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    What does a woman REALLY want in a man

    1. Owns his own property
    2. Owns his own vehicle
    3. Has his own money
    4. Has a great eight pack (=
    5. Well groomed and presentable

    Do you think you fit that bill?????

    hahahaha

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    I got 3 out of 5 will that be close enough

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    4-5 now just found some loose change in my couch

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    I dont have a 8 pack never cared for abs.

    I always thought women wanted a man with dorian yates body and bill gates money and charlie sheens sex addiction?

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    Don't know....Don't care. I am through changing myself for something with tits. Everything I do, I do for myself, if she can appreciate that great, if not don't let the door hit you.
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    They like a big package too. Theyve told me so .

    I think women want to be wanted. Women like mature men with the above assets you listed.I'm bulking so I don't have an 8 pack but I still get all I can handle lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by chadcuz1985
    They like a big package too. Theyve told me so
    What's it like when you don't meet their expectation? Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazard View Post
    What's it like when you don't meet their expectation? Lol
    Happened to me one time. Gave it all I had but she said she was used to her bf's 11 inches lol. The rest of them they loved me haha

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    I've had all them at one time. Just not currently.

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    What a woman really wants is a man with more money than she can spend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts
    What a woman really wants is a man with more money than she can spend.
    Pfffffft lmao..... Ain't that the truth

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    Lately, I haven't been giving a shit about shaving/combing my hair or even shaving my face for that matter.

    But OP, chicks don't really give a shit about any of that crap you listed anyways. They give a shit about one thing... Power. The alpha gets the girls. Chicks would rather be one of the alpha's many rather than the passive guy's one. Money is usually a symptom of power so rich guys often get hot chicks, but there are guys who came in to money who are not alphas and have no power. They usually sport fat chicks.

    Of course chicks will deny that they all want a powerful guy. They may even go so far as to admit it but claim to be the exception, but if you put them to the test, they'll go for the alpha as well.

    So it really just comes down to who has the most confidence and that indicates perceived power.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Honkey_Kong View Post
    Lately, I haven't been giving a shit about shaving/combing my hair or even shaving my face for that matter.

    But OP, chicks don't really give a shit about any of that crap you listed anyways. They give a shit about one thing... Power. The alpha gets the girls. Chicks would rather be one of the alpha's many rather than the passive guy's one. Money is usually a symptom of power so rich guys often get hot chicks, but there are guys who came in to money who are not alphas and have no power. They usually sport fat chicks.

    Of course chicks will deny that they all want a powerful guy. They may even go so far as to admit it but claim to be the exception, but if you put them to the test, they'll go for the alpha as well.

    So it really just comes down to who has the most confidence and that indicates perceived power.
    You nailed it HK!

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    So I went to the source. I asked my wife to answer honestly. She said that what women want from a man is to be treated well. I said, "so if he was ugly and treated you well, then it would be ok"? "No!" she stated. "He would still have to be good looking". I then asked if he was good looking and treated you well but couldn't get/hold a job or worked at McDonalds then it would be ok? "No!" she stated. "He would still have to be able to have a decent job and show that he had ambition, goals and offered security".

    "I see", I said. So what you are really saying is that what women REALLY want in a man, is EVERYTHING? She paused, grinned, giggled and exclaimed "uh.......yeah"!

    There you have it. Right from the horses mouth. Women want it ALL!

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    All women want to feel "security."

    2 types of women----1) controllers 2) non-controllers

    1. Controllers want to control their men. They pick dudes they can wrap around their fingers. They have full access to his checkbook, etc. This gives them security.

    2. NC's want a man who will take the lead. They feel security from these types of men.

    All Women want a Man who will take care of them....financially and emotionally.

    Show them that you can do that...and you are in the running....for a piece of arse and maybe a good meal now and then.

