than everyone.
    Nah, he should have just been like

    "well, I am better than everyone else"

    or

    "well, I am better than everyone else, especially you"

    that would keep her up for nights.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JiGGaMaN View Post
    who isnt like that though? i think some people are better at hiding it than others. i also think that when she said 'you think you are better than everyone' that its implicit she thinks shes better than you because you think you are better than everyone.
    Thanks for feeding my ego. But ya, she must be thinking about me. Poor girl, if I was not so shallow, I'd take her out to eat...but I don't want to be seen with her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    Thanks for feeding my ego. But ya, she must be thinking about me. Poor girl, if I was not so shallow, I'd take her out to eat...but I don't want to be seen with her.
    same thing with my ex. still calls/texts, broke up with her almost 5 years ago.

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    its her 18th step?
    cuz the 4th is where you call and apologize to everyone
    she did the opposite

    lol
    Dukk would know... Lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JiGGaMaN View Post
    same thing with my ex. still calls/texts, broke up with her almost 5 years ago.
    So you are saying I could have to go through this for 5 years? Constant calls of her calling to remind me and herself that she messed up?

    Life just got better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    So you are saying I could have to go through this for 5 years? Constant calls of her calling to remind me and herself that she messed up?

    Life just got better.
    nah, the girl just likes to get her **** on for the most part. but yeah, it feels great to be 'that guy' in this context.

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    bro I would of said. I don't think I'm better then anyone. I am. Besides you're pu.ssy is loose and ur ass smells. Then hang up !

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