OP, why not have your girlfriend sign up and get access to the women's forum? She could talk with the female members, bounce ideas off of them, and take advantage of their experience.
I'm seeing what I consider to be a ridiculously high dosage for a female being suggested.
There are 3 loves in my life: my wife, my English mastiffs, and my weightlifting....Man, my wife gets really pissed when I get the 3 confused...
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