    ;-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Honkey_Kong
    Lately, I haven't been giving a shit about shaving/combing my hair or even shaving my face for that matter. But OP, chicks don't really give a shit about any of that crap you listed anyways. They give a shit about one thing... Power. The alpha gets the girls. Chicks would rather be one of the alpha's many rather than the passive guy's one. Money is usually a symptom of power so rich guys often get hot chicks, but there are guys who came in to money who are not alphas and have no power. They usually sport fat chicks. Of course chicks will deny that they all want a powerful guy. They may even go so far as to admit it but claim to be the exception, but if you put them to the test, they'll go for the alpha as well. So it really just comes down to who has the most confidence and that indicates perceived power.
    Have you been watching House Of Cards? Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    What a woman really wants is a man with more money than she can spend.
    Yep, you summed it up. Short and to the point

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    I have all but the abs but my wife won't let me date anymore
    So I usually carry a stick to keep the women at distance

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1 View Post
    So I went to the source. I asked my wife to answer honestly. She said that what women want from a man is to be treated well. I said, "so if he was ugly and treated you well, then it would be ok"? "No!" she stated. "He would still have to be good looking". I then asked if he was good looking and treated you well but couldn't get/hold a job or worked at McDonalds then it would be ok? "No!" she stated. "He would still have to be able to have a decent job and show that he had ambition, goals and offered security".

    "I see", I said. So what you are really saying is that what women REALLY want in a man, is EVERYTHING? She paused, grinned, giggled and exclaimed "uh.......yeah"!

    There you have it. Right from the horses mouth. Women want it ALL!
    Yup, that's what all women want; but they will settle for the guy with the money and forgot the rest up to a point (being treated bad) or at least for a while, long enough to get a good divorce settlement.

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    train them right and you wont need anything from the list...i kid i kid

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    I agree with LB wholeheartedly. MANY MANY MANY women have sugar daddies now. This doesn't necessarily mean that they are fvcking them but I know several women in their 20's that have some sort of older guy who buys them stuff, takes them on vacations, pays their bills, etc..I blame it on social media. I'm starting to think that most girls post up scandalous photos of themselves to catch the attention of some rich guy. A girl may hook up with a good looking guy who makes okay money, but he will never fulfill her financial needs if she's had a previous rich boyfriend before. I have a female friend who met this wealthy guy on facebook. She sends him a couple pictures in lingerie and dominates him over the phone (never met him- has not even skyped him) and he paypals her a ton of $ weekly..Facebook is turning into a damn borderline escorting network.

    With a few exceptions, it seems like any attractive woman single past the age of 26 is a damaged good. She's single for a reason...
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    "Women believe in what they hear and men believe in what they see, that's why men lie and women wear make up." - Vinny The Chin

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rwy View Post
    train them right and you wont need anything from the list...i kid i kid
    Now you are preaching what I have been saying for years. Not kidding, you have to raise them right. They are still trainable in their late teens; Some of them.

    There are exceptions to every rule of course. No not ALL women are like this and most dont THINK they are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    Now you are preaching what I have been saying for years. Not kidding, you have to raise them right. They are still trainable in their late teens; Some of them.

    There are exceptions to every rule of course. No not ALL women are like this and most dont THINK they are.
    Every woman I've ever met claimed to NOT be like those women. And they would argue with me that not all women are like that. Maybe those broads were right, maybe there are decent women out there. They sure as fvck weren't.

    One day, I'll meet a hot chick that isn't some gold-digging whore with self-esteem issues. Maybe.....

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    Unless you have roast beef curtains how can we say what women want?

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    Quote Originally Posted by DSM4Life View Post
    Unless you have roast beef curtains how can we say what women want?
    Ive read it 3 time and still dont get it.

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    I did the same thing lunk did and asked a woman what they really want in a man. The woman told be $100 bills but then again she is a stripper.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    Ive read it 3 time and still dont get it.

    How can men say what women want. We have women here ask them!

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    Quote Originally Posted by DSM4Life View Post
    How can men say what women want. We have women here ask them!
    Because none of them will tell you the truth or at least not directly. Just like when Lunk1 asked his wife expecting a straight answer. He still had to dig down to find out the truth.

