"Dating" a Party Chick

[neardark]

Natty... I,m not saying that it works all the time... but having a few girls around always helps...

When a girl sees you, or hear that you have girls dating you, you automaticly look better in her mind because she's looking at you thinking, this guy seduces other women (whats so special about him?)...

Without even thinking about it, (I mean "subconsciencetly") they want to be the one who's gonna win the contest. lolllllllll

In that contest, you might find the right girl for you if its not her...

The rest is all in your hands... if you dont mess-up it should work...

[Natty99]

Natty... I,m not saying that it works all the time... but having a few girls around always helps...

When a girl sees you, or hear that you have girls dating you, you automaticly look better in her mind because she's looking at you thinking, this guy seduces other women (whats so special about him?)...

Without even thinking about it, (I mean "subconsciencetly") they want to be the one who's gonna win the contest. lolllllllll

In that contest, you might find the right girl for you if its not her...

The rest is all in your hands... if you dont mess-up it should work...

Thanks Bro

[bigfish]

Fvck her and chuck her. She's trouble, guranteed.

Exactly. can't turn a hoe into a house wife, hoes don't act right -luda

[neardark]

I would definitley have to agree with this. Also,lots of booze+relationship=doesn't work especially if she's out and about all the time, she is not going to exactly be worried about your feelings while shes hammered. Like others have said, find a nice girl who's done partying

Agreed too... which is why I suggest to go out with other girls... but flushing her out might not be the best for him... cause I maried a girl that was like that....

By going out with other girls, not only you get more confortable talking to them (not affraid of ending up alone if it doesn't work).... but you wont act like a looser who needs her... and thats something that must not happend...

If shes not for him, she'll go... but if she loves him... believe me, she'll start passing alot more around... and she'll do what she has to do to have him.

If she goes, the guy will still have friends to go out and maybe one of the others is gonna be the wright girl for him

[Schmidty]

I wouldnt even go. Girls like that are fun for a night not a relationship. She may be a real cool girl but she isnt going to change overnight or even anytime soon. Just save yourself some trouble and just have fun with her nothing more.

I agree.

[Schmidty]

Exactly. can't turn a hoe into a house wife, hoes don't act right -luda

unless your ho is somebody elses house wife

[MAXIMA5]

I realize it's hard to turn down a hook-up, especially when the chick is smokin hot. If you honestly 100% believe you can just hook up with her without getting attached or trying to change her and save her from her wicked ways, then go for it.

If you are like me, and will probably try to force the relationship at some point, then don' do it. Been there, done that.

[Hunter]

If you are a member of this board you probably leave a healthy lifestyle and are a very goal orientated person I dont see why you would want to bring someone/something negative in to your life. You can go and and still lead a healthy life style but I doubt she would respect your choices or your lifestyle. Forget it and move on

[Schmidty]

Just smash her a few more times and then llet her go

[D-Bo Dre]

Natty... I,m not saying that it works all the time... but having a few girls around always helps...

When a girl sees you, or hear that you have girls dating you, you automaticly look better in her mind because she's looking at you thinking, this guy seduces other women (whats so special about him?)...

Without even thinking about it, (I mean "subconsciencetly") they want to be the one who's gonna win the contest. lolllllllll

In that contest, you might find the right girl for you if its not her...

The rest is all in your hands... if you dont mess-up it should work...

I agree.. But how would he let that chick know she is not the only one?? I dont think bragging to her that he has all these girls sweating him would be the smartest thing to do.. He might look like a player..

[Schmidty]

If you are a member of this board you probably leave a healthy lifestyle and are a very goal orientated person I dont see why you would want to bring someone/something negative in to your life. You can go and and still lead a healthy life style but I doubt she would respect your choices or your lifestyle. Forget it and move on

very good point

[Hunter]

Negativity is like a snowball it builds and gains momentum. I see this has bringing someone/something negative into your life. Ok you go out and get pissed(+1 negativity) your work suffers cause your mind is on other things(+2 negativity) you guys makes up and you go out stay out to long cause your worried about her fvcking other guys and your body suffers(+3 negativity). Now I know I can and I am sure other people can walk into the gym and put all those things on the back burner but negativity is a huge snowball effect surround yourself with postive people and positive things and you will have a positive effect on your life you do the opposite negative things will come. Forget her and find someone else.

[MAXIMA5]

excellent point. I've been there before and nothing good can come from it.

[Hunter]

Here I was with a my longtime g/f of 7 years. We broke up I could take her back but she has been making negative life choices. I talked to her cause I cared but would not take her back for 2 reasons one does not apply to this sitution: Ex is an ex for a reason and 2 negative energy. You dont need negative energy in your life no ones does just forget her.

[Natty99]

If you are a member of this board you probably leave a healthy lifestyle and are a very goal orientated person I dont see why you would want to bring someone/something negative in to your life. You can go and and still lead a healthy life style but I doubt she would respect your choices or your lifestyle. Forget it and move on

I hear you man. I guess main reason i'm even interested is that she is so much fun to hang out with and is just bursting with energy. (my last girl was a dud) Not to mention she's really hot. But I do hear you man

[MAXIMA5]

even a good girl will mind-**** you every now and then, which sucks. Just imagine being dragged down by someone like this chick.

[Natty99]

I realize it's hard to turn down a hook-up, especially when the chick is smokin hot. If you honestly 100% believe you can just hook up with her without getting attached or trying to change her and save her from her wicked ways, then go for it.

If you are like me, and will probably try to force the relationship at some point, then don' do it. Been there, done that.

