Six weeks is not very long. How much do you really know about her? How much does she know about you? I'm assuming you haven't lived together...If I were in your shoes, I'd enjoy the new relationship and see where it goes.
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Six weeks is not very long. How much do you really know about her? How much does she know about you? I'm assuming you haven't lived together...If I were in your shoes, I'd enjoy the new relationship and see where it goes.
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Okay, maybe I spoke too quick before. After thinking about it long and hard I realized that I felt the same way when I was busting a nut in your girl!
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20? is that you in your ava? how long have you bene cycling for, you are ****ing huge bro.
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Yeah, I turn 21 next year, thanks for the compliment. I 1st started juicing at 16 and took big breaks in-between my cycles. I attribute most of my growth to hard work and good diet, because everytime I go on all I seem to do is gain water-weight, acne, and a bad temper! lolOriginally Posted by odix
Right now I'm gonna take a LONG break from AAS, although I may run some HGH and IGF-1.
"body piercing & body jewelry expert"
Sup, you are going to fuk up, she is perfect because she came along at a time in your life that is now but it will fade and you will be in hell
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35 is a good age to start with the kids. Marrying her is one thing but kids are another. Think about it and nut on her stomach for christ sake.
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Thanks for all the input, that was a very nice post Mavs. Goodcents I know you're lau***ng at me but seriously I am a different person now, I'm ready for this! I'm done being a man-whore, PLUS my girl now has the sweetest most beautiful "flower" I've ever encountered... GAWD I could smell it and eat it all day long.
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my boy was a marine. he said on base, when the husbands are gone, the wives/girlfriends **** around with everybody (with VERY FEW EXCEPTIONS). thats not what you need. especially with a hot wife, dont think your best buds wont be dropping in trying to **** her. dont think not you for a second.
you dont need to go to iraq with your attention anywhere else than you and your unit.
your 20 and believe me, my best friend since kindergarten is 29 like me, has 3 kids, makes over 300k a year (runs a family business) and his wife still has to work to afford living. the money your talking about is chump change when kids are in the equation.
your 20. youve known her 6 weeks. ive been with my wife nearly 8 years (dating and marriage) and we are still not ready for kids.
please think about your decision. women can be animals when they feel jaded. you dont want to be fighting for your kid when you realize you didnt really know this chic and she is taking all your cash and not allowing you to be with your child. there is alot at stake with kids and rushing it is a terrible idea.
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Dont go diving in head first and running full steam bud. Take a second to breathe and enjoy eachother. If she loves you, she will wait for you while you are serving Dont worry about dying, and play that mind set. Focus on living and coming back home to start a family with her when you come back. If things are meant to be then they will happen, but dont drop loads in her in hopes of getting her pregnant just so you can keep her or have a little bit left in this world. Thats all for the wrong reason.
abstrack@protonmail.com
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I guess you're right, I am being pretty selfish. That would be shitty to die and leave my kid behind without a father...
I have always had a problem of going 0-150 if I really like something. Drive is both a blessing and a curse, I really hope I don't drive her away because I'm moving so fast but I know she really loves me as she asked me to come back to Texas with her to meet her whole family and all her friends at home. I would do anything to keep her she is the best thing that ever happened to me
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^^Now you're thinking with the right head bro. Now for fucks sake start using a jimmy hat.
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I know I haven't been on a lot lately, due in part to quite a few things.
1. I got fired from the club I worked at for over a year because the manage caught me with a female in the VIP at the end of the night. Now i'm working at the rival club on the other side of town. It's pretty cool at the new place though because I pretty much have free reign to do what I want and I'm choking people out and throwing 'em out nightly lol.
2. I FINALLY ended things with my ex and we are on very bad terms. She can go suck an egg...
3. I met the most wonderful and perfect woman I could ever have asked for and fallen in love with her. She looks like a playboy bunny (blonde, great shape, big breasts), she's VERY smart, and she's a very good girl (she hasn't slept around at all).