    They say/think one thing but truth be told it's very different from what they really want when you get down to brass tacks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by diesel101 View Post
    I did the same thing lunk did and asked a woman what they really want in a man. The woman told be $100 bills but then again she is a stripper.
    Probably not the most reliable source lol

    Women are an enigma, they want to be provided for but want to be independent they want a man to mind them but also want to stand by themselves they don't know what they want ever ever

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    Because none of them will tell you the truth or at least not directly. Just like when Lunk1 asked his wife expecting a straight answer. He still had to dig down to find out the truth.

    They say/think one thing but truth be told it's very different from what they really want when you get down to brass tacks.
    Maybe not even women know!

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    Quote Originally Posted by DSM4Life View Post
    Maybe not even women know!
    probably closer to the truth than any answer ive read.

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    Quote Originally Posted by --->>405<<--- View Post
    probably closer to the truth than any answer ive read.
    Agreed, they dont know what the hell they want how can we. They want it all if they can get it, just like the rest of us!

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    Ok, I'll treat this seriously.

    I know my wife like to be appreciated, loved and listened to. If she have done something at home, at work or anywhere for that matter I always take the time to tell her I like it and let her talk about it. Honestly, anyone who thinks our bodies, and material things will matter when you both are 80+ needs to get their head examined.

    Just my 2c.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    Now you are preaching what I have been saying for years. Not kidding, you have to raise them right. They are still trainable in their late teens; Some of them.

    There are exceptions to every rule of course. No not ALL women are like this and most dont THINK they are.

    When I met my fiancee she was 25 and I was 30. She was the youngest of four girls and an accident. The age difference between her and her older sister is 12 years. When we firsts started dating I was surprised she could tie her shoes on her own.

    A lot of fights and a lot of growing but I am glad I stuck it out and even more glad she steped up to the challenge. She gets treated like a princess but a princess to me is buying flowers, supporting her, taking her out to eat, trying to make her feel protected and secure. However she must pull her own weight financially and helping around our place. We both cook, clean and walk the dog. We take care of one another. A princess is not a girl who sits on her ass and says happy wife happy life. The only girl in my eyes that gets away with that is one that looks like a Victoria Secret Model and none of us are dating victoria secret models...lol

    My fiancee now is independent, confident and is an executive vp (I know they give those titles to everyone now) for a major corporation. She has learned how to take care of herself, me and the dog lol. I joke with her all the time that she is lucky she was trainable

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    Quote Originally Posted by tarmyg View Post
    Ok, I'll treat this seriously.

    I know my wife like to be appreciated, loved and listened to. If she have done something at home, at work or anywhere for that matter I always take the time to tell her I like it and let her talk about it. Honestly, anyone who thinks our bodies, and material things will matter when you both are 80+ needs to get their head examined.

    Just my 2c.

    ~T
    Listening is def important. That was a and still can be a weakness of mine in my relationship. Someitmes I can be a little selfish but she reminds me and then I try harder to listen better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bronzer View Post
    I agree with LB wholeheartedly. MANY MANY MANY women have sugar daddies now. This doesn't necessarily mean that they are fvcking them but I know several women in their 20's that have some sort of older guy who buys them stuff, takes them on vacations, pays their bills, etc..I blame it on social media. I'm starting to think that most girls post up scandalous photos of themselves to catch the attention of some rich guy. A girl may hook up with a good looking guy who makes okay money, but he will never fulfill her financial needs if she's had a previous rich boyfriend before. I have a female friend who met this wealthy guy on facebook. She sends him a couple pictures in lingerie and dominates him over the phone (never met him- has not even skyped him) and he paypals her a ton of $ weekly..Facebook is turning into a damn borderline escorting network.

    With a few exceptions, it seems like any attractive woman single past the age of 26 is a damaged good. She's single for a reason...


    I think women dont mature enough to start dating until 25 its funny you think they are damaged goods lol

    I guess its relative to where you live. In NYC people are single and doing their thing on a nightly basis regardless of how old they are. Its hard to get tied down when you are surronded by so many options....

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