Kiss on the first date?

[Youngsters]

Yes or no? I've never myself been on a date in 18 years, more of a ONS, kind of guy. But If I ever do go on a first date, if the mood is right, should I go in for the kill? Or wait for the next date?

[Times Roman]

guess it really depends, now doesn't it?

I think whatever you do, should be done respectfully and the timing right. I think the "when" question is only of secondary importance.

[LGM]

Depends; did you find her on the street, or did you call an agency?

[austinite]

Of course it's OK. However, Sex on the first date is even better.

[.45Caliber]

Depends; did you find her on the street, or did you call an agency?

LOL.... its best to use the independent girls who advertise....

To the OP, yes, its ok.

[redz]

Kissing isnt really a big deal. The only problem with sex the first night is that it usually means your like the 300th guy that's been there lol.

[Youngsters]

Kissing isnt really a big deal. The only problem with sex the first night is that it usually means your like the 300th guy that's been there lol.

Very true. At least 5 dates then sex, I would think, for a classy, nice girl.

[tigerspawn]

I agree 100% with Times. I also agree with REDZ. I have never been the kind to sleep with women on first date. Guess growing up in a family were my Dads a NP and my moms a RN and them show me STD pictures and reading me horrifying STD stories makes me leery of sticking my Dick in strange places.

[ironbeck]

What ever your decision is be confident in it.

[lovbyts]

Kissing has nothing to do with the first date anymore. It's if she spits or swallows that determination if you want a 2nd dare or not.

[BG]

Before marriage I would date a month before I would even think of kissing a girl. Once you start hooking up lust takes over and you might miss how crazy she is and get into something you might regret.

[redz]

Before marriage I would date a month before I would even think of kissing a girl. Once you start hooking up lust takes over and you might miss how crazy she is and get into something you might regret.

I've been the victim of this before

[lovbyts]

I've been the victim of this before

What do you mean before? You mean now.... lol

[austinite]

Don;t take advice from lovbyts. He kisses 3 at a time in ONE date! I've seen pics!

[lovbyts]

Don;t take advice from lovbyts. He kisses 3 at a time in ONE date! I've seen pics!

hahahahaha yeah I'm probably not the best one to give advice for 1st dates.
I need to have a 2nd date with them (all 3) one of these days since they sent me recent pics of all 3 of them together.

[Shol'va]

I guess a better question would be would you kiss her right after she blew you on your first date.

[redz]

What do you mean before? You mean now.... lol

Hmmm......i hope not lol

[austinite]

hahahahaha yeah I'm probably not the best one to give advice for 1st dates.
I need to have a 2nd date with them (all 3) one of these days since they sent me recent pics of all 3 of them together.

I hate you. Post pics of the second date when it happens please!

[Honkey_Kong]

Very true. At least 5 dates then sex, I would think, for a classy, nice girl.

If she doesn't put out by the third date, dump her. Point is women have it already in their head within the first 30 seconds whether or not you're ever going to bang them. If she's not given it up by the 3rd date, the likeliness that she will afterwards isn't very good. And even if she would, you could be putting less effort in other chicks and get the goods.

[Honkey_Kong]

Kissing isnt really a big deal. The only problem with sex the first night is that it usually means your like the 300th guy that's been there lol.

Odds are you're not going to be in the top 20 anyways.

[lovbyts]

If she doesn't put out by the third date, dump her. Point is women have it already in their head within the first 30 seconds whether or not you're ever going to bang them. If she's not given it up by the 3rd date, the likeliness that she will afterwards isn't very good. And even if she would, you could be putting less effort in other chicks and get the goods.

Lycis 101.

[Honkey_Kong]

Lycis 101.

Every guy should be following his rules. He's a no-bullshit way to get laid.

But yeah, if she swallows on the first date, she's a keeper.

[belva]

In my past (I'm 27 turing 28 to be precise ) I always pushed every interaction to the limit. As an example: Kissing always as soon as I could see the some attraction going on. The problem was that when I got laid as soon as I could my stories last really little. Now, kissing is not much as a big deal I would say. I always try to kiss as soon as I can and I suggest you do do so. but I suggest you take the time to know the person before going dirty, you might discovery that this person is not what you really want.

[SEOINAGE]

How about kissing and sex before the first date?

[paulzane]

How about kissing and sex before the first date?

Hookers only!

[Black]

How about kissing and sex before the first date?

That's how I met my wife. Although I didn't kiss her yet.

[lovbyts]

I hate you. Post pics of the second date when it happens please!

Here is the picture I got recent from the 3 of them. Only thing missing is me in the middle. At least the little one on the far right doesn't look 12 anymore. lol.


This was our picture from a couple years ago.


She really did look YOUNG in this picture. The one in blue.

[austinite]

haha. ^ There it is. I knew it! nice work LB!

Lovbyts doesnt go on vacation, he goes to fantasy camp!

[wmaousley]

Yes or no? I've never myself been on a date in 18 years, more of a ONS, kind of guy. But If I ever do go on a first date, if the mood is right, should I go in for the kill? Or wait for the next date?

I am ok with Kissing on the first date, but if she pounces her naked body on you the first night, she is not longterm material.