Quote Originally Posted by Noles12 View Post
Confidence isnt my issue. I work in a club and could have any of the women that are coming up to flirt everynight. This insecurity started after she started showing no affection and the never seeming to want anything from me. Sure i bet its not helping now but it was not the cause of this.

I have never questioned this girl before now. I said earlier i made the decision to back off to see what happens. It is either she shows the need for me or i leave
if you are still considering her looking elsewhere just view how she gets herself ready... does she still keep herself wellmaintained? well "groomed", all done up? Cause if she does it is for someone... I know women say they like to do it for themselves to feel good, but its usually for the attention they get that feels good.