Shy Girls...

[JohnnnyBlazzze]

op- you basically said you want sex more then once a week. Even with time, therapy, and talking about her past is not going to change that.
Something I noticed about this board is that many of us have a misconception that woman want sex as much as men. Yes some do, but many do not. Woman are made differently and many times they have sex for a different reason then to feel good physically. I am not saying woman do not like sex, I am simply saying their are many who are happy with it once a week or even less. There is no hormonal issue, or past daddy issues. This is just who they are. ex- some guys want to get laid every freaking day, and other guys are total fine with 2x a week. We are all different in this regard.
op- you did say that she likes to fool around to a point, and it sounds like that point is everything before sex, which leads me to believe like many above have stated that she may have had something in her past that is not dealt with. but loves cuddling with you and some touching cause your her man and she likes to feel close to you

I don't think it's the serious of damage. She's only 20 and had 1 other BF. I'm just going to keep pushing at it with her, she's either going to get sick of it and tell me to stop with all that, or she will get more comfortable with it. Isn't that how it works lol.

[Rwy]

Man sounds like too much work.

I would be out but it sounds like you like this girl