Can't Private Message

[Big]

Let me give you one more example and then I'm tapping out on this useless thread: if you got herpes from some girl, would you post it on a forum for the whole world to see? Or would you keep it on the DL and only warn certain individuals that were thinking about being with that same chick? Point is, there is a fine line of PRIVACY on certain subjects that we choose to keep private and I can put that line anywhere I want; who are you to make that decision for me or anyone else? Why do you think they have a thing on here called PM ? If we operated by your ideas, there would be no PM on here and all questions & answers would be out in the open.

Enough said. I'm here to learn and help others, not go back and forth like hormonal teenagers with guys who are never wrong!!

PS- I'm not the one with the attitude: if you enter a thread by talking smack, you HAVE TO expect it to come right back at ya. If you helped me out with a positive answer like "hey, it's really not that bad. 25 posts comes up real fast", then we'd be good right now. Now go eat your chicken breast tenderloins and brown rice Call it a truce bro!!!

for the whole world to see? I thought we used user names instead of our real names so we could talk on the open boards. the pm feature serves it's purpose, I don't care to explain that or anything else to you. I give up on you all together.

[tommyloan]

for the whole world to see? I thought we used user names instead of our real names so we could talk on the open boards. the pm feature serves it's purpose, I don't care to explain that or anything else to you. I give up on you all together.

I agree, you're right, but let me explain. My avatar pic is REALLY me because I wanna show what I've worked so hard for (anyone can get "big", but getting shredded and keeping the size is A LOT of work). So someone might recognize that pic since I also have it on other sites without my head cropped off. You feel me? Some things I don't mind sharing, but other things are more private, as I'm sure you can understand. And I got your email, I think we're on the same page now... Thanks bro

[Big]

I agree, you're right, but let me explain. My avatar pic is REALLY me because I wanna show what I've worked so hard for (anyone can get "big", but getting shredded and keeping the size is A LOT of work). So someone might recognize that pic since I also have it on other sites without my head cropped off. You feel me? Some things I don't mind sharing, but other things are more private, as I'm sure you can understand. And I got your email, I think we're on the same page now... Thanks bro

who's the guy holding you? just kidding bro, you look really good. us old folks need to stick together. I didn't mean to come across as harsh as I did. peace.

[tommyloan]

who's the guy holding you? just kidding bro, you look really good. us old folks need to stick together. I didn't mean to come across as harsh as I did. peace.

Thanks BIG. That's what I like to hear: Us old folks need to stick together . We're here for SERIOUS discussions about SERIOUS stuff. Most of the childish guys on here are too immature to realize that doing this stuff wrong could mean PERMANENT health problems or even death. But on the flipside, doing it RIGHT is very safe and the results are awesome; when my shirt comes off, damn, all of a sudden the stuck-up girls are soooo nice to me and they wanna get my number, hehe

Have a safe weekend BIG.

[T-MOS]

I agree, you're right, but let me explain. My avatar pic is REALLY me because I wanna show what I've worked so hard for (anyone can get "big", but getting shredded and keeping the size is A LOT of work). So someone might recognize that pic since I also have it on other sites without my head cropped off. You feel me? Some things I don't mind sharing, but other things are more private, as I'm sure you can understand. And I got your email, I think we're on the same page now... Thanks bro

Nice bikini you got on there !!!

I dont' get what would be SO urgent that you need to PM someone the minute you become a member here. Just WHO would you need to PM as you don't know anyone yet.
So I hope you can understand our suspicions as 90% of the people who are SO interested in PMing and make a fuss about it are the ones that are here to scam other people or spam, or solicit for whatever reason

Hopefully YOU fall into the other 10% and will understand. If you are worried about someone recognizing you , then I would suggest you change your pictures and get ones that would NOT be so easily noticed from other sites

problem solved......get your post count up, make sure your PM feature is turned on in your user CP, and that you confirmed your registration with the link sent to you after you registered, and you will be able to PM and take care of those Herpes......

How would you know WHO to PM about those herpes anyway???

take care