What do you regret about steroid use?

[musclestack]

I'm not sure if the op is serious here, but here's a FACT when it comes to getting bullied. Bullies will only bully when they KNOW you won't fight back (they most likely picked this up from your personality and not the way you look). Usually, bullying comes from people you know. All you have to do is fight back ONCE. You don't even have to win. But once they know you're going to fight back, you're no longer an easy target. They will think long and hard about bullying you again. The word will spread very quickly, and it will deter others you know to not ever f**k with you.

I'm not a big fan of fighting. Usually it's a result of people suffering from Napolean Complex (most bullies) that have something to prove, but when enough is enough you have to stand up for yourself. The above is how I would deal with someone I know who is just trying to be a d**k. Nowadays, if a stranger came up to me and wanted to start s**t, he can expect a 9mm round to the leg. I don't have time to deal with "tough guys"; I'll neutralize that threat very quickly.

[dfarre]

I'm not sure if the op is serious here, but here's a FACT when it comes to getting bullied. Bullies will only bully when they KNOW you won't fight back (they most likely picked this up from your personality and not the way you look). Usually, bullying comes from people you know. All you have to do is fight back ONCE. You don't even have to win. But once they know you're going to fight back, you're no longer an easy target. They will think long and hard about bullying you again. The word will spread very quickly, and it will deter others you know to not ever f**k with you.

I'm not a big fan of fighting. Usually it's a result of people suffering from Napolean Complex (most bullies) that have something to prove, but when enough is enough you have to stand up for yourself. The above is how I would deal with someone I know who is just trying to be a d**k. Nowadays, if a stranger came up to me and wanted to start s**t, he can expect a 9mm round to the leg. I don't have time to deal with "tough guys"; I'll neutralize that threat very quickly.

I agree, but not fully. I was also one of the poorest kids in school so everyone knew I couldn't do anything back. It was mostly rich kids that bullied me and athletes from like 5 year above me, so fighting back would have resulted in me in hospital and my mom in court.

[musclestack]

I agree, but not fully. I was also one of the poorest kids in school so everyone knew I couldn't do anything back. It was mostly rich kids that bullied me and athletes from like 5 year above me, so fighting back would have resulted in me in hospital and my mom in court.

So you can't fight rich kids? Like I said, you don't even have to win. So you end up in the hospital; that sucks, but chances are they're not going to do it again when they know you're going to fight back. Besides, who do you think the court is going to side with when they see you in the hospital and you tell them that you were being bullied and were defending yourself? Even if the rich parents lawyer up and win the case, if they DO come back and bully you again, you just keep fighting back. Sooner or later, the kids' parents are going to get tired of going to court. I'm not condoning violence here, but you have to stand up for yourself. If push comes to shove, a tire iron is your friend. Trust me, they'll stop.

[dfarre]

So you can't fight rich kids? Like I said, you don't even have to win. So you end up in the hospital; that sucks, but chances are they're not going to do it again when they know you're going to fight back. Besides, who do you think the court is going to side with when they see you in the hospital and you tell them that you were being bullied and were defending yourself? Even if the rich parents lawyer up and win the case, if they DO come back and bully you again, you just keep fighting back. Sooner or later, the kids' parents are going to get tired of going to court. I'm not condoning violence here, but you have to stand up for yourself. If push comes to shove, a tire iron is your friend. Trust me, they'll stop.

In my country court sides with the one who has the most money, don't even need a lawyer just pay straight to the judge.
The dudes that bullied me were 5 years older and twice as heavy and muscular, I would have had no chance if I tried, that's the one and only reason why I got into lifting. Yet only now, like 8 years later, I'm at their level.