Originally Posted by BIGCHEST1225
No problem at all. First of all my g/f is negative. The best thing you can do for yourself and for your partner, is educate yourself about your disease.
Alot of people might be sorta stand offish toward you. Don't be offended, because they are ignorant to the disease. You can educate them. Tell them that they can not contract the virus by drinking after you, eating after you, kissing you, etc. The only way to contract the disease is by being exposed to it through a cut or something like that. Your doc will tell you that there is a chance that a sex partner could contract the disease, but this is a very very slim chance. I have been with my girl for going on 3 yrs now, and she's still negative.
They way i went about telling my lady was not the right way. I was with her for a month before coming out with it. I first told her i was sorry because i have not been upfront with her about my health. She asked me, " Mike what are you talking about." So i told her, "Sara I have hep-c and im sorry for not telling you, but the doc told me that there was rare chance that i could infect anybody through sex."
This was obviously a fucked up thing for me to do, but it's all good now. I often wonder how i would go about telling my next girlfriend that i have hep-c, that is of course assuming that me and my lady broke up.
Peace out




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