4. I have decided to STOP all AAS use indefinitely as I started to experience erection problems and that is completely unacceptable! I just finished a PCT of clomid and HCG, and I'm about to get that Novadex supp from Gaspari Nutrition as well.
5. I started Muay Thai kickboxing and I LOVE it, I'm doing it 4 times a week and it's still not enough. Too bad the Air Force won't let me fight
ANYHOW... as for the title of this thread, I know I'm only 20 but I have this urging, overwhelming desire to get married and have kids... to start a family. Part of it may be that I fear dieing in Iraq and I want to leave something behind... who knows but the fact is I feel the need to. I feel I have outgrown my party days and my man-whore days. This girl I'm with is PERFECT for me. I had sex with her the last 2 times and didn't wear a condom AND came inside her. She isn't on birth control. Part of me is telling me I'm crazy, yet part of me feels this is right. I'm so confused. Has anyone ever felt like this before?
You have alot of living to do yet, your getting yourself into a lot of trouble in my opinion. You may not want to hear it, but most people have felt the way you have, DO NOT GET HER PREGGO.
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exactly, u and i are the same age superhuman and i felt the same way last year about somebody and she did about me...long story short...soooo fvcking glad i made the right decision now...
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Off topic, but cookiemonsteR where did you lose your lats.
jk, your arms are looking pretty big
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i have the same problem as him...i do wide pullups, wide barbell rows, wide lat pulldowns, nothing seems to make them come out!
sorry for the thread hijack, seems like its slowing down tho lol.
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Its part of life, Im sure we have all been there at one time or another. But believe me you really dont know this girl that well. You say you have spent all day and night with her in 6 weeks. It's called infatuation, its as easy as that. You haven't lived with her, had to split bills with her, had to go to Christmas parties at her parents house or had to stay home from going out with the guys cuz she wants you to stay in and take care of the kid.
I personally think threads like this are pointless, you are not going to listen to anything we say, I can see it from yuor posts. You have a comeback for every piece of advice people have given so far. So you clearly are just set in thinkin well ya your guys girls didnt work out but mine will. I mean thats what EVERYONE says, I have said it in my past at least 3 times.
And when I did take it slower and not worry about this crap and be all infatuated and think oh lets get married lets have kids, when I just relaxed and never really tried then I found a great girl and things were much more comfortable and I never had to worry about getting her pregnant just to keep her.
Just take it slow, if she is the one than she certainly isnt going anywhere.
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no need to rush man, im 22 and was with a girl for 4 years
right when i started to feel the things you are now we started to grow apart and eventually broke up. i had accepted the fact that this was the last girl i was going to ever be with and couldnt imagine myself back in the hunt
do yourself a favor and research the cost of a new child, and think about how your girl will feel raising a new child by herself. if your heart is set on having a child (which it doesnt sound like hers is) at least wait until you are around to raise it with her and not overseas.
take it slow, a child will change everything you have now with her...enjoy going out with her at night an having the freedom to do anything you want b4 u throw a child in the mix
take everyones advice and slow it down
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20 yrs old you are still just a baby yourself (emotionally)... you have no idea what you want yet.
Trust us... 20-25 will feel like a lifetime of emotional growth.
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Ohh hell noh, you better put that helmet back on soldier!!!!!
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You're still young man just dont make any hasty decisions, albeit you are the ultimate decider as to what and when you shall do things. Just be ready for the commitment, unconditional support and responsibilities in perpetuity. Also becareful as to making decisions based on emotions.
~VET~ Extraordinaire~
But where there is a will there is a way shouldn't be the attitude to being able to afford a child
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Superhuman, how old is she? How far do You guys live from each other?
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She's almost 24. Right now she lives about 15 minutes away, but next month we are driving back to Texas together (she's moving back to finish school). I'm gonna fly back home after a week or so and then we'll continue to visit each other until I leave for Basic in San Antonio, then I have tech school in Florida. After Tech school we talked about her staying with me on base and teaching horseback-riding lessons and barrel racing.
