
Originally Posted by
tarmyg
This is your second question around this girl. First the hand holding and now the virginity issue.
1. If she was forced to have sex previously SHE is the victim and asking her what she did about it is NOT the right way to go. Realize that most people date before marriage, even in this part of the world and most are not virgins at marriage.
2. Taking your other thread into account you will need to grow some serious self-confidence. Doubting everything a woman has to say at all times and being suspicious some extremely detrimental and not a way to move forward. All issues to are raising are about you and your perception. Realize that the world, rarely, revolves around you and most things simply happen without regards or due to anything you had any involvement in.