Relationship lulls

[dec11]

twice in the sack in 2yrs?!

its over mate, well and truely

[baseline_9]

twice in the sack in 2yrs?!

its over mate, well and truely

I think im pretty straight talking most of the time but Dec beats me hands down here

[PitMaster]

My last relationship with my girlfriend went this way.. At first it was sex many times per week, always talked and did cute things together. Man I fell in love. She could be so ****ing cute and sexy. Knew she'd make a good wife and mom. Clean girl, not typical skank I usually roll with lol.

...but yea, the affection from her side just starting dying down. It wasnt like she was seeing another guy either..and I trusted her more than any girl ive been with. Just her feelings went away, I know the stress of her going back to school and her dad being a piece of shit (long story) had alot to do with it but still it was weird. As she lost feelings we werent on the same page and it started minor fights and arguments because of it. I got really hurt and still wish it never happened that way, I really put my heart into that relationship. I knew though she either needed time to miss me and sort things out and we would get back together down the road OR I'd find a girl that would love me the same or more and give me the affection and attention I need.

I say walk away, give her space like I did. Its gonna be hard. Her number is still in my phone and we promised to try to stay great friends forever. We text every few weeks a couple times but that's about it. I'll be there for her always [you said you dont wanna hurt this girl, you dont have to]. but damn do you wanna live the rest of your life like this? I didnt. I need affection and attention, wanna feel loved. Think we all do.

Those last few sentences made me take a deep breath.

What did you guys enjoy doing when you first met each other...

List everything you used to do and things that made you both happy.

What made your lives together fun.... By the sounds of it there is nothing happening ATM and that is the problem

I'm gonna have to lift first and absorb all this and get back to u

twice in the sack in 2yrs?!

its over mate, well and truely

I think im pretty straight talking most of the time but Dec beats me hands down here

That's what I figured, In her defense though. She has lost her mother due to a hanging a yr. ago. I know she suffers from anxiety issues and may have some kind of bi-polar action going on for awhile now. It kinda runs in her family. I don't even know if it's bi-polar but some type of mental disability. So I definitely feel like I would be leaving her for the wolves. She is doing better for herself now and I think it would be bad timing on my part to slow her progession. The less negative things in her life right now may be better. A vacation would be nice..I'm thinking red light district on test and viagra.

[RaginCajun]

are yall engaged? maybe she wants some bling on her finger? that will make her put out for sure! hahahahahaha

i hope u figure it out before you get hurt. things just have a way of working themselves out

[PitMaster]

are yall engaged? maybe she wants some bling on her finger? that will make her put out for sure! hahahahahaha

i hope u figure it out before you get hurt. things just have a way of working themselves out

Engaged...I just got her another ruby/diamond for her b-day a week ago today. Made her a chocolate cake stuff some fresh yellow flowers in it for looks. Card with inspiring and how proud I was of her. I gotta hug! closed mouth kiss. She went work.....

[RaginCajun]

Engaged...I just got her another ruby/diamond for her b-day a week ago today. Made her a chocolate cake stuff some fresh yellow flowers in it for looks. Card with inspiring and how proud I was of her. I gotta hug! closed mouth kiss. She went work.....

OUCH! as much as you know its going to hurt, move on. get away for a while and see what happens. i hate to bring this up but do you think it could be someone else? if she is not being emotional and passionate with you, then it could be happening with someone else. and just another thought, has she had her hormones tested? she may have no libido at all. maybe try bringing it up and if you don't get any answers, tell her how you feel. if you don't feel any reciprocal feelings, get on with your life!