k...I'll tell of one than.Originally Posted by calgarian
A year before my mother's passing I was living with an older cousin of mine who asked If I wanted to spend Christmas day with him and his boys. I said...no...i better not. And he looked at me perplexed. I said...I have a feeling I need to spend it with my mom and dad....I think this might be her last Christmas. Now...I just said this without a deep thought...or hesitation.
He never said a word after...and niether did I. She passed that next Christmas.
Just to add. The day it happened...I was sleeping in a seperate room from the ex in the mist of a seperation. The phone rang late night and I woke up but refused to answer. I knew what was going to be told to me; but denied. I was hoping by not answering....it would all be ok. It rang again about an hour later and this time my ex answered. He came in my room and asked me if my baba (my mom's mom) was still alive. I said no...and he said...I think your dad just said your mom passed away.
I knew....I was just hoping by not answering....it wouldn't come true
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