^^ intersting. Re: bodyfat vs. gyno - we really won't know until you get lean. I would go see a doc about it though, just to be sure. In the meantime, you now have a tangible reason to get lean and a goal to motivate you!

You're not that far off; 3 months of consistent and dedicated dieting, and you can be very lean.

Personally, I think your TDEE is much lower than you have it. I'd start you at roughly 2500 calories on heavy workout days and adjust from that point.