GF cheated while im on...should I stop or maybe take anti -e's

[inky-e]

basically just found out the mother of my child and gf of 5 years had sex with a cooworker 1 night after work about 6 months ago and its tearing me apart inside, my mind is spinning and just feel like my life is over. We have been looking at wedding places and I bought her ring last month and was waiting for the right time, and we got into an arguement about the guy, cause I found txt messages from him (6 months ago) and basically whenever we would get into a fight I would bring it up asking if she did anything which she always denied. Well, finally last night she just broke down and told me the truth, saying that she went to his house to talk cause we got into an arguement he was just listening to her crying and rubbing her back and she said he started kissing her and she said no at first but then just went along until he actually started having sex for a couple minutes and she got upset, he stopped and apoligized and she said she left. I just want to wring his ****in neck cause me and her are both 27 and this dude is 40 and just completely took advantage of the situation telling her "he's probably cheating on you" and stuff like that.

I don't believe that for one minute!! And just because he's older don't lay it all on him....she willingly opened her legs Bro....get real here...she had sex with him and is now minimizing it to get over on you....RED FLAG!!!...More cheating to come...once a cheater always a cheater....
Anyway thats my rant and im on trt and I added additional test e so im totaling about 400mg week plus 70mg tren a every 36hrs and I was hoping to somehow get over this whole thing because I do love her and we have a kid together and were trying to get pregnant now plus get married.

Should I go back to original 200m trt dose, start taking arimidex or nolva, or clomid?

I don't believe that for one minute!! And just because he's older don't lay it all on him....she willingly opened her legs Bro....get real here...she had sex with him and is now minimizing it to get over on you....RED FLAG!!!...More cheating to come...once a cheater always a cheater....IMO stay ON and get big....if you really don't know what to do...pray about it...you'll get the answer you need.

[Matt]

I don't believe that for one minute!! And just because he's older don't lay it all on him....she willingly opened her legs Bro....get real here...she had sex with him and is now minimizing it to get over on you....RED FLAG!!!...More cheating to come...once a cheater always a cheater....IMO stay ON and get big....if you really don't know what to do...pray about it...you'll get the answer you need.

X2, no need to pray though....

[inky-e]

X2, no need to pray though....

OK **** praying...I rarely turn to that anyway....and just cause someone is in their 40's doesn't mean they have great judgement...I'm perfect proof of that!! lol

[c-Z]

I don't believe that for one minute!! And just because he's older don't lay it all on him....she willingly opened her legs Bro....get real here...she had sex with him and is now minimizing it to get over on you....RED FLAG!!!...More cheating to come...once a cheater always a cheater....IMO stay ON and get big....if you really don't know what to do...pray about it...you'll get the answer you need.

AMEN. F*** that dude... love sucks..... personally.... The gym will keep your mind straight. it's a good stress relief.. Just try to walk in clear headed..... Don't let her get to you..... Like he said she opened her legs willingly... Just don't be stupid bro. The "once a cheater always a cheater" saying is true to the fullest..... Don't be with someone you can't trust. trust is extremely important. and key in a relationship... Im sorry to hear that man........ I think if your still on here and not in jail yet then you doing alright... Just try to be calm about it all.. Dont stress man. Whats done is done. nothing can change that.....

As for cycle... Stay on as well..... if you leave her... In months you will look back and realize you were an idiot and it wasnt worth it.

I was kind of in a similiar situation...... And as much as I wanted to kill the guy..... A lot of friends talked me out of it... And the thing that made sense most was..... You can't be mad at him.. Only person to be mad at is her....

I'm sorry i dont want to sound like some therapist trying to tell you what to do... Stay with the cycle bro. Keep your head up. Anytime you want to bullshit PM. We are all here for you man.

[inky-e]

AMEN. F*** that dude... love sucks..... personally.... The gym will keep your mind straight. it's a good stress relief.. Just try to walk in clear headed..... Don't let her get to you..... Like he said she opened her legs willingly... Just don't be stupid bro. The "once a cheater always a cheater" saying is true to the fullest..... Don't be with someone you can't trust. trust is extremely important. and key in a relationship... Im sorry to hear that man........ I think if your still on here and not in jail yet then you doing alright... Just try to be calm about it all.. Dont stress man. Whats done is done. nothing can change that.....

As for cycle... Stay on as well..... if you leave her... In months you will look back and realize you were an idiot and it wasnt worth it.

I was kind of in a similiar situation...... And as much as I wanted to kill the guy..... A lot of friends talked me out of it... And the thing that made sense most was..... You can't be mad at him.. Only person to be mad at is her....

I'm sorry i dont want to sound like some therapist trying to tell you what to do... Stay with the cycle bro. Keep your head up. Anytime you want to bullshit PM. We are all here for you man.

LOL...I was kinda referring to myself.....shhhh...don't tell the wife!!

[abstrack]

I don't believe that for one minute!! And just because he's older don't lay it all on him....she willingly opened her legs Bro....get real here...she had sex with him and is now minimizing it to get over on you....RED FLAG!!!...More cheating to come...once a cheater always a cheater....IMO stay ON and get big....if you really don't know what to do...pray about it...you'll get the answer you need.

I agree. It's not she t****** and fell on his dick, for a few minutes. The guy was being a guy. She had no business going over there. Doesnt she have any girl friends, sisters, or a mother?

She was looking for it to be honest!

[Narkissos]

I don't believe that for one minute!! And just because he's older don't lay it all on him....she willingly opened her legs Bro....get real here...she had sex with him and is now minimizing it to get over on you....RED FLAG!!!...More cheating to come...once a cheater always a cheater....IMO stay ON and get big....if you really don't know what to do...pray about it...you'll get the answer you need.

Agreed.

I would double the test and tren

I know I would.

Its tough because I loved her because she was that sweet librarian type, who had sex with only the 3 boyfriends she had before me and it took me awile to smash the first time so I know she was a good girl, but - feel she gave it up so easily to this dude. Its like she was a "good girl" for 27 yrs but a slut for a month

I know the type...and that's the kind you DON'T trust.