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I feel the same bro i been with this girl for like 4 weeks and we finally had unprotective sex and came on her twice on the same night, i feel she is the right one and just wanna keep her she is crazy too in love with me and wants to move in and live with me by january, is crazy how we meet over myspace and i have to drive everyother week like 3 to 4 hrs to her town to see her, but i say **** it just do it and hope loves maintains the same!!!
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LOL that's funny. At least somebody kind-of gets me, that's great that you guys are getting along so well. I think everybody is right though, it wouldn't be smart to have a kid so soon - and her and I both want to be married before we have children. I don't know what I was thinking, but Cumming inside her WITH her while we both said we loved each other was the most amazing sexual experience I've ever had
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3. I met the most wonderful and perfect woman I could ever have asked for and fallen in love with her. She looks like a playboy bunny (blonde, great shape, big breasts), she's VERY smart, and she's a very good girl (she hasn't slept around at all).
POst pic
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Good God you guys are young!!!! I thought I was young at my age, but you guys are just pups. You have no idea about this love stuff is... Some of you are still getting over your high school sweet hearts!
Be smart and don't knock anyone up yet!
Ron Paul Nuthugger
*Note*
Remember this thread when Rockhardman & SuperHuman make a post in the future talking about the breakup/seperation.
***No source checks!!!***
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Haha... Lets make it a sticky now so we can get to it easier in two weeks when we will have to talk him down off of a ledge.
"body piercing & body jewelry expert"
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She's going to planned parenthood today to get Emergency Contraception! No problems... we will wait. I love her and she loves me but we both know this is definitely too soon for a child.
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So hold up. You have sex with her cum inside her (without condom/being on birth control) and then send her to a clinic to kil.... i mean have "Emergency Contraception!" Are you 20 or 12 ?
Honestly i normally don't rag on people but you are playing with a life like its a goldfish. One day you want it then the next you flush it down the toilet.
If i am going to be the only one to come out and say it so be it but grow the @#$# up.
Last edited by DSM4Life; 07-18-2007 at 04:32 PM.
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Look man, I'm Catholic but I don't believe the Morning After Pill is killing anything... it is PREVENTING conception. No life has begun, it keeps it from happening. BY THE WAY, it was her idea and I supported her with it. I would have been happy to just wait and see what happens but it was her choice. I don't think she would have been pregnant anyway, as she JUST had her period and women ovulate typically about 2 weeks before there cycle.
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Not everyone my share your views on this, and in my opinion he acting grown up and has made the more mature decision here by getting this morning after pill after what we will call "a temporary lapse in judgment"
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BTW... I don't know if this has been covered yet but how old is this girl Superhuman?
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Congrats on y'alls decision to wait.
It sounds to me, that you are going thru a time in your life(becoming mature)and you are making major life changing decisions. You have chosen the military life for atleast a short time. That's a big step in the right direction. You stated you have/are changing your wild ways. Was it because of meeting the girl or before? Either is good. Your brain is working with a new sensation, a meaningful relationship. It can release some sweat endorphins. I saw where she is 24 and wasn't to primiscuous. She sounds like someone that stays in a relationship, but for whatever reason, went the other way from them. Explore why? I am by no means saying there is something wrong with it, but, a great, sweat, 24yr old, happy, and go-lucky women is hard to fine. If you want to keep her, slow things down and learn everything you can about her and her past relationships(as much as she will divulge).
Remember even if it doesn't work out(and hopefully it will work out), that you will walk away a better man, with a relationship on what it felt to have LOVE in your life.
Just tell her you want to kiss all the places everyone forgot to kiss.
~VET~ Extraordinaire~
Nobody better say thast to one of my ex's
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Haha, why? Because she would probably say that there is a no such spot?
~VET~ Extraordinaire~
I was thinking about and i cant think of a spotHaha, why? Because she would probably say that there is a no such spot?
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Good job, that's how it's done right! Nothing new to impress her with anymore.
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