My wife just told me she sleeped with someone else?

[Flagg]

i see what you saying...but why tell him now?......she new how he would react......i think she wanted this reaction? Maybe shes not happy and knows this could be the way out?

edit.....

Actually no. I edited something cause im a bit drunk and i thought it was probably wrong, but now I think about it I don't. Maybe you're right, but what I think is that this guy is simply pissed off that this girl that was this precious virgin to him has dared to sleep with someone else when they weren't together. She's probably kept this to himself because he sounds like a control freak and she's probably scared. But to be honest, the overwhelming majority are encouraging him to ruin his family for the sake of saving some insecure pride.