Hopefully I can just play it cool, continue my life of work and working out and maybe hang out/bang out this chick every once in a while

[Natty99]

even a good girl will mind-**** you every now and then, which sucks. Just imagine being dragged down by someone like this chick.

Yeah bro, now I'm definitely not looking to pursue anything long-term or even semi-serious with this chick.

No good, would likely come of it.

[D-Bo Dre]

I hear you man. I guess main reason i'm even interested is that she is so much fun to hang out with and is just bursting with energy. (my last girl was a dud) Not to mention she's really hot. But I do hear you man

have u ever told her that she was really fun to hang out with?? you might be blowing her head up if you admit sh*t like that.. Girls like compliments but be careful not too dish off too many..

[MAXIMA5]

Or you could ask her why she's never had a steady meaningful relationship.

[Hunter]

I hear you man. I guess main reason i'm even interested is that she is so much fun to hang out with and is just bursting with energy. (my last girl was a dud) Not to mention she's really hot. But I do hear you man

Well she may be bursting with energy but does she use it for anything positive? it seems like her main/only concern is partying. She also cant even be upfront about what your getting into which is very murky territory. Lets say you continue to "see" her and you meet someone else which fits your ideas of a girl you want to date and bring home to mom and dad. Are you going to have to say I have a g/f or are you going say I have a f&ck buddy? You could lie but chances are she will find out whether a slip from a friend or yourself and secondly your starting the relantionship out on a lie and that will never work out(I mean if you met someone else) this woman seems more like trouble then anything dont pursue it.

[Act of God]

She sounds like every girl I've dated recently, Long Island?

[needmorestrength]

I wouldnt even go. Girls like that are fun for a night not a relationship. She may be a real cool girl but she isnt going to change overnight or even anytime soon. Just save yourself some trouble and just have fun with her nothing more.

Agree'd...Go tomorrow.. with this in mind "im here to get drunk and take her home" then dont call her after, let her call you

[Hard Head]

I would go. If her friend starts pawing her, I'd say, out loud, so the friend hears it and there is no mistake as to what you are saying "Are going to have a three way tonight with this dude?" If she says yes, then go with it, if she doesn't answer or says "what?", then ask her if she's got a hearing problem. If you don't get the response you wanted, grab another girl right away.

This chick shouds like a slut so treat her as such. Make her chase you.

[collar]

[Timm1704]

alot of great advice here. beast has it sorted, if you dont seem interested, she will start wondering why. it will go either way: she will start chasing you. or, she will move on. which, wont be a problem to you, as i believe if you try and make yourself uninterested (before the feelings get too strong) for long enough, you wont be that interested anyway

[Natty99]

alot of great advice here. beast has it sorted, if you dont seem interested, she will start wondering why. it will go either way: she will start chasing you. or, she will move on. which, wont be a problem to you, as i believe if you try and make yourself uninterested (before the feelings get too strong) for long enough, you wont be that interested anyway

Thanks Brother. i'm definitely going to try to play disintrested around her, talk to her friends, etc. Hopefully she chases me right into bed again!!!!!

[MAXIMA5]

You should ignore her completely until she approaches you and asks what's wrong.

The you should calmly say, "I'm just keeping my eyes peeled for a chick that isnt a FILTHY DEPRAVED CUMDUMPSTER. Have you seen any?"

[Mizfit]

Here I was with a my longtime g/f of 7 years. We broke up I could take her back but she has been making negative life choices. I talked to her cause I cared but would not take her back for 2 reasons one does not apply to this sitution: Ex is an ex for a reason and 2 negative energy. You dont need negative energy in your life no ones does just forget her.

well put

[big L 17]

if shes already giving u problems dont do it

[neardark]

Yeah!!!!! a nude one!

[Superhuman]

go with her and beat it up tonight... keep hitting it as long as u want a continue to date other people. if this girl suddenly grows up and is ready for a relationship then pursue it but until then just have fun! go to the party - don't sit @ home all alone and whack off - that's no fun!

[Rye_guy]

sounds like this relationship will lead to alot of jellousy, can you handle being jellous all the time, not knowing what her motives are or what shes doin when your not around?

trust is one thing, but you have to be worthy of that trust in the first place. wild women are certainly not trustworhty

[bigbouncinballs]

"Oh I forgot to tell you, my friend Rick always has his hands all over me"
=
SEE YA!

[Natty99]

UpdateYeah, so we went out tonight. We hit a couple of bars. I was following her around like a puppy dog. Then she just leaves me at a bar by myself. What a drunken whore!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I still really want to hit one more time. A good anger-bang. This girl is such a drunken pirate hooker.

[Natty99]

"Oh I forgot to tell you, my friend Rick always has his hands all over me"
=
SEE YA!

You're right that should have been enough to make me stay home tonight!

[kloter1]

Party girls are all ive really delt with. basically most of them have alot of guy friends, are pretty wild and drama/chaos follows. trying to date her or see her exclusively is the wrong way to go about it.

hang out with her, booze it up and try to nail it. if thats what your plan is.

[Superhuman]

UpdateYeah, so we went out tonight. We hit a couple of bars. I was following her around like a puppy dog. Then she just leaves me at a bar by myself. What a drunken whore!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I still really want to hit one more time. A good anger-bang. This girl is such a drunken pirate hooker.

holy ****ing shit what a bitch!

[MAXIMA5]

Just cut out the following her around like a puppydog routine next time.

Who drove, out of curiosity?
If she's just bringing you along for a ride, you need to kick this skank in the teeth.

[Timm1704]

f.ck her off mate, its going nowhere